Just Too much Sonakshi contd.Edited. - Page 8

Originally posted by: yyy

Lakshmi and delhigirl both of you have raised some very valid points .A very interesting discussion.

I sympathize with Sonakshi for birthday fiasco and did not appreciate when Neha played that dirty trick on her .I could relate to her excitement and she genuinely wanted to celebrate her husband's birthday .I feel bad to see her surprise going waste .

Having said that I feel the it could have been avoided if she had atleast informed his sisters or Mamaji .On one hand we see her involving Bose family in the discussion then why not his sisters .If Dixit s considers her as an outsider than Sona doesn't consider Dixit as her own yet .The bond has not developed yet.

I am unable to support her training session because her suggestion is appealing in theory , lacks practicality.What bothers me is the double standards of Bijoy and Sona .We haven't seen Bijoy or Saurabh help Asha nor we have seen Sona help her mother before marriage .Bijoy was the one who was against Sona learning cooking for Dev but today he supports his daughter in changing Dev .

I agree with Bijoy on one thing ...it takes long time to learn these things.The best example is Bijoy himself , he is unable to help his wife in kitchen even after 30+ years of marriage .

I badly want a scene where Dev confronts Sonakshi on this matter

Another thing which i did not appreciate is Sona calling Dev lazy .If she had said in anger i would understand but she was calm when she made that statement .The guy works like crazy and has established his business from scratch .He is not a machine , he requires some time to relax as well .Isn't Sonakshi turning out to be another Dixit .Can we ask what work does Sona do after coming back from work ...most of days we see her in Bose home discussing about her new venture or relaxing with her family. What's her contribution to the home .

with every passing episode it clear that she is insecure and somewhere she is trying to remove Ishwari from the picture .This is similar to what Ishwari did and it backfired on Ishwari .Hope SOna doesn't make the same mistake

Originally posted by: my-true-love

I see many people on this forum are biggest hypocrites.. even kids start talking like jobless padoswali aunties who always taunt women even.if they r not at fault.. if new generation thinks so narrowmindedly then u cant Expect any good from previous generation

Originally posted by: yyy

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I agree with Bijoy on one thing ...it takes long time to learn these things.The best example is Bijoy himself , he is unable to help his wife in kitchen even after 30+ years of marriage .

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I badly want a scene where Dev confronts Sonakshi on this matter

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The guy works like crazy and has established his business from scratch .He is not a machine , he requires some time to relax as well .

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This is similar to what Ishwari did and it backfired on Ishwari .Hope SOna doesn't make the same mistake

Hope so too...

Originally posted by: delhigirl

@ itelidevara, yyy, dhank, srilotus

I felt bad when sonakshi said to Dev's mother
that he works hard all day in the office,
so why is he lazy when he comes home.
This statement was without any thought and feeling.
After that when sonakshi said that I do not want to ruin
Your birthday tomorrow did not gel with me.
Also there is nothing wrong in ishwari folding his outdoor clothes and ironing
Them.

Originally posted by: delhigirl

@ itelidevara, yyy, dhank, srilotus

I felt bad when sonakshi said to Dev's mother
that he works hard all day in the office,
so why is he lazy when he comes home.
This statement was without any thought and feeling.
After that when sonakshi said that I do not want to ruin
Your birthday tomorrow did not gel with me.
Also there is nothing wrong in ishwari folding his outdoor clothes and ironing
Them.

Originally posted by: randomramblings

waah so many pages for a trivial thing

before we start taking sides and start bashing can we have an introspection and some answers to below question

1. is it a crime not to know how to arrange ur wardrobe? and is it a sin if a mother manages all the household tasks for her bachelor son. if all ur life ur mother has been handling things for u then how on earth will u become master at things overnight?

if bejoy could know that it takes years to learn something how on earth can his mature, and level headrd daughter assume that dev will master ot overnight and mostly importantly take pride in it.

2. what is the"real" motto of sona in asking dev to arrange his clothes - to make him independent? in what way? . if independence is doing ur own things then my dear cooking ur food when u are above 20yrs of age can also come under that category. and dearest sona u suck very badly at it. if u could call dev lazy then i might as well call u a leech to depend on ur mother for a single mouthful.

3. what is the harm in husband and wife having separate wardrobes. in what way does sharing a wardrobe define how much u love each other.

4. dev if ur are not good at something what is the harm in saying that u suck at the job. u already said it at the end right ?this is my shortcoming , deal with it. why couldn't u say at the very beginning. if ur telling me that u were scared of sona's wrath, then what makes u feel that she will appreciate/accept it now after a string of lies.?

5. things would have been much simpler had u come clean with sona and told her that u r willing to try and may be for a start do these only on weekends . the other days u like sona to handle it for if she really felt ishwari needs rest.