The Tipping Point - Page 3

Originally posted by: gemini54

Thanks to all of you who read and replied on this post.

It is interesting to read people's tolerance levels based on their experiences, situation and what they perceive as right from wrong sometimes their Tipping point vibe with ours sometimes it does not and that is what makes the world interesting.

I want to thank the people in this forum who are open to discussion on varied topics and I am happy to be part of it

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Tipping point is the saturation level one has reached while going through something.

I reached mine long back with the show - when Sonakshi's character lost spark. Agreeing to marry Dev knowing everything about his obsession with his Ishwari and Ishwari's obsession with her 8 year old. If I were in her place I would say NO and move on. If the show is about reality then be real - there are many realities then, need to show dont be convenient selective about it. The CV's could have shown half realization of Dev and then get DevAkshi married that would have been a little realistic.

If you start with one stupidity, you need more stupidities to continue with.

Another tipping point : Dev is running such a huge business where he has to communicate clearly! How did he manage all these years without communication in his own home - not understanding his sisters or Ishwari is beyond me. You need to understand psychology to get your work done be it professional or personal.

The CV's are just dragging the "no communication policy" in Ishwari Niwas to run the show.

After these 2 tipping points I lost interest in the show. Now what ever lame plots they show I dont care anymore. It does not affect my that much.

Originally posted by: .Neela.

Good post Sabita, I have read this book. But I have stopped applying logic from books to TV shows.

I started watching the show because I wanted to see Supriya P. in a show, had never followed any of her shows earlier. But I liked SHaheer's acting and Dev was a good hearted soul, just needed to be polished by Sona, to bring out his best. And ALAS...the CVs failed big time when they degraded both Sona & Dev and made Ishu the Vamp. For me the 1st tipping point was during the break up. I too wondered how he became a BIG business man with that kind of attitude and brain of a 8 year old? 😲

For the rest I agree on the below. For me it's been similar tipping points and the hypocrisy that gets applied differentially - Dev vs Ranveer; Neha vs Sona 🤢🤢

As I have said many times, I can't identify any characters on this show to real life easily as I have never seen any. I know NOW, there are many Iswari's and Dev's that do exist after reading many personal experiences from various women on this forum

You won't believe, but after seeing so many sequences in the serial, I started questioning my husband (after 16 years) what his reactions would be to...for. e.g. if he found my clothes messily lying around like Sona's. I know his closet is so neatly arranged and mine is very messy. But even in the early years after our marriage, when we shared a closet, I never heard any complaints from him - his half of the closet was perfect and he didn't get bothered with my encroachment of his half of the closet. I felt the necessity of asking him what his parent's reaction was the 1st time they heard their favorite son getting married to a neighboring state girl - we speak different languages and just luckily happen to be Brahmins. Some questions that never came to my mind, have started coming after watching KRPKAB and after a few times of questioning I just realized I am taking a daily soap too seriously 😆

I feel much better that I stopped watching. But the healthy discussions on this forum keeps me coming back 😳

Originally posted by: saumiee

Such an interesting post to read!👍🏼

For me, the tipping point was when after all the progress in their relationship, Dev right away said to Ishwari without any coaxing that Calling Asha a mother was a mistake. Even when Ishwari later faked that she was okay with calling her mom, he insisted on not doing it.

Not calling her maa is okay but he seriously thought it was a mistake! That was really shocking for me. And then we saw him joyfully relishing the halwa treat with no thoughts on what he promised .

To top it, he actually called Asha aunty. I felt embarrassed and disappointed with his actions that day. Even after that, we did not see him introspecting.

Like Sonakshi said No one forced him to call Asha mom, I did not understand why he said he wants to break societal norms! So all that affection and respect for Asha was because of pressure of the society!? If not he could have easily found other way out to calm Ishwari down but he chose the most brutal solution.

This step simply put him back to square one in a way, whatsoever progress he made for Ishwari was erased and It was very insensitive of him and also cowardly to not even think of Sona and not talk to her about it.