Is Ishwari rt in predicting that Dev needs her for everything ?

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Ishwari's prediction that her son is diff to handle and Sona will fail

WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yesterday Ishwari said that Sona will fail as Dev cannot do anything by himself . Do you ppl think that Dev will change or will he prove that his mom is rt ?

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randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think Ish is right ..Dev is highly dependent on her.n both Ish n Dev like current state of their relationship .it will take a very long time before Dev can think beyond Ish, till that time however efforts Sona will put in Dev will always disappoint. Maybe Dev will show some improvement over trivial things like keeping cupboard clean but on personal n emotional stuff,Dev needs Ish's validation.

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gmgi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dev will change. Ishu will win the battle but will lose the war. Sona will lose the battle but win the war. Winner now will be the ultimate loser.

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Shaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ishwari is right she has moulded her son in a certain way

but he'll change it will take a long time but Sona will accomplish to change Dev

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

There are a few things to consider. I wish sona learnt from the past. Dev has always found some things mundane and not worth his while. Like shopping for clothes. He doesn't wear what others choose for him. Tina, neha and Ishwari shopped for him. But he told them exactly what to buy.

He used to find relaxing and winding down a waste of time. Sona's logic and love (which he was oblivious to!) changed that.

I am not going to get into the dev-ishwari symbiotic relationship.

Here there are some real practical issues sona is ignoring about her husband. He is a busy man. Sorting your wardrobe isn't a menial task. But he has delegated that. Just like he delegates at work. His mother took that role. Now Sona has a few choices. Getting Dev to organise his wardrobe is a but of a jerk reaction. Just like going to Ishwari to ask for night suit was also a jerk reaction.

Dev will change... sona's expectations will change.

All this takes time

Dr Bose could only change Ishwari's eating habits when Mr Dixit helped her by emotionally blackmailing his mother. It takes two to tango.

I can see why no one aside from Sona and dev should open their wardrobe. I don't see why Ishwari or kichu bhaiya can't sort his clothes and leave them on the bed for example.

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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srujitha

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dev and ishwari lived 28 years together depending on each other. they didn't allow any one come between them. yes isgwari is right Dev can't manage with out her until now. because sona is here. Dev Will change or not it depends on sona.how much she is ready to put efforts on to change him. she will face rejection 2 or 3 times.feeling rejected if she gave up then Dev is never going to change. if sona tried ,tried, until he didn't changed then he will change. so i think it depends on sona how much she can take it.

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Sajini Cherian

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ishwari is the one who has moulded Dev this manner..

so the creator will be sure about it na...

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Devakshimaddiez

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Posted: 8 years ago

At the moment, ishwari is absolutely right!

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WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 8 years ago

So the majority says Ishu will win...I guess you all rt...because if you see episode 103 - 21st July...there is Dev Sona Convo...in that Dev says he is Zhidhi and once he has made up his mind he will not change for anyone ...and then Sona asks , you wont change for me ...he says "NO !!

but tht doesnt mean my love for you will change ". He is not going to change ...I guess Sona also forgot abt this convo

But then wondering couple of days back when she brought the Jhoola to the room , she knew he didnt like it much and he says ...probably I could change my likes for you...😕