Frustration!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: gmgi

@Rose

Aren't you having your exams now? 🤓

Beautiful post by the way 😆

Originally posted by: rose4ever

I am a little less frustrated because I fast forwarded Ishwari scenes today.I can only take so much of her repeated tum nahi samjhogi and never ending whines about her miserable life🥱But her" Bure waqt humare saathi" comment😕Bura waqt saathi hai jise peeche nahi chod sakte and what about acha waqt?Acha waqt dushman hai kya jise chodne me maza aata hai?Her reasons and justifications are baffling.How can she compensate for her lack of love towards Neha by giving in to her every whim or demand?That too just to get rid of her own guilt.The love and concern is still missing and overpowered by guilt.

And by doing this she is only disabling Neha.She is basically encouraging Neha to act out.

Ranveer's reaction towards Sona was unexpected🤔But I am glad Dev stood up for her.Now I am waiting to see him stand up for her even when it comes to GKB or Ishwari.One thing I am liking these days is that instead of shouting or blaming or ignoring Sonakshi after such scenes,he is understanding her.It was also good to see Sona expressing how she felt in the end.Dev needed to realise that she is still not being considered family,not only by others but also by him when he asks her to stay out of Neha's issue.

The best advice by Sona-Dixits need a Bose orientation program😃

I dint feel Ranveer did anything wrong and from quiet few days I have been speaking on his behalf only as I feel he is the only one who is getting badly suffered due to all this.

His married life is at stake and everybody in Dixit house including Sona is doing what they think is right.

He is ought to get confused and infuriated when he hears different things from every individual of Dixit family.

To an outside like Ranveer.. Be it Sona,,Dev or Ishwari -Each and every individual represents Dixit family as a whole. They all must come to a term before one goes out and act as a spoke person from Dixits to talk on this matter.

Neha-send him divorces.

Dev is planning to send Lawyers

and then Sona shows up at Ranveer's home with a different POV altogether.

If Ranveer is hearing different stories and getting different messages from Dixit family then clearly it is fault of Dixits as they are disorganized as a family and are not aligned with each other.

Ranveer's reaction is totally justified today as he has no personal equation with Sona so Sona coming and talking to his family soon after her husband's authoritative announcement of taking matter to the court is little weird.

Had I or you been at Ranveer's place ,we would have thought the same thing that there is anything wrong between Dev and Sona. Ranveer doesn't know Sona personally and whatever interaction he had with Sona was limited through Dev/Neha/Ishwari only so Sona doing anything that contradicts Dev will definitely bewilder and irk Ranveer.

His marriage is on the verge of divorce when he is not at all at fault. On the top of that Dixits are pressing all sorts of buttons to misguide him as to what exactly they want .what else can we expect from him?

He is bound to think that Dixits are misleading him by playing a game. His reactions are apparent outcomes of his disoriented state cause by Dixits who are pushing him in all directions.

Glad that his family is sorted out and he speaks on everyone's behalf. Family goals !

I cannot agree more on whatever he said today. He is keeping his family away from all this and wanting same from Dixits(to not involve his family) as they all know what they are doing and they know what they are doing is right as well.

Ranveer's Bhabhi dint sound any different from what Ranveer thinks so there is absolutely no need to skip Ranveer and approach his family instead. Ranveer is wise and prudent enough to decide for himself. This is how a family head ,a primary moneygiver and a primary caregiver should be.

By that I dint mean that He is being a dictator for his family but is avoiding any sort of confusions that might occur due to many heads meet.

I have no hopes from Ishwari as she is altogether on a different mission to strike off Sona unreasonably from everything but Don't you think Sona should at least take her husband in confidence for her genuine efforts before she is taking a step against him on his sister's matter?

After all it is not just about Neha and Ranveer now. It is more about Dev and Sona speaking same language by virtue of being life partners.

Sona knows Neha very well that she can do anything at the spur- of- the- moment so she must be very careful before doing anything even if she thinks what she is doing is right.

How Neha perceives Sona helping her?

She thinks Sona is eager to send her away from Dixit house and she is extremely hurt ,upset and vocal about it. Now if she takes any big step due to this like making a final decision for separation or even a suicide attempt.

Then Will Sona be ready to take a lifelong guilt of the reason behind Neha doing so?

I have no doubt on Sona's sensibility and maturity to handle this situation but knowing that responses of people are outrageous and insensible to your actions then Sona can at least make her moves with Dev backing her up.

little different from yours but Just My POV😃

Originally posted by: tia.o

All the best for your exam, Rose.

