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Posted: 8 years ago
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There are numerous examples of great mothers in Indian culture who didn't give birth to the child they raised. The most prominent one is Yashoda and Krishna. To be a mother you need to have the heart of one. Ishwari may have given birth to all, but in truest sense, she is not mother of even one of her children. She keeps citing examples of motherhood. But mothers are never selfish. People who truly love someone always put the other person first. Ishwari always puts herself, her wants, her desires, her needs, her image before everyone else including Dev.

I am waiting for the infertility report being revealed. But if I have to believe, Dev will not reveal it on his own. It will somehow come out in front of someone else and they will all heap blame on Sonakshi. Didn't you see today how quick they are to assume not have children for five years was Sonakshi's idea? As if Dev is a baby who does everything Sonakshi says. Well, he does, but not what Sonakshi says. He does everything Ishwari says. If anything Sonakshi has absolutely negligible influence over Dev's decision if not none.



Originally posted by: aarcha

Well described about all the mothers, tia . U've included neha too though she's like a surrogate (substitute ) mother . Agreed , motherhood is a special feeling but that's n't the only supreme thing . Anybody with a compassionate heart & good nature can b a good mother . It's n't necessary that u shud biologically produce offsprings , then only u'll get that feeling of motherhood. v can cite so many examples from our surroundings. But yes , very orthodox people find it difficult to digest. They'll keep on ranting about this one of a kind motherhood. Even v knew stories of mothers who dumped their children for their own pleasure n wat nt ..unfortunately .

V can undestand y this usage of "agar tum maa banogi, tab pata chalegi... " makin path for another torture track..exclusively for sonakshi ...infertility !! Then pre nup !! Horrible days r ahead . Then the romance of KRPKAB will sing to the TRP drama of KRP... " tu muchme muchse zyada hai ..." 🤪

I'm nt going to say anything bout mamaji 's kachori n sona's kachori. The less said, the better . About grand children...first stop using dev's bed room as a living room.. anybody can barge anytime for any reason.. even a 100 % fertile uterus won't do any miracle , if conditions r such that. Put a "do nt disturb " board outside written in both english n hindi .

Having said these, i want dev to open his mouth n reveal about the medical report to sona. But drama missing ?? So hre it goes ...neha seeing the reports somehow...reports the same to maa n GKB...they reveal to sona... sona confronts dev... rift bet them.. sona goes to mayka... ish maa sends prenup papers ... sona shocks to c dev's sign n sends it bak ( i've no idea about the validity of prenup..i'm sorry ) ...dev in shock seeing his OWN signature...learns his maa tricked...breakage of Goddess facade of maa...shattered dev goes to sona...( sona is mahaan , remember ) forgetting n forgiving...duo bak to dixit mansion... a changed & understanding mil..the END ! All can go to sleep with a smile 😆

Let's c how this infertility issue is handled...still it's a very sensitive issue in our society..evry time the blame goes to the girls only. Sona has now become a synonym for problems . V can say now..." i've lots of sonas in my life" . Every problems will lands only on female leads in most of our shows . Now ayan too.. Anyways, i still watching this as this is the only show i follows .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks. 😊 Yes, Vicky seems to be giving all appearance of being in love. And Elena might just be the correct dose of medicine for Radha. But Vicky is Radha's son. So I don't trust him. The way he talks to Sonakshi is the way decent people don't even talk to their domestic help. He has no guts to speak like that with Sona in front of his family. But he threats her in private. That is the work of a bully. I personally hate bullies who pick on others. Radha and Ishwari are bullies too. They pick on Sona behind Dev's back.

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Tia, how wonderfully you analyze..In love with your writing (more than the show). Very well said..to have a feel of a mother or care, you dont need to be one. The love and patience is what matters.

Totally missing in GKB and Ishwari. Waiting to see when Elena is going to knock the socks off of GKB. Vicky seems to be genuinely in love..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think both your points are right on mark. The infertility issue will either cement Sona's confidence in Dev's love or completely break it. It will entirely depend on how Dev handles it and what he says. He has tendency to withhold information or give vague information letting people form their own conclusion.

However I will be pissed if Sona leaves Dev for Ishwari. If Ishwari blackmails her, she should just tell Dev what she said. But the pre-nup might create misconception in her mind. Ishwari is fully capable of using it for her own agenda.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

Tia , i feel this infertility issue will serve as a litmus test for the insecurity that Sona has about Dev. We all know somewhere in some corner of her mind, she still has this lingering thought that Dev is a puppet to his mothers likes and dislikes and will not give a second thought in hurting her all over again for Ishwari.

This time if Dev does not prove that Sona means the world to him and his love for her is unconditional, unrestricted and infinite, i too will join you in the Bash Dev abhayaaan.

My take, Ishwari gets to know about Sona's infertility, feels betrayed and starts to emotionally torture sona and make her guillty to the extent that she decides to divorce Dev on her own. sona loves Dev you see, so anything for her love... sounds cliche right ...but that's what the CVs have in store for us.

out comes the pre nup breaking her even more when she finds Dev's signatures . with the trust completely shattered, Sona will be totally broken beyond repair.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you. 😊 Dida and Asha are truly amazing. Radha may not have asked Vicky to rape Elena but the way she encourages to use her for revenge against Sonakshi tells me if he had raped her, she will blame Elena instead of her son. It's a specific kind of mentality where for some people payback becomes more important than human decency.

