yeh to hona hee tha... editted after 18th November

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Sorry Sona... this one you brought on yourself... Partly because you married a guy who is a bad communicator and more so because you arent listening to whatever little he is saying

The resort was a great idea because it was at the right time and place. You are pushing him to fold his clothes, not letting him buy a new cupboard (throwing money at the problem has always been his style) and guess what he does... he just moved his wardrobe to his mother's room..

If you keep those lights on all night, he will go and sleep in his mother's room.

Listen to him for a minute please... He acts like a 8 year old but I am sorry today you acted like an 8 year old too.

Balance darling.. balance

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This is what happens when you have a mumma's boy for a husband, a complicated self defending mother in law and a rocky marriage. Of course sona made a point. Except it's lost on dev. He didn't get it. In fact Ishwari has undone everything sona did last few days. I am sorry sona. I am so sorry you had so much at stake.

The trouble is unless you strategize the only option left will be to leave Dev. Your problems don't end there. As much as flawed you both are, dev is also a mad lover. He won't let you go away from him. His mother won't let you go away from him but she wont let you be the only reason he is happy either.

That's what I meant all along. Pushing Dev outside his comfort zone only made it worse for Devakshi. Sona is hurt. She isn't showing it. She is very hurt. What's worse. Ishwari played a master stroke. Today sona had two choices. She either had to pick what Ishwari wanted aka Dev's favourite foods or what others wanted which would mean Dev would complain. And just that morning she had learnt her lesson.

I am a die hard romantic at heart. Romance wipes out every pain in for me. Today, when she was romancing with her husband's photo, I had a lump in my throat. She knows she has been wronged. She cannot fix it. Because she loves this man so much.

I am curious now. What was the slow clap for? Clothes or jhula

Hugs sonakshi. Your husband is hard work. Don't make it harder by going head strong into this. You had your chance before getting married. You didn't listen to your dad. You had your time to think back and contemplate. Now you are in this. Think this through. Tashan won't work.

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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noor.21

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sona was so pushy today. I hate when ppl say I am training my husband. Is he a dog or a baby? Yes ideally everyone should do their own job, but (1) if you are super busy, it can be delegated and (2) also the way she is tricking him by planning with his mother and telling her father is so creepy.

The makers are trying to show everyone in a bad light so that dev's action don't seem so bad.

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cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: noor.21
Sona was so pushy today. I hate when ppl say I am training my husband. Is he a dog or a baby? Yes ideally everyone should do their own job, but (1) if you are super busy, it can be delegated and (2) also the way she is tricking him by planning with his mother and telling her father is so creepy.
The makers are trying to show everyone in a bad light so that dev's action don't seem so bad.

Even i didn't liked that "training" thing.

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cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

If sona wants him to change which is actually for good because everyone should do their own work, then she should have tried to help him out. Getting a separate cupboard was a good idea and both of them would have got enough space. She wants him to change but not making him understand and he is doing it because he dnt want to annoy sona. Its not gonna work for long term.

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preethik

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Posted: 8 years ago

Why is Sona pushing this clean up thing. Everybody says that Dev should be introspecting bu I feel Sona should be doing esp about the events around her. Why is she not communicating to Dev about being left out of rias marriage talks. There are so many events going on around her but she seems to be in her own land of dreams.

Perhaps keeping his clothes in his moms wardrobe might get him or her to stumble upon the prenup. I think that's where ishu pit.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

Exactly. He didn't ask sona to do it for her. I get the privacy issues. And not wanting house help and elders in the bedroom in case it's embarrassing. But today was too much.

But this is a common mistakes new wives make

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fanktlk

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: noor.21
Sona was so pushy today. I hate when ppl say I am training my husband. Is he a dog or a baby? Yes ideally everyone should do their own job, but (1) if you are super busy, it can be delegated and (2) also the way she is tricking him by planning with his mother and telling her father is so creepy.
The makers are trying to show everyone in a bad light so that dev's action don't seem so bad.

I didn't watch the episode today.. but if that was the attitude, yeh toh hona hi tha!!

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Samanalyse

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Posted: 8 years ago

I dunno, I am kind of enjoying this shameless Sona 😆 She's been a long time coming! Unless Sona does something assertive and demands attention, the Dixits have multiple ways of pretending she doesn't exist. I like that she is fighting back, starting with her own room. The Dixits may have a custom of the wife doing all the domestic work for the husband, but that is not how the Boses work. Sona is finally bringing that side of her to her new home. I like how it's playing out, so I am not too upset by her aggressive vibes. 😛

As for Dev, it's not so much the issue that he doesn't do these things that bothers me (and I imagine Sona), it's that he can't. He says he wants Ishwari to be in good health and to rest, but he is more than happy to let her do all this work, happy to wake her up in the middle of the night. Why? Because he doesn't think of it as work at all. Men who are brought up in such environments tend to assume that these things happen magically -- why wouldn't their handkerchief be in the right place everyday? But it is work, and important work, and I think it's important for everyone to have these basic skills. It's pretty shameful that Dev doesn't (much like so many men in our society), and I am with Sona as she points this out to him.

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Shilky88

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Posted: 8 years ago

At first place I am confused as to what is the actual reason that Sona is upset with this wardrobe issue.

As it is very normal and common that a busy person like Dev Dixit would have never managed time to fold his clothes or to arrange his bed room.

Such things are normally being done either by people who are staying at home as they have nothing else to do or by their servants.

I feel Sona failed miserably to understand,handle and balance the whole wardrobe issue.

Is she personally not comfortable Ishwari barging in her and Dev's wardrobe with one excuse or another?

If yes then she should be vocal about it. If it doesn't seem decent in front of everyone then she could have expressed her concern privately to Dev.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#10

I'll have to disagree here Sam. I loved the punchy sona y'day and the way she tackled mamiji today. But no one is expecting her to do anything

She can't cook. A few months ago she was locked in her own house with her new boss and had no way of feeding herself. She has now learnt to kneed dough and make tea. But no one expected that from her.

This is just a typical clichd way of a new wife

Starting from her room was great. Showing her husband what she has been going through is fine. But her husband has repeatedly told her to stay as she was. No one asked her to become kichu bhaiya part 2 and make Dev kichu bhaiya part 3

Running off to mummy with 3 bags of clothes. Silly and unacceptable. If he was going to fold them he could have simply left them in his own room

More than ever, I now want to know what's on that mezzanine in their room