Very tricky situation!

Worst is a situation when no one is wrong! This is situation where Neha and Ranveer are into. None of the two are wrong. Ranveer is person of very high self respect ( mind it not ego). He wants to be a self made person. He has always lived a middle class life and he is comfortable with it. He thinks Neha has married him already knowing he is a middle class family oriented guy, so she should adjust with him.

Neha is also not wrong! Neha had really adjusted a lot in that house, its easy to tlk idealistic but very difficult to adjust in such a lower middle class family. In that house she din even had a room for herself. Ranveer's family had understood Neha's inconvinience thats y they had askd Ranveer to shift to new house. They are not wrong and even Neha is also not wrong. In middle class families as the family grows, people move out bcoz of lack of space. Neha is not wrong in expecting a better life for herself when she knows Ranveer is capable of it.

It is a very tricky situation. Both are behaving like fishes in the pond, none can see the water.

Sonakshi is right in this given situation its only rerealisation of love they have for each other can salvage their relationship.

Feeling sad for both Neha and Ranveer

And angry with both Ishwari and Dev. Both are telling Sona to stay from it. Ishwari still i grant but Dev? Doesnt he know till now noone on this earth understands relationship as much as Sonakshi does? Khus he toh bolta tha Ms Bose u are always right! Aap sab jaanti hain. Ab kya hua? Instead of understanding her valid point, he is telling her to stayaway from the whole situation.

This confused mother son duo will understand this situation when Sona will patchup Neha n Ranveer's relation.

I hope Sona does it

Sona hi neha ranveer ko samhal legi... Unko saath layegi...

I'm not sure if any of us would be able to adjust in a household like Ranveer's if you belong to Neha's kind of background (current family with money). Neha is not wrong there but she is wrong in expecting Ranveer to be like Dev and for pushing him to become like Dev.

This is exactly what I was thinking today.Ranveer is absolutely right in his place.A man with such self respect would never accept what Neha or Dev wants him to.
At the same time Neha is not completely wrong either.Its very easy to say that she knew Ranveer's financial status before marriage but knowing something and living through it are two different things.Maybe she thought Ranveer's love will be enough and she will adjust.She even tried to adjust.Maybe this was the breaking point for her.
Maybe if they tried to sit down and talk about the whole issue calmly.Only if they tried to understand each other's plight..things would have been different.

I think Neha taught her love will change ranveer and he too will make some compromises but she was wrong ranveer is a person with strong principles and for him self respect is very important.Neha expecting a better life is not wrong but her trying to change Ranveer for that is wrong.In a relationship to work both partners have to work,give and sacrifice, but over key communication is a major problem both Neha and ranveer should just talk all their problems will get solved 😊

Most wil not like my response...

Neha is in difficult spot today for many many reasons and it is not doing of her alone...but the fact is she is not financially independent...and one who cannot or is not on his/her own, cannot throw so much attitude... if you do not have the nuisance power, better to be quiet else you may scream at the top of your lungs and attract others attention for short time but no one would want to be around you in long run...

so look at yourself, judge where you stand and act accordingly... thoda jhukne se agar sab kuch milega to jhuko... and if not, then do it on your own guts...

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium

I'm not sure if any of us would be able to adjust in a household like Ranveer's if you belong to Neha's kind of background (current family with money). Neha is not wrong there but she is wrong in expecting Ranveer to be like Dev and for pushing him to become like Dev.

There are a lot of people who want to make money but that does not mean, they will.

Also, Neha is wrong is expecting Ranveer to change. She knew exactly what he was when she married him. She knew he was from lower middle class. She knew he lived in a small house. She knew he had a family and obligations.

She knew it all and chose to marry him. What did she expect him to do? Bend over backwards to provide so that she can live like a princess?

Therefore I don't agree with you when you say that Neha is not wrong.

I have a problem with Ishwari in this matter. As a parent how did she think Neha was going live in a matchbox house and lead life where there will be shortage for money. Ishwari says she knows her daughter and frankly, I think that is the biggest farce of all. She doesn't.

Frankly, I don't agree with Sona in this matter too. She thinks love can fix all problems in love but sorry, real life doesn't work that way.

I understood where Dev was coming from before Neha's wedding...he was the most practical one but nobody ...Just nobody wanted to listen to what he had to say,

Its Ranveer who thinks Neha wants him to be like Dev! Neha just thinks that if Dev can reach to the level where he has reached, y can't Ranveer..
Even this is not the thing. She tried a lot to adjust in scarcity. She was initially guilty that she had asked Dev to to make Ranveer rich because she respected Ranveer's self esteem.
Ranveer himself has promised her they will shift into new flat. She had rather refused to shift saying she doesn't want to break the family but only after Ranveer's mother and bhabhi expalined her that by moving out of house they are not moving out of heart she agreed to shift to a new house. She had made up her mind and was dreaming of a new life but now suddenly that thing has been denied to her that's y she is feeling frustrated. Yes, she knew Ranveer is middle class with high self eastern. But she always thght he loves her so much that he will change for her! I don know thinking this way is right or wrong!

May b ideally speaking its wrong but practically v all think that person who loves us will not mind changing for us.

Ranveer though had promised her a new flat but bcoz of mother's surgery had to back out, he is not wrong health is always more important.

This tricky situations are learning curve in ne relationship.

Neha nad Ranveer will also learn to create balance!