Dev : Mommy problem or it's just him ?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok I am really confused after watching the episode 😕 Lots of questions -

Is this a show about Dev and Ishwari's deewaangi for each other and to what extend they can go for each other ? Today the way Ishwari kept repeating to herself that she won't sit in peace until she gets Sona for Dev - was kind of scary ! 😲 Will these Mother-Son duo ever visit a counselor or psychiatrist or not?

Second doubt - Sona's reasons of rejecting Dev.. She is clearly rejecting Dev knowing Baba wont accept it.. But if tomorrow Baba comes and gives her permission from heart, will Sona burry all her worries about Dev's being a Momma's boy and go marry Dev ? I think it's time Sona stops using her parents as her shield to cover her actual reasons and calls a spade a spade.. Dev will never be able to tell Ishwari that Sona calls him Momma's boy, let Sona only do that

And the biggest question - Dev.. This guy is really going down each passing day in my eyes.. I mean today's episode he was not in focus, even then his lack of actions annoyed me so much.. He had 3/4 short scenes where he has just accepted what Sona told him and has started living with it.. Really ?? In 2 weeks if you see Sona laughing and enjoying with another boy, will you again start your stalking, haunting, manipulating, interefering, and nothing till then ? What exactly do you want Dev ? The passiveness is apalling 😕 Don't you really value Sona at all ? From your attitude it really really doesn't show that you're willing to work on cracking the puzzle behind Sona's rejection.. Are you going to sit and let Mommy do it for you? And if not, waiting for Sona coming to your office everytime and you grabbing the opportunity of talking about your marriage and relationship only then ? This guy is one lucky chap, both ladies are willing to get all the insults from the other party just for his happiness... But when Dev perfectly pays it back to Ishwari, he never ever feels the need to pay back to Sona.. A relationship can't go on and on with only 1 of the 2 giving selflessly and relentlessly and the other one happily absorbing all the good things and not giving back anything or even worse, being the reason behind all her pains.. I just hope Dev wakes up and gets inspired from his mother, if not anything, atleast Ishwari's determination is worthappreciating .. Wish Dev had even 1% of that for Sona ..

Dont tell me Dev sitting in fronta his macbook looking at the wall or blank was actually start of his thinking 😕 😆 I will be indeed happy if so though I wanted to hear all the thoughts like they show for others 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great post!! You covered all the points that I wanted to say but don't have writing skills as you. The new promo also shows that Ishwari thinks Dev needs a toy and Ishwari will do anything to get that toy called 'Sona' for Dev. He was stalking her crazy when he saw her with Ritwik, but as soon as he knows she does not have any man in her life he is all fine. Not even trying to understand why she rejected him. He would rather be OK with rejection rather than winning Sona back again.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hugs to my favorite writer...you put into words what I was feeling and thinking

Dev passiveness and lack of action is coming across to me as if he is not only spineless but a jerk..what does he really want?..Sona coming back to him because his mother now approves or does he love her?. I wonder if he knows what love is he seems to be emotionally stunted. Certainly not Hero material in my book.

Sona, Sona a character I absolutely adored coming across as undecisive,clueless and almost like she has a persecution complex

Easwari..I have given up deciphering her character..what is she now?..

Bijoy Bose a character I loved coming across as loud mouthed

The only characters intact seems to be Saurabh, Elena Asha and mamiji

Mama is a yo yo

The sisters are just decorative pieces mouthing stupid dialogues

This show Be Rang now and like a train going nowhere



Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Right on point. Getting ridiculous.. this maa beta drama and overnight.. dev calmed down!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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OMG i agree with your frustrations about Dev.
I adore the guy but his expressions after Sona calls him out for selfishness really annoys me. Once when she told him not to take her for granted, and second when she refused to marry him because her feelings were never in account.

He has this look on his face, like a repairman who fixed the appliance and can't for the life of him understand why it refuses to just work. He's like the typical guy who says they need a PhD to understand women.

He just needs to understand one extra woman. Sonakshi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

OMG i agree with your frustrations about Dev.

