I dint feel Ranveer did anything wrong and from quiet few days I have been speaking on his behalf only as I feel he is the only one who is getting badly suffered due to all this.
His married life is at stake and everybody in Dixit house including Sona is doing what they think is right.
He is ought to get confused and infuriated when he hears different things from every individual of Dixit family.
To an outside like Ranveer.. Be it Sona,,Dev or Ishwari -Each and every individual represents Dixit family as a whole. They all must come to a term before one goes out and act as a spoke person from Dixits to talk on this matter.
Neha-send him divorces.
Dev is planning to send Lawyers
and then Sona shows up at Ranveer's home with a different POV altogether.
If Ranveer is hearing different stories and getting different messages from Dixit family then clearly it is fault of Dixits as they are disorganized as a family and are not aligned with each other.
Ranveer's reaction is totally justified today as he has no personal equation with Sona so Sona coming and talking to his family soon after her husband's authoritative announcement of taking matter to the court is little weird.
Had I or you been at Ranveer's place ,we would have thought the same thing that there is anything wrong between Dev and Sona. Ranveer doesn't know Sona personally and whatever interaction he had with Sona was limited through Dev/Neha/Ishwari only so Sona doing anything that contradicts Dev will definitely bewilder and irk Ranveer.
His marriage is on the verge of divorce when he is not at all at fault. On the top of that Dixits are pressing all sorts of buttons to misguide him as to what exactly they want .what else can we expect from him?
He is bound to think that Dixits are misleading him by playing a game. His reactions are apparent outcomes of his disoriented state cause by Dixits who are pushing him in all directions.
Glad that his family is sorted out and he speaks on everyone's behalf. Family goals !
I cannot agree more on whatever he said today. He is keeping his family away from all this and wanting same from Dixits(to not involve his family) as they all know what they are doing and they know what they are doing is right as well.
Ranveer's Bhabhi dint sound any different from what Ranveer thinks so there is absolutely no need to skip Ranveer and approach his family instead. Ranveer is wise and prudent enough to decide for himself. This is how a family head ,a primary moneygiver and a primary caregiver should be.
By that I dint mean that He is being a dictator for his family but is avoiding any sort of confusions that might occur due to many heads meet.
I have no hopes from Ishwari as she is altogether on a different mission to strike off Sona unreasonably from everything but Don't you think Sona should at least take her husband in confidence for her genuine efforts before she is taking a step against him on his sister's matter?
After all it is not just about Neha and Ranveer now. It is more about Dev and Sona speaking same language by virtue of being life partners.
Sona knows Neha very well that she can do anything at the spur- of- the- moment so she must be very careful before doing anything even if she thinks what she is doing is right.
How Neha perceives Sona helping her?
She thinks Sona is eager to send her away from Dixit house and she is extremely hurt ,upset and vocal about it. Now if she takes any big step due to this like making a final decision for separation or even a suicide attempt.
Then Will Sona be ready to take a lifelong guilt of the reason behind Neha doing so?
I have no doubt on Sona's sensibility and maturity to handle this situation but knowing that responses of people are outrageous and insensible to your actions then Sona can at least make her moves with Dev backing her up.
little different from yours but Just My POVđ
Edited by Shilky88 - 9 years ago
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