Thank you😊

Honestly Rose, my pet peeve about Dev going mute in front of his family and indirectly encouraging them to continue to call Sona names will always be there.

Same here

But at least Dev didn't try to feed Sona the bull that she is actually treated like part of his family.

That's a big step in the right direction. Now that he agrees that Sona is not treated as a family member should be treated, he can now work on fixing that.

And yes, I had to fast forward Ishwari portion too because whining is so irritating to hear.

Here's my question, why whine in front of the person whom you asked not to interfere. Don't share your problem if you don't want interference. Simple.

True.And how could you expect a person to not interfere when their life is being affected by it so much.

Ishwari said that she wants to let Neha choose her life the way she wants to live, then why did you even let Dev go to Ranveer? Why didn't you ask him not to go anywhere and gave him the same bull?

Her Raja Beta is always right except when he listens to Sona.

On top of that, she said that Sona didn't listen to her husband. And Neha is so obedient of her husband. And Radha? She is listening to her husband all the time. Bloody hypocrite.

Hypocrisy,Double Standards,Self-obsession...the list is endless.

Originally posted by: Shilky88

I dint feel Ranveer did anything wrong and from quiet few days I have been speaking on his behalf only as I feel he is the only one who is getting badly suffered due to all this.

His married life is at stake and everybody in Dixit house including Sona is doing what they think is right.

He is ought to get confused and infuriated when he hears different things from every individual of Dixit family.

To an outside like Ranveer.. Be it Sona,,Dev or Ishwari -Each and every individual represents Dixit family as a whole. They all must come to a term before one goes out and act as a spoke person from Dixits to talk on this matter.

Neha-send him divorces.

Dev is planning to send Lawyers

and then Sona shows up at Ranveer's home with a different POV altogether.

If Ranveer is hearing different stories and getting different messages from Dixit family then clearly it is fault of Dixits as they are disorganized as a family and are not aligned with each other.

Ranveer's reaction is totally justified today as he has no personal equation with Sona so Sona coming and talking to his family soon after her husband's authoritative announcement of taking matter to the court is little weird.

Had I or you been at Ranveer's place ,we would have thought the same thing that there is anything wrong between Dev and Sona. Ranveer doesn't know Sona personally and whatever interaction he had with Sona was limited through Dev/Neha/Ishwari only so Sona doing anything that contradicts Dev will definitely bewilder and irk Ranveer.

His marriage is on the verge of divorce when he is not at all at fault. On the top of that Dixits are pressing all sorts of buttons to misguide him as to what exactly they want .what else can we expect from him?

He is bound to think that Dixits are misleading him by playing a game. His reactions are apparent outcomes of his disoriented state cause by Dixits who are pushing him in all directions.

Glad that his family is sorted out and he speaks on everyone's behalf. Family goals !

I cannot agree more on whatever he said today. He is keeping his family away from all this and wanting same from Dixits(to not involve his family) as they all know what they are doing and they know what they are doing is right as well.

Ranveer's Bhabhi dint sound any different from what Ranveer thinks so there is absolutely no need to skip Ranveer and approach his family instead. Ranveer is wise and prudent enough to decide for himself. This is how a family head ,a primary moneygiver and a primary caregiver should be.

By that I dint mean that He is being a dictator for his family but is avoiding any sort of confusions that might occur due to many heads meet.

I have no hopes from Ishwari as she is altogether on a different mission to strike off Sona unreasonably from everything but Don't you think Sona should at least take her husband in confidence for her genuine efforts before she is taking a step against him on his sister's matter?

After all it is not just about Neha and Ranveer now. It is more about Dev and Sona speaking same language by virtue of being life partners.

Sona knows Neha very well that she can do anything at the spur- of- the- moment so she must be very careful before doing anything even if she thinks what she is doing is right.

How Neha perceives Sona helping her?

She thinks Sona is eager to send her away from Dixit house and she is extremely hurt ,upset and vocal about it. Now if she takes any big step due to this like making a final decision for separation or even a suicide attempt.

Then Will Sona be ready to take a lifelong guilt of the reason behind Neha doing so?

I have no doubt on Sona's sensibility and maturity to handle this situation but knowing that responses of people are outrageous and insensible to your actions then Sona can at least make her moves with Dev backing her up.

little different from yours but Just My POV😃