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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: tia.o

The first person who SHOULD know about THEIR own medical condition is the patient i.e. Sonakshi. Then it's her decision whether she should share it with anyone else or not. Ethically, she should share this with her husband because it impacts them both. But since a child is conceived by two people and family member are not involved in the baby making process, whether this news should be shared further or not is entirely Sona's decision.

Where Dev comes into it? He gotta stop running to his mummy every time.

Well yes, the patient should know about it first and it should be her decision on whether she wants to disclose to anybody else and as you said ethically speaking she should share it with her husband.
If they don't disclose it to sona, won't she want to see her reports, won't she herself talk to the doctor?How can Dev even think of hiding this from her given that it is her issue so she has the right to know.
But this confidentiality and practicality is obviously lost in tv soaps.So they'll show it as they want to,no matter how illogical.

When will Dev stop running to mommy for everything?When he grows up and think like an adult.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

What doctor-patient confidentiality? Wo kiss chiriya ka naam hai? Koi bhi aake doctor ko bolta hai ki main uska honewala pati hoon aur doctor apni social service mein lag jaata hai by vomitting all patient's details. Lage haat uska medical history, vital statistics, childhood vaccine ka file bhi thama dete.

Idhar lawyer aake apne client ka confidential document uske maa ko thama deta hai udhar doctor aake patient ki medical history jo bhi relation claim kare usse bata deta hai.

Kal Dev ka banker aake Dev ka investment aur password Radha ko thama ke chala jayega.

Kya farq padta hai agar thoda bahut law break hota hai to?

Ishwari bhi to dhoke se apne bete ka sign le liya? Jab usse Sona ki medical condition pata chalegi to divorce paper mein bhi dhoke se sign le legi. Dixit family mein to yeh sab aam baat hai. Kya jaroorat hai witness ya legal system ki?




Totally agree with you!...but this is the problem with every Indian tv show... They've to show something illogical, nonsense to prove themselves that they're Indian TV show makers... Making mockery of relationships, laws each and everything has become a habit of them... I had a lot of expectations from this show.. But this is an Indian show after all
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have a doubt, are the Dixits really vegetarian? Ishwari said they don't even touch egg but in episode 38, Sona prepared omelette for Nikki...
From where did Sona get that egg, did she prepared it from her home?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hope not. I don't think there is any need whatsoever to reveal this medical history until they are ready to be parent.

Sonakshi has low chance of conceiving. May be she even might face issue carrying the baby. So what? That's what surrogates are for. Take Dev's sperm and Sona's egg and pay a surrogate to carry their baby to term. Money is not their problem after all.

You don't need to actually carry around a baby to be a mother these days. Ishwari gave birth to four kids but I have never seen a worse mother. Even Neha is better mother to her sisters without ever giving birth to them.

Ishwari ko grandchildren se matlab hai na. To mil jayegi. Kaise milegi isse usko ya kisi aur ko kya matlab? Wo bachha Dev aur Sona ka genes hi to hoga na agar un dono ka sperm aur eggs used ho to.

Agar Sona khud conceive kar bhi sakti, to phir bhi Dev thodi na apna honeymoon discuss karta apni maa ke saath?

Originally posted by: sompi123

Totally agree with you Tia... And Dev is forever immature. Woh lagta nehi kabhi sudhrega... I thought he is going to stay silent about this matter until the marriage is done..but let's see Monday ko kya hai.. Maybe he'll think something and not reveal anything to Ishwari

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have still not learned from only my half predictions coming true..so here is a lovely one based on what I read today
  • Sona will sign the papers..Both Asha and Easwari will play emotional card..or this time maybe only Asha..point to be noted she does not know her infertility problems because of the great love of Dev for Easwari?
  • Dev will tell Sona condition to mommy dearest
  • Mommy dearest will use that as emotional blackmail to have Sona leave him
  • Sona will confirm the news of course now Dev will remember the promise no secrets and tell her the truth
  • Sona shattered connect the baby clause to the pre nup and walks out the marriage.
  • Dev clueless will get the lovely pre nup signed by Sona..a wedding gift to her beloved son by God herself

So wedding happens, shit hits the fan, wedding breaks and later they can use the 7% chance to show some cockamamie story..
Sona alone with baby and Dev again a baby for his mom
The End..please cvs if you use this give me credits

