Lovely post 👏. My like button is not working.. Grrr. 😕
But yes I'd like to politely disagree on few points. The slight jealousy is in every person regarding something or the other. But this is on actually a negative level. And very very realistic as well. Though I'll save my applauses depending on how this will be handled but yes the makers deserve an appreciation for bring ing this forth.
Coming to your father, oh that's actually a normal one. He is not trying to sabotage your relationship knowingly or unknowingly😊
To be very Frank, because it's a show and a lot of layers had been shown of Ishwari before, viewers can give a benefit of doubt to her. But this doesn't happen in real life, in most cases. The hatred which is on the forum is what actually develops out of these scenarios. It's not that the daughter in laws start disobeying their MILs in the very beginning itself. No one does that. Specially in single parents, even the Daughter in laws naturally respect them. But there is a difference - to get naturally respected and to force respect out of someone.
These cases are a mix of two things, one forced respect that you have to listen only to what I have been saying in this house all these years and second the toy for the house. That is one of the mentalities which they showed in the promo in lot lot of cases. And ishwari lost my points with that promo actually. That didn't show her insecurity.. That showed her mentality. Sorry no offence. That is what mother in laws are so cursed about - they want a toy.. A maid not a partner to their sons. Someone who can do all the household work and give them a grandchild when demanded.
Coming again to the hatred, well this is a show and at the end everyone will be happy with no love lost for Ishwari.. But the hatred which is on forum is what actually remains by the end of these storms. The relationship is strained for ever, not on the surface but inside. The moment Ishwari told Nikki to ask Sona to sleep with them my mother grunted, just like your grandma. The wounds are deep and they don't heal. The prenup makes it worse to empathize with her. Just my POV. That is pure plotting.
Ishwari made numerous sacrifices for Dev that doesn't give her browny points. Not from me at least. She likes no one near him. Natasha was great. She was not happy. Sona is her son's love, she is not happy. Every mother makes lots of sacrifices for their son but the niceness is just not in that.. It's in how your treat someone else's daughter in your house. Women ill-treat even their own choice of daughter in law.
The makers have taken a wonderful concept. However I never liked ishwari for I hate biased parents. The daughters are sidelined like some furniture. And that brings a bad bad taste in my mouth. Why can't the makers also highlight that daughters can also share your troubles and not just the son? Regarding the message, I hope for once the housewives take a good message out of it. For we are a country where major people want Ram as a kid but won't make an effort to not be like Dashrath and not do injustice to their own kids. Or they'll be blind like Dhritrashtra, but won't open their eyes and stop their kids from being Duryodhan. Wishful thinkings hopefully turn into reality this time.
PS: The show is indeed Path breaking. Hope it is taken as a lesson by the real life mother in laws. Though yes, ishwari makes me shiver due to personal incidents and what I heard from my frenz. They are not beaten or physically tortured but this mental torture is equally hazardous.
Edited by Moony87 - 8 years ago
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