Originally posted by: tia.o
aahh...let me utilize one more reply to elaborate my POV😊
I am still not with Sona entirely on what she is doing.
Having said that she is absolutely right and her intentions are correct but that way she is doing --doesn't differentiate her from stubborn Dixits.
Fair enough. Having a different opinion is totally fine in my post. Here's my take.
I have no doubt in mind that Ranveer is suffering. But when a marriage breaks it's never one person's fault. So it will be wrong to put the entire blame on Neha.
Never did I 😃
I agree with you that Ranveer is receiving mixed messages and he is probably confused. But it will be wrong to say that he did not have interaction with Sona or he only had interaction with Sona through Dev, Ishwari or Neha.
By interaction I meant that he has no personal bonding with Sona and that is why Sona approaching him directly might be misunderstood and could be taken in a wrong sense by anyone.
When Radha accused him of stealing, Sona defended him.
Yes.she did and she did it not because it was Ranveer but because he was not at fault.Had it been Keechu bhaiya, Bhola bhaiya or anyone else for that matter she would have done the same thing.so it isnt enough to justify her bonding or understanding with Ranveer.
He was present at Sona's wedding and Sona was present at his.
yes,thats right.👍🏼
Sona was present at Ranveer's wedding as she was the nutritionist of Ishwari and also an employee of Dev.
Ranveer was present at Sona's wedding as he is husband of Neha.
That is my point.Their interactions are mainly due to Neha/Ishwari/Dev.
When Neha came back and he came to Dixit house with Sona, she was the only one who defended his respect. He admired her so much that he wanted Neha to be like her.
He could not have asked Neha to be like neighbour's aunty whom he has passing acquaintance, could he?
I totally totally agree on that.He admires Sona knowing him as somebody's somebody and not one of his direct friend,relative or even an acquaintance.
We admire lot of people around us distantly but that doesn't mean we are comfortable with them to share our feelings and can easily open up with them w.r.t our personal sensitive issues.
Both Ranveer and Sona --are always shown to admire each other distantly for what kind of individual they are but they were never shown as two people with some mutual understanding of each others's matter.
Having said that I don't mean that Dev has some understanding with Ranveer but if there a channel that Sona must follow then it has go through Dev.
In spite of all that he came to Dixit house to blast on Sona as if she has threatened his family. All Sona tried to do is to fix this marriage. He could have easily called Sona and said exactly what he said. If he really was so against confusing Dixits and paints Sona with the same brush, why bother coming into the same house to say what could be told over the phone.
Well not Sona but Dev did threaten him right.
and how would Ranveer know that these two are not coordinated?
All I could think of being at Ranveer place is -- first Dev threaten him and later sends his wife to say sorry. dint looks like he has slightest of idea as to what is going on between Dixits and they are so not aware of each other's plan of action.
Should we blame Ranveer for this?
In such cases family members will speak to each other and decide before speaking or reacting outside.
Also I don't wanna sound ancient here.
but not sure how would Dev react knowing that Ranveer talking to his wife personally and directly .
Ranveer has clarity of approaching Sona through Dev. There is nothing wrong in that.
And Ranveer can't keep his family out when he lives with them and he is getting a divorce.
When society asks his family questions would he go threaten everyone to keep his family out?
I agree with you that you cannot keep your family outside.
But Ranveer's family has no different take on it so why involve them and create unnecessary confusion.
As a family if you speak one language and agree to a common decision then it totally makes sense to send one person out to speak on everyone's behalf rather than messing up with so many heads speaking one common thing in 10 different ways.It will lead to confusion and nothing else.
No. In my opinion, Ranveer's anger was justified, but his outburst at Sona wasn't.
I still feel that his anger was not just on Sona but on Dixit family as a whole.He might have targeted Sona mostly as she was the recent one causing confusion.
Sona could have gone through Ranveer. But after Dev told her that Ranveer is egotist and stubborn and doesn't care about Neha, who would have gone to him?
If Ranveer and Sona's interaction was that much limited that Ranveer paints Sona with the same brush as Dixits, then how would Sona know Ranveer any better to approach him? Sona met Ranveer exactly the number of time Ranveer met Sona.
Now regarding Sona's interference. Sona could have taken Dev into confidence if Dev hadn't asked her to mind her own business. But it's hard to mind one's own business when a. the said business is crashing down under the same roof affecting one's business and b. all the whining, moping, crying is going on around you affecting your mood.
Sona could have very well minded her own business if she was in her honeymoon. After all that's exactly what she was doing earlier until Ishwari made it her own business.
Well if Neha's matter affecting Sona life and honeymoon cancellation
are the reason for Sona' s conscious step to directly talk to Ranveer then I guess she should be bold and frank enough to let Dixit know this.
If she is stubborn and bold enough to speak to Ranveer's family directly after several warning from Dev/Ishwari then she must have guts to let them know that it is cancellation of her HM which is pushing her to solve Neha's matter.
I am sure Dev and Ishwari can then understand and make sense out of her desperate and stubborn attempts. But one must be honest.
About Neha taking a wrong step, if Neha truly loves Ranveer, then she might take a wrong step if her marriage breaks up. But if she doesn't and just wants to move on with her life, considering how much she loves luxury and material things, she won't take any wrong step.
I hope so 😃
Dev himself made it impossible to take him into confidence. If he had taken Sona into confidence, then that would have encouraged Sona into doing the same. But he first of all never discusses anything with Sona and then ask her to stay out yet expects her to be okay with whatever disruption this causes in her life. He can't have it both ways.
Either continue to live life as if nothing happened or help her fix the issue so that everyone can move on with their life.
if thats the case then I guess Sona must fix her issues with Dev's first and then try to fix Somebody else's issues.
If she cannot convince her husband then how can she convince Neha's husband and even if she can ,she must prioritize her own things first before somebody else's.
She ran to save Neha's life without her husband's knowledge.Dev could have reacted to it very badly and harshly.
In order to fix Neha's life can she afford to upset and anger her husband?
