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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can understand the eagerness to see your love after a long time. But I just hoped he'd behave with more manners. I guess it's too much to ask a hero to be a gentleman.

Originally posted by: kar08


Hi, Im new here. Brilliant post..yes there always have been and continue to be double standards about the way we raise our boys and girls. And about the sense of entitlement boys have, well it was well and truly on display today in the scene you described- when Dev honks his horn and Sona drops everything to run to him. I would love a scene like the one you described - with Sona honking her Scooty horn and Dev running out to meet her. Except Ishwari would probably have a heart attack seeing her son give so much importance to Sona so I guess he wouldn't even make it to the scooter😃
I cant believe they didn't show an apology scene today. Dev absolutely should have met Sona's parents, apologised and tried to set their minds at rest. This was a massive failing on his part. He's like a school boy in the first flush of love, not a mature man trying to set right a very complicated situation.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You are right. I could see Asha's haste.

I think even though Bijoy agreed to this wedding for Sona's happiness, he has reservation for this family. That's why he wants to wait and judge Dev's family on their behaviour. And rightfully so.

Asha on the other hand just wants Sona to get married and doesn't want to delay because she is scared something will spoil her daughter's marriage again.

If you ask me, it's better to wait and make the right decision than hurry and ruin your life. Marriage is a lifetime commitment.



And Pray tell is there on expiration on Woman;s marriageable age?😡.. And what Train are the CV'S hoping to catch or should I be asking what are they smoking these days?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh don't you know? In India, the ONLY purpose of marriage is reproduction. No kids means no marriage. So that also means overy gone, marriage gone.

One of my cousins decided she doesn't want to have kids. She thought kids are not her cup of tea. She was very clear on that when she got married. Her husband obviously had the same idea. He didn't want children either. After a minor protest, my aunt, mother of my cousin also had to give in. My cousin is an only child by the way.

But the groom's family thought it was a perfectly reasonable to ask him to a. Why did he marry her, b. Why doesn't he divorce her, c. My cousin is unnatural to not want to be a mother etc etc even though it was both of their decision. Not once did they ask him the same question or call him unnatural to not want to reproduce.

They moved to USA and have been happily living there for a while now. They visit India but that's for sake of duty, not for any pleasure one should feel for visiting one's family and loved ones.

This is the same excuse people use in India to put down gay marriages or late in life marriages. No baby, no marriage.

As if a marriage needs a glue called baby to keep two people together.

Sonakshi is going to go through all those criticism if the infertility track is true.


Originally posted by: gemini54



And Pray tell is there on expiration on Woman;s marriageable age?😡.. And what Train are the CV'S hoping to catch or should I be asking what are they smoking these days?

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Oh don't you know? In India, the ONLY purpose of marriage is reproduction. No kids means no marriage. So that also means overy gone, marriage gone.

Does it also mean no kids no intimacy too..because i am yet to see that portrayed with our cute couple?

One of my cousins decided she doesn't want to have kids. She thought kids are not her cup of tea. She was very clear on that when she got married. Her husband obviously had the same idea. He didn't want children either. After a minor protest, my aunt, mother of my cousin also had to give in. My cousin is an only child by the way.

But the groom's family thought it was a perfectly reasonable to ask him to a. Why did he marry her, b. Why doesn't he divorce her, c. My cousin is unnatural to not want to be a mother etc etc even though it was both of their decision. Not once did they ask him the same question or call him unnatural to not want to reproduce.

They moved to USA and have been happily living there for a while now. They visit India but that's for sake of duty, not for any pleasure one should feel for visiting one's family and loved ones.

Good for them

This is the same excuse people use in India to put down gay marriages or late in life marriages. No baby, no marriage.

As if a marriage needs a glue called baby to keep two people together.

WORD and in our show it needs EASWARI TOO!

Sonakshi is going to go through all those criticism if the infertility track is true.

She is after all the Nari of Indian TV


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev should have been Aditya from jab we met. Instead he turned out to be anshuman😆 its amazing how he made the bose family suffer life hell and after ritwik's departure went back to his daily routine of diligently concentrating on his work. No flashbacks, no introspection, no desire of trying to make amends for his petty and improper behaviour the previous week. The less said about sona the better. A good show totally ruined.
Edited by Juhi.m - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And Pray tell is there on expiration on Woman;s marriageable age?😡.. And what Train are the CV'S hoping to catch or should I be asking what are they smoking these days?
Oh don't you know(no I am not stealing your words Tia, this is really what came to my mind😆)a woman's life is incomplete without a husband. How will she manage to survive on her own?And how will she snare an eligible bachelor at old age ?And the other reason has been covered by Tia.

Btw, where was this sarcasm hidden @gemini54? I am loving it!
Edited by rose4ever - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post!

I also wanted Dev to come in first and apologize to the Bose family... And I hoping this happens soon!!
I see the pre-cap,when he's at the Bose residence, this is what I'm waiting for... Sorry and forgiveness

Sona's mom is clearing wanting Sona's happiness..Bijoy is right in his own place, I just being optimistic knowing that Dev has realized Sona's value in his life .. I think he will not compromise her feelings now for anyone!

Hoping to see this point come out in this series...

And to actually see Sona slap Vicky right in front of Dev ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for your comment. Yes. I don't have much hope either. But the upcoming infertility track has me thinking whether another break up is in the horizon. Life is hard as it is without added stress, now you are adding the biggest stress or misfortune a couple can go through, how'd this relationship with survive when it's built on such a flimsy structure?

Of course things like surrogacy, test tube baby, adoption like solutions won't be suitable enough for Dev's family. This kind of reminds me of Vicky Donner minus the sperm donner scenario.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yep... He turned out to be typical insensitive men who does not give two hoots to his wife's family.

Originally posted by: Juhi.m

Dev should have been Aditya from jab we met. Instead he turned out to be anshuman😆 its amazing how he made the bose family suffer life hell and after ritwik's departure went back to his daily routine of diligently concentrating on his work. No flashbacks, no introspection, no desire of trying to make amends for his petty and improper behaviour the previous week. The less said about sona the better. A good show totally ruined.

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