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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: 1987Trisha
Today m just so so disappointed wid Dev I can't tell u. I hv no idea how much he will fall n fail. M eagerly waiting to see how he is gonna address Asha n how he will justify it. I think it's a high time for Dr. Sonakshi Bose to make a come back. I guess Dev needs another shock in form of Sona leaving him to come back to his senses. To see n decided what is right n wrong. Sona darling u deserve so much better n for the first time m feeling so sad n bad that u hv fallen for a guy like Dev who says he loves u can't live without you but can leave you at the drop of the hat if his mother is unhappy. Dev's character has showed so much growth in last few days but today just by saying that one line everything is back to square one. If he can see that his mother is unhappy can't he see how she treated Sona, can't he feel how hurt Sona will be if she comes to know abt it, can't he feel that Ish GKB n neha never leave one opportunity to make Sona feel an outsider.

😆 We are all in the same boat honey.. Now I want this issue to be properly addressed and not shelved like "forged prenup signature " Just like Sona I cared a dame when GKB, Neha or Ishu taunted her because Sona's biggest strength is her love in Dev and everyone else stand outside that boundary line of strength which she can easily withstand. But if that very love is confusing from Dev, its a time to worry because it will crack the foundation of their trust and care! I understand Dev can't leave his Mom and I don't want him to either but I want him now to show the same conviction about his wife, after all she is the one to take his future along with him.

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Mona4u
Dev is blindfolded when it comes to Ishwari. Please CV's stop this nonsense. There has to be limit to anything.
I can understand Dev maybe not calling Asha as Maa and by other name as Mom or Mummy but saying that it was mistake is highly unacceptable and wrony in any sense. Totally unjustifiable !!😡

I have no issue with Dev calling Asha anything as long as it was addressed with respect but am more pissed off with his blindness towards the outcome of his pampering. Yes Ishwari sacrificed everything for him and yes its totally fair to give her his life if needed but that cannot be done stomping other's hearts on the line.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Deepa , the daughter in me doesn't take offence when my husband refers to my parents as mummy ji and papaji. I do the same. The offensive thing is, changing to something else just to keep your mother happy. How many promises will he break? Was this all a trap to fasaofy sona?

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I really feel CVs are little scared to show the original reality of mothers like Ishwari, because I know they are very dark and it would be quite a bold move on Indian TV but the uproar could be more too. So they are trying to mellow down the very character they shaped with the very intelligent manipulative dialogs. Now I have no problem with Ishwari's characterisation but appalled with Dev's today, because I was seeing a very gradual growth and today it hit regressive rock bottom. Anything shown after this might definitely leave a sour taste atleast for sometime unfortunately

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: deepsel

I have no issue with Dev calling Asha anything as long as it was addressed with respect but am more pissed off with his blindness towards the outcome of his pampering. Yes Ishwari sacrificed everything for him and yes its totally fair to give her his life if needed but that cannot be done stomping other's hearts on the line.

I think this scene is a prelude to the Sona-Sourabh venture. I mean even for opening online venture you need funding and Sonakshi will probably look for outside funding. Given the kind of power Dev has, he will get to know this. Any bank that Sonakshi will approach for funding will promptly let Dev know about it. 😊. Hearing this Dev will be shocked/confused and ask Sonakshi about it. She will at that time say that since she and her family is considered as an outsider even by Dev, she did not think she needed to tell him. Dev cannot claim that he is part of Bose family as he has given this promise.

Also till date Sonakshi has been made to feel like an outsider, but not Dev. Dev has never felt as an outsider with any family, be it Ranveer's or Sonakshi's. But by saying the words he said today, he made himself an outsider to Sonakshi's family. When the Sona-Sourabh venture and Sonakshi giving money to her family details come out, he will feel what SOnakshi is always maade to feel -- as an outsider.

Dev is one of those people who always learn by experience. When Sonakshi says she feels an outsider, he does not really understand what it means. Hence he never speaks up about her in front of his family. But when he will be made to feel that, he will realize what actually being an outsider means...

It will be interesting to see what Dev learns from this and his next steps... 😊

Edited by Shaavi - 8 years ago

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: desigirl987
Aww glad you are back dear 🤗 !!!TBH I would rather forget the day , because after all the character growth they had shown for Dev since marriage , CVS again put them back to square one and I'm seriously pissed off !!! And Ishwari is getting on my nerves , by masking the true feelings still giving "politically correct " statements . Even though we have seen this from her before , I'm disappointed that Sona could not see through it and could not come up with the right questions as I was looking forward for this confrontation !!! Loved the way Sona handled Riya's nervousness and how she rightfully gave Sona the credit , "being grateful" is a rare thing that we see in Dixit household !!! I was hoping for a positive entry , as Riya is the most sensible Dixit , and am happy for Ayan/Aman 😆.
But everything went in drain after the last scene , I made a post for Vicky 😉 , as he became the spoke-person for KRPKAB fandom today .