I adore the guy but his expressions after Sona calls him out for selfishness really annoys me. Once when she told him not to take her for granted, and second when she refused to marry him because her feelings were never in account.

He has this look on his face, like a repairman who fixed the appliance and can't for the life of him understand why it refuses to just work. He's like the typical guy who says they need a PhD to understand women.

He just needs to understand one extra woman. Sonakshi.

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Bang on post he looks clueless to say the least..maybe he thought mommy dearest will buy him his toy and he does not need to buy it himself..after all she bought him his shirts, bedsheets and fed him his halwa...

Maybe it is me but I even feel that Shaheer is also acting like a zombie and clueless as to what the script is!😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

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Bang on post he looks clueless to say the least..maybe he thought mommy dearest will buy him his toy and he does not need to buy it himself..after all she bought him his shirts, bedsheets and fed him his halwa...

Maybe it is me but I even feel that Shaheer is also acting like a zombie and clueless as to what the script is!😆


I also felt that director is purposely keeping Dev a little daft when it comes to Sonakshi. We know how much he loves her, feel for him too. But where's that guy who could sense something wrong in her expression and cannot bear her silent treatment?

How can someone be so romantic in courtship and be so flippant to her feelings next? Doesn't gel with me. I have some experience as my husband is like this. He is devoted to his mother, and when she is not around he is really loving to me equally. Just when she's around he tones down with me a little , not sure purposefully or by accident 😆..

The clueless Dev doesn't make sense.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post dear.
I think dev is still hungover.. Did u notice shaheers voice changed a bit- it seems like he caught cold or something. It is easy to fall sick with such busy schedule.

Anywyas back to the topic.. I think cvs are just delaying devs realization just to show it to viewers that sona understands the problem and blames only dev and no one else.. So after two attenpts of ishwari .. They will show dev coning down and try it his way. This time he has to convince every aingle member of bose family before sona says yes.. I feel that is going to be the most romantic proposal (getting her entire family on his side).. Lets see if and when that happens..

Also i feel theyhave added ishwaris attempts for two reasons - first devs faith will be restored which will be imp for future tracks. Second ishwari may hold grudge against sona and her family for all the insults and give it back to them in future..

Next week is going to be interesting..I feel dev will come into the field on monday or tuesday latest.. I understand everyone is hurt confused and defensive but, I also hope the yelling and screaming will tone down from monday onwards.. I dont want to pity ishwari at all..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Spot on !!

I am all the more confused to understand what does this guy want...when his Sona was with another guy he couldnt stand it...he was trying his best possible way to break their new budding friendship...now he has mom on his side...he has managed to get that Mr.R out of the scene...why is he not taking steps to convince Sona...here again he is pushing his mom to do the job for him ??

And his blank expression...he is not even trying to given an apology or explanation to Sona for his previous stupidities
More than his mom ...Dev is at fault ...if he loves her son much , then no matter what he should find a way to win her back...he now looks like he lost all hope and dont want to fight for their love...
If you ask me ...I am totally lost when it comes to Dev😕

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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏 great confusion and yes let me join you in that society. 🤗
1. Yes.. This "kuch rang pyar" is all about mom-son pyaar.. the branding of this pyaar to the world.. To make many stupid Sonas out in the world to understand this pyaar.. And the ask from the makers is such Sonas should accept this pyaar as is.. If possible cherish and treasure it.. do everything at your best to protect this pyaar.. 😆😆 Rule1: DON'T SPOIL this pyaar at any cost...😆
2. Sona.. She's only a PRO here to publicize and project this mom-son sensitivity to each other to the world.. starting from her own family... NOBODY NOBODY says anything or even think anything wrong about this relationship.. Because she's just something that the son brings down the sky to bring her home for his Mother because she's the best nutritionist... And the mother brings down the sky to bring her home for her son because she's the favorite toy of his... 😆 RULE 2: Become an advt model to publicize this mom-son duo across the world.. 😆
3. Dev.. I say nothing about him is better.. I wouldn't even want to waste my energy on something or someone who is not worth all my effort to crib and rant about...😆 RULE 3: No comments😆
Edited by Push-pull - 8 years ago

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