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Posted: 8 years ago
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What I liked the most about today's episode is Dev did not deny when Sonakshi said she is still not considered part of the family. He understands that she is still being treated as an outsider and wishes that one day she be treated as family by his mom. This is a big development in Dev for me cause earlier he used to just assume that his family loved her and thought of her as family. He never listened to Sonakshi when she tried to point this out.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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As I mentioned in my previous post, opportunity was limited which she gave Dev. But love and care are unlimited. In exchange for opportunity, she could have given more love and care to Neha.

Or even later when they were rich, she could have compensated for the past.

But she didn't. Usually parents give more love, care and attention to the weak/disadvantaged child not to the strong/advantaged child.

Ishwari was doing what we Bengali call, Tela mathay tel deowa. That means oiling a head that is already oiled too much or in another sense giving to the rich or advantaged hoping for payback instead of the poor and disadvantaged...

Originally posted by: Rithu0203

Nice post, totally agree with you.


You differentiated between your children, not only when it came to opportunity but also when it came to love, care and attention.

Above point is so true, about Ishwari, really can't understand these two points.
1. What stopped her from loving,caring her kids equally, even after financial stability achieved??
2. The way of upbringing her kids, instead of showing them right and wrong, she just want to please them to satisfy her guilt.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is really gold hearted. very understanding. just loved that dialogues she need to take dixit orientation and Dev shd take bose orientation. now Dev slowly understanding Sona. .its a good move from cvs.
During difficulties, if family together discuss and come up with solution. .the burden is very less. whether right or wrong..One person will not regret for his decision. .It is like more confident on decision.

Coming to eshwari. .Instead of guiding or advising what is correct and what is wrong. ..she is in her own guilt trip. They always claim they have seen terrible hard ship. but they learned nothing. They don't know how to respect others feeling. I always wonder, if they had seen such hardship, it will be easy for them to adjust in any condition. I feel they are more selfish and self obsessed people. Eshwari is not just poor in money wise but also poor in loving. she never taught her children to love others. whenever I see dixit I feel how poor they are. I feel sona family rich.

Lastly I want cvs to give some dialogues to mamaji other than making his wife quiet. He uses his dialogues at the end of mamiji shouting, not before.

In dixit family men looks like spineless. no one opens up. only female are deciding ..cvs need to work on that.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, good catch. Dev, I think is starting to realise that his family doesn't appear to others as he has sees them being the favourite and pampered child.

He can't continue to turn blind eye when he sees that for every single situation, Sona is blamed but he is not even asked a question for the same situation.

Dev first went to talk to Ranveer for the same reason Sona went. He threatened Ranveer and Sona politely tried to talk to Ranveer's sister-in-law. But their aim was the same.

Yet, Sona was blamed and he was not even asked any question.

How can he deny after that example that Sona is treated like family?

Originally posted by: Shaavi

What I liked the most about today's episode is Dev did not deny when Sonakshi said she is still not considered part of the family. He understands that she is still being treated as an outsider and wishes that one day she be treated as family by his mom. This is a big development in Dev for me cause earlier he used to just assume that his family loved her and thought of her as family. He never listened to Sonakshi when she tried to point this out.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

When did Ishwari and Radha ever saw Dev's fault that you are expecting them to see it today?

Ishwari never asked Dev why he went to talk to Ranveer but instead threatened him with lawyer.

Specially since Ranveer is still married to Neha.

But nope, like you said, Dixits can't do no wrong.

Dev keeps saying that she doesn't have to do anything to be part of his family. But the truth is that she can't do anything that will make her part of their family.

Like I said, a smart women would have quit bothering with that family. But since their daily drama is impacting her life, she can't just ignore them. She is trapped as neatly as Dev claimed Ranveer trapped Neha.

Ranveer is just like Dev believe it or not. Neha actually got her wish to marry someone like Dev. The only difference between them is money and a supportive family. Dev got the former, Ranveer got the later.


Nope, I wasn't expecting anything of the sort from Ishwari and GKB.

I disagree. RV is not like Dev. He has self respect in true sense of the word. He stands by his family without bullying others to get what he wants. RV bent over backwards for "loveofhislife" when knew he lost her by accepting the job referral Dev send his way. and that's when he propsed to her. RV bent over backwards for "loveofhislife" when he agreed to move in a bigger apartment with Neha to make her happy.

What did Dev do for Sonakshi? He didn't fight for her when he lost her. Instead he tried to ruin her life. His mommy went and got the doll back in his life. Even today, Dev allowed GKB to call her bichu is dassoing Neha and family.

From what I see, RV is reasonable guy who loves Neha but now is angry cause of Neha's impatience, behavior and lack of trying to resolve their issues. It's not his ego. He is hurt badly by Neha's actions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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True. Sona is trying to treat Dev's family the way she treats her own. But unfortunately she is not getting the same response, respect, love and understanding from the Dixits.

Ishwari is beyond any redemption. So it's useless to talk about that women anymore.

Mamaji, very unsuccessfully tries to control his wife. But the way Radha behaves as if this is her home. This is her sister-in-law's home, not even her father-in-law's home where she or husband has somewhat right. Sona has more right to be there than Radha.

Mama might have helped Ishwari, but Radha never did.

Dev at least starting to see light. But he still has a lot to learn but first, he needs to sit down with Neha before he screws up her life further and then Neha has another guilt to use against him. Neha is not very different from Ishwari that way, but at least she has a conscience.

