My Stupid girl - Sonakshi Bose.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Deeps... 🤗

Was on a beautiful vacation with family... Just back to work and IF! 😉 And so far have caught up only with the Written updates... No inclination to watch the episodes yet... Past is gone and done and let me see what's coming up...😉

Yes, I know we will never be on the same page on this one... I would any-day take Sona away from this madness😉 while you will await her going through the hardships to come out in flying colors... 😉 Still we will happily be disagreeing and discussing with a healthy note on the same... That's the chemistry that I like sharing with you... 🤗

It's in my own life's experiences shared/heard/seen the feelings could be the same but the action/reaction to those feelings could make a lot of difference in dealing with them... All learnt from my own elders on how to be and how not to be... The same instance seen with different perspective and right mindset to deal with it emotionally, makes the experience a bitter one or a lesson... I wouldn't even agree on the upbringing being the cause of all 'cos two people brought up by the same parent have different ways of dealing with the same emotions... There are many many ways to learn lesson from our own environment.. Playing the victim is not a solution to keep one's emotional instability justified...

I don't want to pity Sona and make her the victim... She's too far away from being victimized unless she allows herself to be... Hope Dev's this trait don't get rubbed on her... 🤔

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Neha will always be part of the Dixits' family and the message to Sona is she will always be part of the Bose family...😉

In Dev's POV - Sona's family is Dev-Sona... And Dev's family is The Dixits...

In Sona's POV - Sona's family is Dev & anything related to him.. And Dev's family is The Dixits...

In Ishu's POV - Dev's family is The Dixits... and Sona's family is ? Oh no bother whether she has a family or not... Anyway she's an outsider... Ishu has too many family problems to think about an outsider...

In Boses' POV - Sona's family is the Dixits' and the Boses'... She can enjoy both sides of the world...

Only that the girl doesn't have a clarity on her own world and where she actually belongs to in all these POVs...

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

@Bold - Seeing the way CV's coming up with awesome track.This is bound to happen.May be Dev wan to help.But Sona will not want to take Dev help.Because Bijoy will not like it.So she will say I will take care of the financial crisis or Dev can secretly help Bose family.Keeping it secret from Sona n his family.Latter when matter comes out.Drama can happen.

Both Dev N Sona need to face hardship.Dev in business.Sona in Dixit family[Sona already facing it.She need to face some more].Then only she will understand.How much ever she try.Ish will not consider her as a family member.Then only she will stop the mission of trying to become ideal bahu.Dev will understand business decision cannot be taken based on Eshann N Emotional black mail.

Vicky taunted Sona saying she is roaming in the house without any work.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I would really love to see the Dixits without any money... Radharani & family will run away... Neha will go back... Nikki will focus on her studies... Rhea will focus on her career... Dev-Sona will work like any educated person would make their family survive... Ishu will have her hands and mind full to keep herself doing the family budget planning thus not plotting and scheming against the couple 😆

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Sona need some reality check.Only Bijoy can do it.Then only she will be back to her sense.Then only she will face the truth.That she is trying to become someone who she is not.She is loosing her individuality.Should do things which she likes.Does not do things to win any one or to fit in .

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Beautiful post and so very true dear. But you know what most women make this mistake after marriage...especially love marriages ..because there is this feeling that family needs to accept you..shamefully accepting ,even I have done it too ...but eventually you will realise bt by then you would have lost yourself ...then it takes time to get back to old self...

The best advice that I would give is dont try to change anything...concentrate on your self and your husband , if you dont like something that they did to you ...tell your husband when you both are alone...and when he is in a nice mind frame...not when he has come from office or discussion with his mom...when it comes to you and your husband be a lil selfish and think from the two of yours perspective... Please dont change for them because they are not going to even notice the change in you...be yourself . Let them learn to accept you as who you are ...if they dont like it ...then its their problem not yours !!

I know its kind of wrong to say a lady should adjust always when the man who got married to you and brought you to his house to share his life is oblivious of your situation...where as you seem to notice every bit of his discomfort and want to support..but sometimes thats how it is...

In life ...its very difficult to judge in terms of black or white...its the shades of grey that confuse you ...makes it difficult to take a strong decision..as live on you will start judging greys way easier than you used ...experience will teach ...hmmm...sometimes with some amount of pain..

Originally posted by: deepsel

Aww glad you had the time of your life away from all this mess 😆

Well thats exactly why I feel comfortable inside your posts though we stand at two ends of the line..You have the mutual respect for others POV and don't demean or judge them for that !!

Yes I say never give up without a fight once you have entered the ring and you say that fight itself is not worth fighting for😳..I say with my experience she is certain to shine and you say with the same experience she doesn't need to go through the same visible pain and will be happy even if she settles for uncertain less 😳...I totally get you and thats the beauty of perspectives🤗

I know the episodes are mind blogging to read but would suggest you to try watching on leisure because sometimes we see more layers visually than in WU😳

You have a great day my friend..am off to beauty sleep 😆

Originally posted by: sameera26849776

hahaa u r right.poor girl in all this she is suffering too much.as a newly married girl she is trying to impress them doing whatever she never did bt dey r not understanding or paying any value of her doings.nd I think this is high time she should join her work enough of this becoming a perfect bahu

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Hello

I am new here. I joined because I loved the show and wanted to discuss with other viewers.

No parent would ever wish for their daughter to spend her newly wed days the way Sona is having to/putting herself through

Asha is so hopeful of Dev's hopeless love. I think as a mother she sees that even though Sona will have her unfair share of problems in this marriage, love conquers all and I am hoping Dev-Sona will have a strong foundation