I don't know who is Fawad and Kashaf. But yes it would have been amazing and just payback for Radha if Vicky has really fallen for Elena.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Lovely post Tia 👏 I totally agree with the point on Neha specially. This is why I can never hate her. She has turned bitter but that's temporary. She has done a wonderful job with Niki and Rhea.

Asha and Dida are beyond criticism Whenever Dida says 'mera bahu' (wrong hindi sounds suppa cute from her 😆) it reflects so much of pride and love ❤️ It shows how Asha treats her as well. Dida-Asha are #MIL-DILGoals😳


What you said about Radharaani is somewhat true, but I dont think she has that much ability to think through her actions and the impact of those. Her reach might not be of to the level of rape. She reminds me of Rima Laagu's role from Vaastav who kept supporting every wrong deed of Sanjay Dutt till it came to her disbelief to what her son has actually become. If Vicky does something like that, she would be deeply hurt and shocked, however yes, she would still want well-being of that criminal and would probably want to rescue him as well, but not encourage in that. Anyways, Vicky seems to have truly fallen for Elena though 🤣 Reminds me of Fawaad-Kashaf dont kill me for that, but the similarity is indeed there (to teach the girl a lesson 😆).


The less I talk about Ishwari, the better it is.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today's episode was filled with Ishwari's - I, me and myself.
She getting angry on Sona for "Kachori Talna Event" because hey she doesn't care If Dev was happy or not, but because she wasn't happy seeing someone else doing things for her Son. She talked about keeping the boundaries of relations and not cross them. In short she wanted Sona to do her business inside her bedroom or in her office only. nothing at home since she wants to do everything related to Dev and all that makes her happy so no one should do what she does or its crossing boundaries. Only God knows when would she learn to see her own boundaries.

Apparently it had been too much time for Dev and Sona since marriage so they should immediately produce kids. This according to mamaji, Ishwari and mami. They all have waited long to see Dev's kids 😕 😲 shocking isn't it, when the mother never wanted her Son to ever marry anyone, how could she have waited for sooo long...😕

Ishwari didn't forget to mention she had 4 kids at Sona's age, only If she remembered when she got married or how she produced them, things would be so much better in Dixit house.

Another Devakshi fight is in picture, when Sona would tell we should plan to have kids and Dev would refuse. Dev knows Ishwari is going to talk to Sona about having kids because she said so to him, but still he is not ready to talk to Sona.

In all I don't think cv's are ready to show Dev understanding Ishwari's insecurities, for trp reasons. So they are going to drag it as much as possible by putting other things in between like Rhea, Elena. BTW what happened to Neha's divorce case.


[I know you had once talked about which show might be interesting to watch, suggestion from me is a show on Zindagi channel "Feriha"]



Edited by mena_k - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I loved how u analysed the five mothers
Brilliant
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Posted: 8 years ago
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True. You are right on point. In Ishwari's conversation someone else never registers. It's always I, me and myself. And you have rightly defined boundary according to Ishwari. She walks in a married couple's bedroom in the middle of the night and talks about boundary. Are you effing kidding me?

I was surprised to see Mamaji kept quiet. But then when Ishwari is upset he does not speak because he is scared of her.

And yes, if Dev does not open his mouth even now then another fight is brewing. Sonakshi is truly the pawn between this mother and son's two different game. Ishwari is playing one up man ship and Dev is playing hide and never seek. And Sona is playing Dumb Charade without any clue.

Good God! Family aisi hoti hain?

And look at Bose family. Saurabh complained of burned toast, Asha sweetly responded, "So sorry. Make it yourself from tomorrow." She takes care of her children but does not spoil them.

Ranveer probably ran away from the country to escape the Dixits.

Originally posted by: mena_k

Today's episode was filled with Ishwari's - I, me and myself.

She getting angry on Sona for "Kachori Talna Event" because hey she doesn't care If Dev was happy or not, but because she wasn't happy seeing someone else doing things for her Son. She talked about keeping the boundaries of relations and not cross them. In short she wanted Sona to do her business inside her bedroom or in her office only. nothing at home since she wants to do everything related to Dev and all that makes her happy so no one should do what she does or its crossing boundaries. Only God knows when would she learn to see her own boundaries.

Apparently it had been too much time for Dev and Sona since marriage so they should immediately produce kids. This according to mamaji, Ishwari and mami. They all have waited long to see Dev's kids 😕 😲 shocking isn't it, when the mother never wanted her Son to ever marry anyone, how could she have waited for sooo long...😕

Ishwari didn't forget to mention she had 4 kids at Sona's age, only If she remembered when she got married or how she produced them, things would be so much better in Dixit house.

Another Devakshi fight is in picture, when Sona would tell we should plan to have kids and Dev would refuse. Dev knows Ishwari is going to talk to Sona about having kids because she said so to him, but still he is not ready to talk to Sona.

In all I don't think cv's are ready to show Dev understanding Ishwari's insecurities, for trp reasons. So they are going to drag it as much as possible by putting other things in between like Rhea, Elena. BTW what happened to Neha's divorce case.


[I know you had once talked about which show might be interesting to watch, suggestion from me is a show on Zindagi channel "Feriha"]



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you. 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you. 😊

Originally posted by: Cluny13

I loved how u analysed the five mothers
Brilliant

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