It's just Dixit family (more specifically Ishwari, Neha and Dev) got so used to using the past as a crutch that they could not form any other bond with each other beyond that same past. If that excuse become ineffective due to multiple use, they will have no bond left between them.

Sona on the other hand, is creating new bond every single chance she got. A smart warrior keeps various arsenal in their kitty and keeps picking new ones, not just rely on an old rusty one.

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Sona is really gold hearted. very understanding. just loved that dialogues she need to take dixit orientation and Dev shd take bose orientation. now Dev slowly understanding Sona. .its a good move from cvs.

During difficulties, if family together discuss and come up with solution. .the burden is very less. whether right or wrong..One person will not regret for his decision. .It is like more confident on decision.

Coming to eshwari. .Instead of guiding or advising what is correct and what is wrong. ..she is in her own guilt trip. They always claim they have seen terrible hard ship. but they learned nothing. They don't know how to respect others feeling. I always wonder, if they had seen such hardship, it will be easy for them to adjust in any condition. I feel they are more selfish and self obsessed people. Eshwari is not just poor in money wise but also poor in loving. she never taught her children to love others. whenever I see dixit I feel how poor they are. I feel sona family rich.

Lastly I want cvs to give some dialogues to mamaji other than making his wife quiet. He uses his dialogues at the end of mamiji shouting, not before.

In dixit family men looks like spineless. no one opens up. only female are deciding ..cvs need to work on that.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Tia.o: Agree with you that sona has good intentions but I guess at present she's going on and on with her efforts to save neha's marriage.. it looks like she is overdoing it atleast to neha, ishwari. And am afraid if this will eventually have negative effects on her married life.. Thing is people never recognise or appreciate someone's help when they are not asked for. Though a family member, people still think it as poking your nose.. especially in sister in laws relationship. I think sona should stop now for time being.. I want her to wait because she wants to do good but her efforts are going upside down.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The reason I think Ranveer and Dev are similar is that they both take their decisions without consulting with their wives. Both doesn't include their wife in the statement when they say "my family" and they are both responsible for their family.

However, Ranveer doesn't have Dev's money, hence he doesn't have Dev's arrogance. But then Dev doesn't have Ranveer's family, so he doesn't have Ranveer's patience.

Ranveer's anger is justified. But the aim of his anger is not the right person. Had he been equally rude to Dev yesterday, he would have been right. But Sona has never been rude or disrespectful to him or anyone else in his family. He didn't need to blast her for her good intention.

I have mentioned Dev's lack of response when it comes to defending Sona from his family before. That is one of my pet peeve about him. Sona can take care of herself, but calling her names is disrespectful whether it is done by Radha, Ishwari or Ranveer.

Ishwari taunted Sona for not listening to her husband but then when has Neha ever listened to her husband?

And the way Radha calls names to Sona, you'd think she is talking to the maid and not the wife of the owner of the house she is standing on.

But Dev becomes silent in front of them.

Dev is slowly changing but he has a long way to go.



Originally posted by: vibg


Nope, I wasn't expecting anything of the sort from Ishwari and GKB.

I disagree. RV is not like Dev. He has self respect in true sense of the word. He stands by his family without bullying others to get what he wants. RV bent over backwards for "loveofhislife" when knew he lost her by accepting the job referral Dev send his way. and that's when he propsed to her. RV bent over backwards for "loveofhislife" when he agreed to move in a bigger apartment with Neha to make her happy.

What did Dev do for Sonakshi? He didn't fight for her when he lost her. Instead he tried to ruin her life. His mommy went and got the doll back in his life. Even today, Dev allowed GKB to call her bichu is dassoing Neha and family.

From what I see, RV is reasonable guy who loves Neha but now is angry cause of Neha's impatience, behavior and lack of trying to resolve their issues. It's not his ego. He is hurt badly by Neha's actions.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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As I said, a smart person would let Neha hang her happiness and let the family suffer. But Sona is never smart about her own good when it comes to the people she loves.

Was she smart when she went after Dev leaving Ritwik, the perfect match behind? No.

Was she smart when she jumped into the marriage before figuring out if Dev would have chosen her if Ishwari hadn't gave in? No.

She is definitely not smart for worrying about Neha when Neha nor her family care if she ruins her own life.

Sona has been and will always be an emotional fool even though she has a heart of Gold.

But then she wasn't interfering until Neha's problem spilled into her life affecting her own marriage. If Ishwari keeps crying and whining in front of her and doesn't let Dev and her be happy because Neha is unhappy, she has no other option but to fix Neha. Because without fixing Neha, Dev won't be free from his guilt.


Originally posted by: AV25

@Tia.o: Agree with you that sona has good intentions but I guess at present she's going on and on with her efforts to save neha's marriage.. it looks like she is overdoing it atleast to neha, ishwari. And am afraid if this will eventually have negative effects on her married life.. Thing is people never recognise or appreciate someone's help when they are not asked for. Though a family member, people still think it as poking your nose.. especially in sister in laws relationship. I think sona should stop now for time being.. I want her to wait because she wants to do good but her efforts are going upside down.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg

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EDITED..GKB called her bichu and das liya.. Did he say a word? Ishwari maaroed taunts about not listening to her husband and all.. Did he say a word? Just like Dev, Sonakshi does what she wants to...and he knows that. Why he never said... all of us are at fault. Not jsut Sonakshi. Her heart is pure.

so true it was easy for him to defend sona because anyway for him ranveer is outsider only .But what about GKB , at least try to put her in place politely .I am not even expecting him defending sona in front of his mother . woh toh lifelong main kabhi nahi hoga .😕

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