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Posted: 9 years ago
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Fantastic Post !! Loved it !!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi guys. This is my first time writing here, though I have been following the forum. With all the analysis going on with Dev and Sona's relationship, I wonder is love even worth it? I don't think Sona would have been dragged into this kind of drama if she had not married Dev, but someone like Ritwik. Why does the girl have to sacrifice so much for the sake of 'love'? While Sona is breaking her back to please Dev's family, how much effort has he put to do the same for Sona's family? Gifting a car does not count. People might like to watch the few romantic moments between the couple, but is that enough to maintain stability and equality in a relationship? Would they not have had the same fate as Ranveer and Neha if Dev was poor? For all these reasons, I would have preferred a drama free life with someone like Ritwik.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sunnyyy my darling 🤗🤗 What a timing , I can't believe we both did the same kind of post with almost same content in the exact ungodly hour😆 am completely surprised with our thought process dear ..aaja gale lag jaaa meri bichadi hui behena 🤗

Lovely post 👏 What else can I say when you have written everything so beautifully..Just a big big thanks for taking time and penning your thoughts for this stupendous week 😊 So good to see your refreshing post and that tweet was so apt 🤣 No one in million years would have thought out of all people GKB will heed to Sona 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dbrk

Nice post! Very appropiately u have described last one week. Beautiful and well balanced episodes. One thing to mention GKBs care for Sona when she gets burnt! Really liked all episodes last week. No issue is over exaggerated.


Thanks dear !!! Yes GKB's care came as a shock and I was pleasantly surprised !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Welcome back Sunny 🤗
Missed you. Most of our beautiful writers are missing now. It used to be so balanced before. The last two weeks the episodes were pure bliss. But still no one came back. Missing our old forum.

Loved your take of the episode. It was really beautiful and gave me the old feel back. Now it is with a smile that I go to sleep like our good old days. Felt so happy to see your post today. Deeps also posted yesterday.


Thanks so much dear !!! Yes the makers are doing a really good job after that not-so-great 1st week after marriage !!!! Yes I was missing some of our brilliant writers as well , and was so happy to see Deepa's post too !!! After all we all come here for the love of this show right !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stuti123

Beautiful post dear 🤗..I remember you used to write regularly here ...loved your analysis of the entire week of our show...Devakshi are a bliss to watch ❤️.the cutest hubby wifey ever


Thanks for the kind words dear !!! Yes DevAkshi are giving us all "relationship goal" , they are pure magic , what I love about these cute scenes are they are not randomly throwing some romantic moments for fans but each of them reflects their gradual relationship growth ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

You summarised the whole week's journey in one post. Loved your analysis of the progression of story and the characters.


Thank you 🤗 I was enjoying the show so much this week and loved the transitions they tried to show us , but could not make any post , n I thought its so unfair not to appreciate the brilliant job they are doing , hence this long post !!! Loved your take on Soumya's thread ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

Welcome back desigirl. Was missing your posts .
Nice analysis and beautiful post. I realky like what they are showing now a days. All the episodes ate well balanced and they even showed some good in gkb ... Couldnt believe it.. Ishwari has toned down and nehas drama took the centre stage. I think it has hit rock bottom and would be interesting to see how they patchup things from here... I guess first step would be to get devs support and ask him to tone down his aggressive behavior towards rv and his family.cant wait for next week


Thank you Lavanya , yes I am also able to put up with this toned down Ishwari !!! If this is not rock bottom I dont know what is , I am also excited to watch how they are going to turn around this !!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harryfan011

Thank you for this beautiful post...


Thank you dear , and welcome to the forum , there are lots of brilliant writers here and you may find some extreme opposite interesting perspectives on the show , hope you have a good time here , and plz be active and feel free to share your opinions ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Good points. I wrote this in another post. Here's what I got out of Dev and Ishwari scene yesterday which I think is probably the most significant change in Dev's character growth.


If Ishwari had said the same sentence in the same voice before (say back when Dev and Sona were dating or even in the early days of their marriage), Dev's instinctive reaction would have been guilt. That was always Ishwari's whip to make Dev dance to her tunes.

She injects 80% sadness, 10% pretence of sacrifice, 10% teary/shiny eyes and 100% manipulation to get Dev to feel guilty for letting her down.

In the past, when he first fell in love, he felt uneasy with his own happiness. It was all new for him. Just like when someone who has been abused for very long time, feels awkward if someone hugs them or treats them with love. They wonder if it's okay for them to accept that love or if they even deserve their own happiness.

But now Dev is slowly starting to realize that he deserves to be loved and that Sona's love is not going to go away. Now he is taking Ishwari's words at face value because that's where his happiness lies. He is no longer looking for catch or hidden meanings behind his mother's expression because now he knows that he will ruin his and Sona's happiness if he keeps looking for hidden messages.

Added to the fact is his acceptance of Sona as his own which is also guiding him to solidify their relationship.


Thank you Tia . I agree there is tremendous growth in Dev's character since marriage !!! But sorry to disagree , I dont believe he is taking Ishwari's words at face value now !!! As I said in my post I believe those situations leading upto breakup , came as shock to him . Because he took Ishwari's words of accepting their relationship on face value !!! Thats the first time both Ishwari and Dev had a different view when it came to their happiness . And Mamaji's words of not leaving one hand while holding onto another may had deep impact on him ... As you said he is finally embracing the feeling of being loved , and is trying to find the happiness he deserved ... But the difference before break up and now is , he is cautious not to hurt the feeling of his mother this time !!! If you remember how he spend time with Ishwari at night after they came back from resort , giving her some personal attention to assure her he is still her beloved son , or how he specified "Ur bahu" when he was replying to her question that if he would be able to stay away from her for 15 days , I thought he was trying to balance both the relations ... TBH I will be a little guilty and worried too if I break some of my family traditions which I used to do with my mom/dad or sis because of some unavoidable situations involving my husband soon after my marriage ... And I dont believe Dev would ever be able to look for his own happiness ignoring his family specially his mom , and thats what I love about him too ... In this society,where for a lot of us, parents are considered to be a burden in certain age even after they have lived all their life for us , isn't he a rare gem who reminds atleast some of them what they are forgetting in their busy lives ... Having said that I believe Ishwari still can manipulate and emotionally black mail him if she really puts her mind into it (as long as Dev is caged in his bitter past ) !!! But I am being hopeful with his willingness to open up about his past to Sona , he may be able to heal those wounds with her help !!! But he has a looong way to go !!!!!

Ishwari is also slowly accepting some of the changes this marriage brought . You could see the difference in her reactions when the first time Dev told Ishwari , he is going to have BF with Sona in their room and yesterday's incident ... She was clearly upset for the first time and here we could see , she is being ok with it and even asks if Sona is ok ...

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