I couldn't control Sunny 🤗 This is little personal for me because it remained me of a day when I took a stand with my in-laws for my parents for the first time and the scars are still fresh. Sona just doesn't want to believe she is unwanted in the family after being begged to be part of this same family, so I won't blame her for trying hard , infact glad she asked some right questions and atleast she is showing the right growth starting from her room though her constant nagging is annoying. I am more pissed because the guy whom I had immense trust after the recent episodes, who showed immense patience and maturity in handling both sides suddenly changed into that 8 yr old boy again in front of his mother blinding everyone else. I would have been happy and understood and even defended him if he stopped with " I am sorry I hurt you Maa and here after will make sure you are not disappointed at all" but instead when he said explicitly " I won't call Asha as Maa either" he just insulted the love and care given by Boses. It might take sometime for me to look at Dev the same way because I just saw the old glimpse of my husband years back and it sure took years to get my thoughts together😆

P.S Ayan really looked cute and am looking forward to some positivities from his side because Ria deserves the best😊

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Push-pull
Deeps.. 🤗
And this is for you dear.. 😃

Naming ceremony...
Few days earlier...
Dev: Maa. I will call you Maa..😳
Asha: Sure beta.. I will call you beta...😳

Dev: Maa.. please eat this.. your son is asking you...
Asha: Dev beta.. You are so sweet...

Few days later...

Dev: Excuse me... Ma'm..🤓
Asha: Haann.. What Dev beta?😃
Dev: Meri Maa didn't like the naming ceremony that I had here with you.. So I have to cancel it.. 🤓
Asha: But beta.. 😕
Dev: It's Ishu's beta for you... 😆
Asha: But you can still call me Maa...😃
Dev: No Ma'm.. You will be Mrs. Bose for me...🤪
Asha: 😲

Dev: Ms. Bose...😳
Sona: It's Mrs. Dixit for you...😳
Dev: I'm proud of my mother.. See she's shared her Mrs. Dixit status with you.. You should be grateful to her... 🤣
Sona:

Awww partner 🤗🤗

So sweet of you to give me a laughing dose 😆

Now am waiting for the day when Sona says " Its just Dr.Bose for you" till he makes her "Mrs.Dixit" in every sense or even better when he becomes "Mr. Sonakshi Bose" for her😆 Blame my feminist side for taking over today😉

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Narshi21
Thanks for the much needed post ,was really upset.A big hug!
Personally have been in situations when inlaws won't respect your parents that hurts the most.
And whatever Sona says Ishwari finds a way to ridicule her.How long can Sona take it?On the top it looks like Dev is on her side but he is just superficial(especially today).As you said Dev is so concerned with his mothers feelings what about Sona?
Sam said in Saumiee's post Ishawari has to drop this low to find the light.But I am not sure it is going to happen,she has seen Dev during break up but nothing changed,she took it totally in a different direction.I don't know what will change her thinking?

A warm hug to you too dear 🤗

I can understand what you feel buddy😳 We all have gone through this rough patches and finally draws a line with our experience where no one is hurt anymore. Like I mentioned in one of the responses nobody or their words matters to Sona as long as Dev is strong by her side and if she could have heard this confession of Dev today , am sure she would have walked out because that just drew the line where Sona stood in Dev's life.

Sam made some pretty interesting insight and she was correct to some extend as well but I guess human's emotions are very high today to see any sanity ... Like Sona said " Nobody can hurt her except Dev" and now all Sona's of this forum proved that😆

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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: nidhi2013
The toy promo of ishwari had such a negative impact that they pulled it off air merely after airing it few times. Today's episode was like that and its negative impact is so much that either the makers need to sort this issue inside Dev's head justifiably making him reason or simply forget about this.

But I feel he will do some blunder about this the next time he will meet the Bose family. This might turn out to be one of the reasons later for Sona to question Dev if and ever she is questioned about helping her family without letting him know.

Oh I have no doubt the makers will pull a stunt to reverse this scene tomorrow itself and can make us all looking like fools for jumping the gun..but for now they sure needed to see this uproar as expected. I definitely not want them to shelve this scene as some random maonofying Maa-beta scene because it just shooked his very love and trust on Sona and thats huge for any audience.

I don't think Sona helping Saurab will be looked huge by Dev because he always stood by her for her individual decisions but it will be interesting to see how today's scene is handled for future by CVs, be it Ishwari's arrogance towards Sona now that her Son has renewed her faith or Dev's realization how but he is going to hurt Asha when he sees her the next time.

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sandyaramesh

@sandyaramesh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Tired of dev and his never ending list of broken promises!

I want to hold his collar the way Sona did in the hospital...correction, I want Sona to do the same before calling him out for what he is and walking out -...a weak and selfish man who looks out only for himself either by pleasing his mother or temporarily calms down Sona with fake promises. His words mean nothing! nada! ENOUGH!

If this is what love is supposed to be, then I'm sorry to say the CVs have got it wrong. If they say this is what reality looks like...sorry again. No girl will/should stick by someone like Dev and Sona deserves better.

I knew it. I knew that the jhoola is Sona. Dev and Ash can swing in it. Sona ...go home!

Whatever Dev does...even if he calls Asha ma in the future, I'll not forgive Dev for what he did today. can he ever unspeak what he spoke today?

Today, I realized that Sona fell in love with the wrong man😕 This man is going has been/ continues to/ and will let her down until she leaves him And is that what a woman wants/ deserves after making all kinds of adjustments to fit into his family for their love? A man who realizes her worth only when she is not with him. To me, that kind of man makes the worst kind of husband.

Doesnt Sona deserve better than this weak man? She did but alas, she got Dev.

P.S - with one espidoe, the cvs butchered Dev's charectariozation. It is not wrong to love your mother (with a bad past or otherwise) but this ...this...is not love. This is obsession. And this is heartlessness towards Sona dn he claims he loves Sona

PPS - Sorry Deeps for ranting and not adding to the episode discussion coz you and the rest on this thread have already said what needs to be spoken.

Edited by sandyaramesh - 8 years ago