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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

The situation has moved on from who is at fault. They are humans and newly married. They are both flawed.

Friday wasn't about Dev and sonakshi. It was about devakshi and Ishwari. Dev knows his mother took the jhula out and organised his cupboard). It's about why did she do it?

Of course she did it because she saw Dev wasn't happy. The point is, they live in a joint family. The couple sometimes needs to be left alone to solve their own problems.


I agree the situation is beyond the faults and mistakes they have committed.
But I feel that Fridays episode was Sona versus everyone else - Infact Dev was happy about his room going back to how it was before and cupboard being organized, thanking his mother. It was DevIsh and certainly not Devakshi.
Dev did not behave like a partner would to Sonakshi - right from when he didnt share his displeasure over the jhoola, or lied about asha maa, and then ran with his clothes to Ishwari, thus bringing out his uncomfortable aspect in front of a family member, outside the confines of his room and marriage.
The charm of Devakshi is no longer there - because the trust and openness is lost between them. One person is losing her identity and killing her dreams in adjusting, and the other couldnt fathom it at all, infact is happy without an inkling as to how the other person feels.
That was not the Devakshi i knew.





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Posted: 8 years ago
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You know how actors know their characters more than anyone else .during live chat someone asked Erica if she like "sona"as a character her answer was "No comments " earlier she used to boost how sona is her fav character and now she identifies herself and sona as "emotional fool" shaheer already stated he didn't find dev as inspirational character 😆 This is reality they are not same anymore.their is huge disconnect.😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Really ? Just because a guy was not happy with some furniture he is made to feel like a criminal .Everyone has different taste and Sonakshi should have kept his liking in mind before making changes after all it's their room not just hers .

When Sonakshi felt his room was boring and had no life it was acceptable but when he was uncomfortable with the swing then it became a problem .

If a husband is forced to do something he doesn't like or is forced to change overnight then there will be some kind of frustration from his end .

He is lying because he fears he will disappoint her and she is unable to understand his discomfort or pain but is hell bent on training him according to her needs .He is not able to manage his clothes ,he cannot buy new wardrobe and he cannot take others help so what option does he have .Go to work with mismatched socks or wear a shirt without ironing.It takes time to change ones habit

Has he forced her to change ?Does he have a list of things she is supposed to do after work ?He accepted the way she is without questioning anything

Lastly why is he allowing changes in her room or trying to please her because he loves her otherwise he would not have a given a damn to her feelings or opinion.



I remember how Sona was applauded for pushing Dev away on her martial night as she has every right to say NO when she is not interested.Now when they see Dev doing it then it's taken in a different sense and his love is questioned .Whether male or female both have rights to say NO when they are not in a mood
Lying about clothes looks very small compared to the ones she is doing .She is hiding about her new business venture from a person who has always appreciated her commitment towards work and has encouraged her to grow in her career

I am sorry I lost it .I am tired of seeing Dev being bashed and Sona being glorified .Both are equally flawed


Can't say anything more. Just completeley and cent percent agree on each and every word.

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