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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is not a story of love, but a story of how not to love.
It is a story of betrayal, false promises, manipulation and toxic companionship.

I can't believe that this was the same Dev they portrayed who loved Sona with all his heart - how and why did he change so much?

My heart goes out to Sona and girls like her, who marry for love and nothing else.

The show's key highlight is that no matter how financially independent you might be, emotional independence is far more important, and in fact the most vital aspect of one's existence.
One has to be Detached +emotional = demotional (I hope Sona reaches that stage soon enough)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She is going to get her love story. The role is going to be reversed soon. There is no other way for the story to move. please don't think that I am hallucinating in the middle of the night😆 I have been thinking (too much) and now feels that Dev is doing it deliberately to shield Sona from Ishu n also to keep Ishu happy. But this cannot go on and Sona is getting more hurt but she is not getting treated as an outsider by Ishu anymore. Please no tomatoes for me.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Really ? Just because a guy was not happy with some furniture he is made to feel like a criminal .Everyone has different taste and Sonakshi should have kept his liking in mind before making changes after all it's their room not just hers .

When Sonakshi felt his room was boring and had no life it was acceptable but when he was uncomfortable with the swing then it became a problem .

If a husband is forced to do something he doesn't like or is forced to change overnight then there will be some kind of frustration from his end .

He is lying because he fears he will disappoint her and she is unable to understand his discomfort or pain but is hell bent on training him according to her needs .He is not able to manage his clothes ,he cannot buy new wardrobe and he cannot take others help so what option does he have .Go to work with mismatched socks or wear a shirt without ironing.It takes time to change ones habit

Has he forced her to change ?Does he have a list of things she is supposed to do after work ?He accepted the way she is without questioning anything

Lastly why is he allowing changes in her room or trying to please her because he loves her otherwise he would not have a given a damn to her feelings or opinion.



I remember how Sona was applauded for pushing Dev away on her martial night as she has every right to say NO when she is not interested.Now when they see Dev doing it then it's taken in a different sense and his love is questioned .Whether male or female both have rights to say NO when they are not in a mood
Lying about clothes looks very small compared to the ones she is doing .She is hiding about her new business venture from a person who has always appreciated her commitment towards work and has encouraged her to grow in her career

I am sorry I lost it .I am tired of seeing Dev being bashed and Sona being glorified .Both are equally flawed
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

She is going to get her love story. The role is going to be reversed soon. There is no other way for the story to move. please don't think that I am hallucinating in the middle of the night😆 I have been thinking (too much) and now feels that Dev is doing it deliberately to shield Sona from Ishu n also to keep Ishu happy. But this cannot go on and Sona is getting more hurt but she is not getting treated as an outsider by Ishu anymore. Please no tomatoes for me.😃


The point is not that whether or not she will get her love story - it pains to see that her happiness is dependent on her dear husband Dev's acceptance to her fairytale romance.
Geena my dear, I think you also fell into Ishwari's honey trap today - she sugar coated and manipulated sona into thinking that the jhoola was a mistake in that room.
And then she followed up with her nutrition love coz she felt that Sona must be reeling under the jhoola effect. Plus, this was a Dev's bday planning was a good way to ensure that the two of them don't take any time off from the family to celebrate. See how Sona got emotionally manipulated - her face fell while conversing with Ish but she feigned smiles, and then she teared up in the kitchen forgetting the bday plan she was dreaming about.

That's the harmful power of emotional dependency.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ It is a story of betrayal, false promises, manipulation and toxic companionship.

I agree
It is true not only for Dev- Sona but for Neha-Ranveer and Vicky-Eilena love relationship as well.
That is why I always say that , with the current track ,this show is not passing a good message to its loyal viewers.

As of now ..I seriously can't stand Sona anywhere near Dixit mansion...not within 10 miles of radius at least
she should just run away, take a break from Dixits but go get a life

There is anyways nothing much left to see in this show.

It was annoying to see Ishu's and Neha's sullen face daily.
Now it seems Dev too has joined to make it a trio. worst twist ever.

I cannot remain hooked up with this show just for the positivity shown in characters like Mama ji ,Sona, Asha or Bijoy with a very little screen space.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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You burst my bubble which was already so so so fragile. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

This is not a story of love, but a story of how not to love.

It is a story of betrayal, false promises, manipulation and toxic companionship.

I can't believe that this was the same Dev they portrayed who loved Sona with all his heart - how and why did he change so much?

My heart goes out to Sona and girls like her, who marry for love and nothing else.

The show's key highlight is that no matter how financially independent you might be, emotional independence is far more important, and in fact the most vital aspect of one's existence.
One has to be Detached +emotional = demotional (I hope Sona reaches that stage soon enough)



its a story of "anokha" love between a man and his mother.. never before seen on Indian TV 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: IshikaIshu

@ It is a story of betrayal, false promises, manipulation and toxic companionship.

I agree
It is true not only for Dev- Sona but for Neha-Ranveer and Vicky-Eilena love relationship as well.
That is why I always say that , with the current track ,this show is not passing a good message to its loyal viewers.

As of now ..I seriously can't stand Sona anywhere near Dixit mansion...not within 10 miles of radius at least
she should just run away, take a break from Dixits but go get a life

There is anyways nothing much left to see in this show.

It was annoying to see Ishu's and Neha's sullen face daily.
Now it seems Dev too has joined to make it a trio. worst twist ever.

I cannot remain hooked up with this show just for the positivity shown in characters like Mama ji ,Sona, Asha or Bijoy with a very little screen space.




I hope Sona gets to know of asha maa fiasco and then breaks free from the evil Dixit mother son duo
Hate both of them and for me, they cannot redeem themselves ever in my eyes. Especially Dev. Can't stand him now.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Fisrtly you are no one to bash me .Learn to limit your comments to reel characters not to forum members .If you are so sensitive that you cannot hear anything against your fav character then it's ur problem not mine but I am not gonna take crap from you .

Whether he is my beloved or not is not your concern .Who are you to decide whether I deserved to be bashed or not ? I was talking about reel characters unlike you I am not interested to bash members .

People cannot respect others real members opinion but they preach how reel characters should behave
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

You burst my bubble which was already so so so fragile. 😆


Aww, I know. But mine bursted this week too with Dev's characterization. My heart bleeds. 😭

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