The Tipping Point - Page 2

Originally posted by: gmgi

What a thought provoking post Sabitha👏

I started watching this show because of two persons one was Shaheer and the other my friend Shruthi who writes beautiful stories and analysis. She started analysing this show I was drawn to it. Also it was Shaheer's come back show after staying away from India for almost 2 years after playing or more correctly living as Arjun in MB.

But even before Sona was properly introduced I started falling for her. As much as I loved Dev I started getting attached to Sona. I could relate to her. I am an emotional fool, absurdly romantic and loves to dream. I am also in the Medical field and this could be another connect. My greatest weakness is I take decisions with heart more than my brain.

Dev not standing up for her, her keeping silence when she should speak and her over zealousness to fit in all reminds me of myself. It is difficult to see someone you love or some one close to you do the same mistake. My dreams remained just that. May be that is why when her Joula was taken out and she smiled instead of reacting I couldn't take anymore. Still can't accept that. May be that was my tipping point😆

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Wonderful thought about the tipping point 👏

I generally have a short fuse and don't suffer fools gladly - my motto in life is to 'live and let live' and 'treat people the way you'd like to be treated'. Also, I have a solid issue with elitism; I value humility and people who are morally grounded.

KRPKAB struck numerous chords in personal life so I got heavily invested in this show.

I got completely thrown off by Dev this week - the moment he told Ishwari that 'calling Sonakshi ki maa as maa was a mistake'. That is something non-negotiable for me. Its like backstabbing and total betrayal, not just to the wife but also to her mom, who genuinely loved and cared for him. What do I say about Asha - More than Sona, she trusted him when they were at breaking point; hugging Ishwari when she was called a widow by dadibua, when Bijoy insulted him and Asha calmed him several times - the list is so long!

To top it all, a man who loves and worships his own mother - how can he be so disrespectful to another mother! That too, Asha. I have zero threshold to withstand this behavior.

And then he lied, called her aunty.. Thats it! He can never redeem himself in my eyes - he is a bigger sinner, even more than Ishwari.

Love could be endless, but respect and compassion are non-negotiable.

Originally posted by: gemini54

I love what you wrote our experiences and upbringing does shape us but over time we also modify what we can tolerate and not.

Thanks for posting

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Yes you are right .. Tipling points are different for different ppl. Until last week i was also justifying dev and his actions where as others were bashing right from patchup etc..
But it doesnt mean i would continue to justify no matter what... So you saw that happening this week. I switched sides . So ppls who are still supporting dev and ishwari must have a TP that is notmet yet.. Just a matter of time

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Wonderful thought about the tipping point 👏

I generally have a short fuse and don't suffer fools gladly - my motto in life is to 'live and let live' and 'treat people the way you'd like to be treated'. Also, I have a solid issue with elitism; I value humility and people who are morally grounded.

KRPKAB struck numerous chords in personal life so I got heavily invested in this show.

I got completely thrown off by Dev this week - the moment he told Ishwari that 'calling Sonakshi ki maa as maa was a mistake'. That is something non-negotiable for me. Its like backstabbing and total betrayal, not just to the wife but also to her mom, who genuinely loved and cared for him. What do I say about Asha - More than Sona, she trusted him when they were at breaking point; hugging Ishwari when she was called a widow by dadibua, when Bijoy insulted him and Asha calmed him several times - the list is so long!

To top it all, a man who loves and worships his own mother - how can he be so disrespectful to another mother! That too, Asha. I have zero threshold to withstand this behavior.

And then he lied, called her aunty.. Thats it! He can never redeem himself in my eyes - he is a bigger sinner, even more than Ishwari.

Love could be endless, but respect and compassion are non-negotiable.

Originally posted by: dhk26

Your last line hit me hard on my mind.. to say it literally etched deep... This so called mistake if addressing Asha as Maa is the worst of the worst thing I wanted to see...

I m a person who follows only 1 show at a time n m following religiously thus show since many months but this last week was my tipping point specially that shot of dev saying this.. I fear if tipping point of CVs isn't the one many of us have .. I might not b able to continue with this..

I m raised in an atmosphere where we learnt to share everything... My mom was equally available for my cousins as she was for me... N that's how families bonds... To me this is totally totally unacceptable n something I couldn't forgive...

If my hubby would do this I would have right away divorced.. no ifs n buts..

For a girl leaves her entire identity for the new family... N boy can't even share a bond????