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Posted: 8 years ago
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What else can Dev do? He is incapable of understanding what is he doing wrong. His upbringing has left such a severe pothole in his psyche that he can't think beyond himself.

The only person whose emotions he can understand apart from himself is his mother because he has been conditioned to do so.

He is most probably sitting in front of his laptop and thinking why is Sona behaving abnormally when everything is normal at last. I doubt if Sona banged that laptop on his head and clearly spelt out his mistakes - he would still understand

Dev Dixit is emotionally retarded.

As regards Ishwari she is another masterpiece who is in love with her own image of God.

She had been conveniently fooling herself that she is not the one who is hurting her son as no one was clearly spelling it out to her. If Mama and Dev had not blasted her she would have continued in the same vein in spite of witnessing her son's pathetic condition.

But now it is a matter of her self image in her own eyes as mamta and tyaag ki moorti. She would do anything, literally anything to prove how great a mother she is


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


He has this look on his face, like a repairman who fixed the appliance and can't for the life of him understand why it refuses to just work. He's like the typical guy who says they need a PhD to understand women.

He just needs to understand one extra woman. Sonakshi.

😆 Rightly said.. That's what the makers are intending as well.. To support all the poor men out there who do not know what their women want.. And using Sona to the maximum to make her the confused soul confusing him as well.. 😆 Trick to save the men's face in the name of women's confusing words vs actions.. 🤣 And looks like their trick is working.. 🤪
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

What else can Dev do? He is incapable of understanding what is he doing wrong. His upbringing has left such a severe pothole in his psyche that he can't think beyond himself.


The only person whose emotions he can understand apart from himself is his mother because he has been conditioned to do so.

He is most probably sitting in front of his laptop and thinking why is Sona behaving abnormally when everything is normal at last. I doubt if Sona banged that laptop on his head and clearly spelt out his mistakes - he would still understand

Dev Dixit is emotionally retarded.

As regards Ishwari she is another masterpiece who is in love with her own image of God.

She had been conveniently fooling herself that she is not the one who is hurting her son as no one was clearly spelling it out to her. If Mama and Dev had not blasted her she would have continued in the same vein in spite of witnessing her son's pathetic condition.

But now it is a matter of her self image in her own eyes as mamta and tyaag ki moorti. She would do anything, literally anything to prove how great a mother she is


How long can a person cover himself or herself in the name of bad or conditioned upbringing?! I still feel we all are trying to protect Dev in the name of Ishwari being his mother and that's all a person can do under her... 🤪 Anyway that's not my worry.. 😆

Yes Ishu was about to take the blame on her and then Maamaji saved her face.. And now she's back to confident self and given another chance to keep her confidence intact.. And yes she can't lose this golden chance to keep her out of guilt and drive her home in her own ways.. 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I watched both the thursday and friday episode back to back and I was like eh????? what was that ? 😕
My first reaction was WHY THE HELL DID DEV REACH SONA'S OFFICE?
- is she some department store where you walk in and say I dont like this dress and then after some days walk back saying, yes I like that dress, give it to me 😡
- Does every rich guy, think so high of himself that he is over confident that no girl can refuse him?

My second reaction was WHAT THE HECK WHY NOT?

-before the engagement sona told him ,even now if you say so I will drop everything and follow you.
-who would leave your engagement to drop ex lover boy?
-the way she cried in ishwari nivas, with dev in her arms, would even melt lalitha pawars heart 🤣 then Ishwari kya cheez hai 😉

After that night how can dev ever imagine, Sona can say no?

Ishwari???? my only explaination is she has to be kept like that to keep the story moving.

PS: moral of this week after watching KRPKAB , keep your brains aside. Not sure if things change next week.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now this really is something BANG ON!! Agree with each & every doubt of yours. You written the whole beautifully. Good job writer! 😊
Just done with all this non sense. Dev is behaving like all ok. He's ok with the all insult 😲 I mean kon banda itna sun sakta hai 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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All the right questions.
This mother-son obsession is never ending and unbearable.
Sonakshi very clearly told Dev the problem, her expectations but now she is suddenly shown as a person who is using her parents as an excuse and not the real reason. That is just driving a lot of viewers to sympathize with Dev as she comes across as a confused person who is unsure about what she wants.So the writers first butchered Dev's character and now its Sonakshi's turn?They must be brought to the same level and it will make a perfect match?😕

In the initial episodes, Dev used to realise his mistakes and make up for it. This Dev? Clueless and helpless with a woe is me attitude. Not thinking about anything beyond his pain earlier and now not thinking at all.I can't believe he actually asked Sona why she doesn't accept the proposal when his mother is asking ,in yesterday's epi. Is Sonakshi marrying him or his mother?
So basically his so called passion and love reawakens with a bottle of scotch and on seeing his favorite plaything with another person.First he didn't try to fight for his love in front of his mom, now he is not trying, hell not even thinking about trying to woo his lady love, forget about introspect and redeem himself.How dense can the writers show this character?
Where is the mature dealing we were promised? Its all about angst and drama now.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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A really good effort for writing the post
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok I am too lazy today...bt I am trying to gather my thoughts as I wanna reply to this one
Reply coming soon 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

How long can a person cover himself or herself in the name of bad or conditioned upbringing?! I still feel we all are trying to protect Dev in the name of Ishwari being his mother and that's all a person can do under her... 🤪 Anyway that's not my worry.. 😆

Yes Ishu was about to take the blame on her and then Maamaji saved her face.. And now she's back to confident self and given another chance to keep her confidence intact.. And yes she can't lose this golden chance to keep her out of guilt and drive her home in her own ways.. 😉


Sorry for the very late reply. 😊

I wasn't finding excuses for Dev I was mocking him and his utter lack of emotional intelligence.

But yes I would say that we are a product of our environment and Dev is the product of Ishwari 🤬

May be if Sona had actually married Ritwik or even now refuses to marry Dev and goes away, 10-15 years down the line Dev might realise where he went wrong. Right now his brain is not even trained to think about anything except mummy and himself

In ideal situation Sonakshi should not marry him because every day of her marriage will be spent training this guy that the entire universe is not about him and his mummy, nor the identity of other humans is derived from their connection to or utility to them both.

It is going to be a tough journey and Sonakshi has chosen it open eyed. After all a guy who destroys another persons career or breaks her engagement for his petty needs is mean and selfish.

When this selfishness or meanness of Dev stopped getting directed at her, Sonakshi forgot his real personality.

She has already paid a substantial price and shall continue to pay it for the balance of her life either by becoming a victim of this mother son duo or constantly struggling to make her husband a better human being
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Spot on !!

I am all the more confused to understand what does this guy want...when his Sona was with another guy he couldnt stand it...he was trying his best possible way to break their new budding friendship...now he has mom on his side...he has managed to get that Mr.R out of the scene...why is he not taking steps to convince Sona...here again he is pushing his mom to do the job for him ??

And his blank expression...he is not even trying to given an apology or explanation to Sona for his previous stupidities
More than his mom ...Dev is at fault ...if he loves her son much , then no matter what he should find a way to win her back...he now looks like he lost all hope and dont want to fight for their love...
If you ask me ...I am totally lost when it comes to Dev😕

Lol...when he forced his mother to go and talk to sonakshi...he even don't know that his mother has visited there...and about sona with other men ,yes he was trying to break relationship because he knows that sona also don't want to do marriage with him...it's just because she was upset because of him, she has taken that decision and after ritwik gone, he went to sonakshi office to convinced him but it's first time she clearly said she doesn't want to marry him and due to that , he is broken now

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