PS this story is depressing and I am usually a positive person this side of me scares me😕



Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm myself a bong and yes a non veggie. But I don't find her feeling so aghast at the matter of non veg food unnatural and hypocritical. Non veggies can go along with both veg and non veg but for veggies it isn't the same. Veggies genuinely have a lot of trouble when non veg food is served in the same area and even more when its near religious stuff. Its simply a belief and a practice and intimately revolves around ones life. My friend once shouted on me when I touched her books after having an egg. :P So her apologising to God for that isn't something new. Ishwari's conscience doesn't hit only while manipulating her son toh I don't expect her repenting to God about that . Humans are all in general hypocritical in some way or the other. The post here strongly criticises being a vegan in general as well at many lines with the silk and stuff as examples . Underlying that's calling whole vegan thing hypocritical. Thats not needed I feel. This whole veg and non veg issue is extremely common and happens in most inter cultural marraiges. And they handled it quite well I feel. About the medical issue. Yes its confidential. But family has the right to know it. Ishwari isn't an outsider. She will be her mother in law. Its not like Dev went and told RadhaRani. Its a big thing. This isn't back biting but awaring someone of a truth. People usually throw in a big ruckus of deceiving people from health related matters in marraiges. Its better to stay clean. If Dev had a health problem Sona's parents would have liked to be aware of the matter. I'm sure Sona wouldn't also like keeping people in the dark.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Arre they are hypocrites, naa. CVs ne socha hoga ke idhar unko aaj onion aur garlic se bhi problem dikhate hai aur udhar omeletter khila dete hai.

Waise, Dev ka surname Dixit hai na? Madhuri Dixit to non-vegetarian hai. Apne pati ke liye Shrimp curry banati hai? Problem create karne ke liye kuch bhi karte hai CVs.

Originally posted by: romanticgurl070

I have a doubt, are the Dixits really vegetarian? Ishwari said they don't even touch egg but in episode 38, Sona prepared omelette for Nikki...

From where did Sona get that egg, did she prepared it from her home?

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am afraid your prediction is 100% correct.

Originally posted by: gemini54

I have still not learned from only my half predictions coming true..so here is a lovely one based on what I read today

  • Sona will sign the papers..Both Asha and Easwari will play emotional card..or this time maybe only Asha..point to be noted she does not know her infertility problems because of the great love of Dev for Easwari?
  • Dev will tell Sona condition to mommy dearest
  • Mommy dearest will use that as emotional blackmail to have Sona leave him
  • Sona will confirm the news of course now Dev will remember the promise no secrets and tell her the truth
  • Sona shattered connect the baby clause to the pre nup and walks out the marriage.
  • Dev clueless will get the lovely pre nup signed by Sona..a wedding gift to her beloved son by God herself

So wedding happens, shit hits the fan, wedding breaks and later they can use the 7% chance to show some cockamamie story..
Sona alone with baby and Dev again a baby for his mom
The End..please cvs if you use this give me credits

PS this story is depressing and I am usually a positive person this side of me scares me😕



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

How did a guy as dense as Dev become successful? He has zero perception and zero capability of reading humans. Mummy says she is happy so must be.

Further he is almost 30. Doesn't he know how barren women are treated in India especially by third class people like his family.

The way he is going I guess he will even discuss his bedroom issues with his mother.

And that is why I do want the marriage to be shown so soon. Without Dev growing up.

Because it seems as if the track is hurtling towards marriage and divorce with Sonakshi taking care of their child and Dev not even being aware of its existence

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How Can you even say that he is the good looking hero and I also read he got his haircut for the occasion..get with the program😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose4ever

Well yes, the patient should know about it first and it should be her decision on whether she wants to disclose to anybody else and as you said ethically speaking she should share it with her husband.
If they don't disclose it to sona, won't she want to see her reports, won't she herself talk to the doctor?How can Dev even think of hiding this from her given that it is her issue so she has the right to know.
But this confidentiality and practicality is obviously lost in tv soaps.So they'll show it as they want to,no matter how illogical.

When will Dev stop running to mommy for everything?When he grows up and think like an adult.

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IN our collective dreams maybe😉

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