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Posted: 9 years ago
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How low will Ishwari go to prove to everyone around her... nothing has been her fault 😡

even now, she is blaming Sona.. you were my nutritionist.. i never got to know you. Where were you when she was fixing Nikki, Neha and your son's issues? All the problems you should have been fixing, sonakshi did! At that time you said.. tu sach mein sona hai.

Itsall about how Mahaan she is.. they made a mess and now she is the only one trying to milaao do pyaar karne waale 😆 Everyone is barking, getting angry... only Ishwari is calm, making an effort, resolve issues 👏 thinking of kids.. their love.. noone rlse! Overnight?

I was really annoyed.. what about you?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Only two people are responsible for the mess today ...Dev and Sona.Ishwari has a point she never asked them to separate but Dev broke up in a hurry without talking to his mom and Sona on the other hand did not talk to him when he was calm out of pride or ego .Later we saw Sona going for rebound and Dev acting like Devdas .It's Devakshi's not their parent's responsibility to make their relationship work .

It was nice of Ishwari to go to Bose house as Sona and her family needs assurance from her that she is happy with the alliance but begging someone to marry her son is no good .It's more of a emotional blackmail .She had done her bit ,she needs to wait for Devakshi to do their bit.Does she want Sona to marry her son out of sympathy ?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Same here .. Annoyed with ishwari and frustrated with dev ..

Ishwari needs to stop all this drama and dev needs to start doing something period

Until then kuch nahi hosakta

When and if dev comea to sona to talk, i really wants sona tonpush him to ask his mom why she doesnt like sona ??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Only two people are responsible for the mess today ...Dev and Sona.Ishwari has a point she never specifically asked them to separate but Dev broke up in a hurry without talking to his mom and Sona on the other hand did not talk to him when he was calm out of pride or ego .Later we saw Sona going for rebound and Dev acting like Devdas .It's Devakshi's not their parent's responsibility to make their relationship work .

It was nice of Ishwari to go to Bose house as Sona and her family needs assurance from her that she is happy with the alliance but begging someone to marry her son is no good .It more of emotional blackmail .She had done her bit ,she needs to wait for Devakshi to do their bit.Does she want Sona to marry her son out of sympathy ?




I agree that Devakshi are big players here. And Ishwari never asked him.. but she emotionally blackmailed him by overdozing on pills. When sona's family came to talk to her.. she insulted their daughter and the family. She made no efforts to make the rishta strong as parents often do bt talking afterwards in a love marraige! She had nothing but taunts for sonakshi the moment Dev came clean. She took her anger her frustrationsout on sonakshi, not her son. She ised fould language like sona ne chakkar chalaya, barsaati naale ka pani, 2 minute noodles whatnot.

Ok.. so going by what u say.. if they made a mess then let them resolve it. Why aDaao taang again and rush things. It was Ishwari who rushed a rishta to Sona's family.. right?

She doesnt care about Devakshi.. all she cares about, it seems, her place in Dev's pedestal and her power in family.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

Same here .. Annoyed with ishwari and frustrated with dev ..

Ishwari needs to stop all this drama and dev needs to start doing something period

Until then kuch nahi hosakta

When and if dev comea to sona to talk, i really wants sona tonpush him to ask his mom why she doesnt like sona ??


If Ishwari truly wants Devakshi together, then she'll allow them to work their issues out. If it is true that they made this mess, according to her.. she had no hand in this, then give them time and opportunity to resolve their issues.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree that Devakshi are big players here. And Ishwari never asked him.. but she emotionally blackmailed him by overdozing on pills. When sona's family came to talk to her.. she insulted their daughter and the family. She made no efforts to make the rishta strong as parents often do bt talking afterwards in a love marraige! She had nothing but taunts for sonakshi the moment Dev came clean. She took her anger her frustrationsout on sonakshi, not her son. She ised fould language like sona ne chakkar chalaya, barsaati naale ka pani, 2 minute noodles whatnot.

Completely agree with you Ishwari was indirectly responsible for messing Dev and Sonakshi 's mind .She was not an understanding mother .If Devakshi's bond was little stronger then they could have handled hurraince called Ishwari better .Well how could you blame two people who were in their lala world and had no idea what was coming their way

Ok.. so going by what u say.. if they made a mess then let them resolve it. Why aDaao taang again and rush things. It was Ishwari who rushed a rishta to Sona's family.. right?

Absolutely this is what I mentioned in my initial post .She should let Dev and Sona handle this situation. If they don't wanna marry then let it be .She has conveyed the message to Bose family that she is OK with the relationship and her job is done

She doesnt care about Devakshi.. all she cares about, it seems, her place in Dev's pedestal and her power in family.

True .She is worried about her image in front of her son but somewhere I feel she is genuinely concerned about her son's happiness and she is ready to get him what he wants by hook or crook .I am assuming based on what they have shown till now

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Only two people are responsible for the mess today ...Dev and Sona.Ishwari has a point she never asked them to separate but Dev broke up in a hurry without talking to his mom and Sona on the other hand did not talk to him when he was calm out of pride or ego .Later we saw Sona going for rebound and Dev acting like Devdas .It's Devakshi's not their parent's responsibility to make their relationship work .


It was nice of Ishwari to go to Bose house as Sona and her family needs assurance from her that she is happy with the alliance but begging someone to marry her son is no good .It's more of a emotional blackmail .She had done her bit ,she needs to wait for Devakshi to do their bit.Does she want Sona to marry her son out of sympathy ?




Dev was responsible for the mess. How is Sona responsible for it. Dev always made clear he can never accept Sona as his mother disapproves of her, period, no Ifs and buts. Sona's wish was never Dev's concern. His only concern now or before was Ishwari. What Sona could have done at this point. Talking about something of which you know result before you start is of no use. Dev had a permanent "NO" for Sona even If he behaved like a desperate lover by stalking and all. Even when Sona asked him directly If he can marry her she would make her parents understand, he remained silent. Even when Ritik asked him why he can't marry her, he had no answer. He always knew what he could not do - "Not marry Sona". Bottom line never changed - he had no place for Sona in his life. So Dev led by Ishwari and Mamaji the catalyst broke the relationship and created this mess.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev was responsible for the mess. How is Sona responsible for it. Dev always made clear he can never accept Sona as his mother disapproves of her, period, no Ifs and buts. Sona's wish was never Dev's concern. His only concern now or before was Ishwari. What Sona could have done at this point. Talking about something of which you know result before you start is of no use. Dev had a permanent "NO" for Sona even If he behaved like a desperate lover by stalking and all. Even when Sona asked him directly If he can marry her she would make her parents understand, he remained silent. Even when Ritik asked him why he can't marry her, he had no answer. He always knew what he could not do - "Not marry Sona". Bottom line never changed - he had no place for Sona in his life. So Dev led by Ishwari and Mamaji the catalyst broke the relationship and created this mess.



Agree!

Again.. its about the bubble Dixit's live in. Dev has to make spqcw for Sona and her family first.. before they can begin to resolve the issues.its always Dev's decisions thru mommy filter!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Only two people are responsible for the mess today ...Dev and Sona.Ishwari has a point she never asked them to separate but Dev broke up in a hurry without talking to his mom and Sona on the other hand did not talk to him when he was calm out of pride or ego .Later we saw Sona going for rebound and Dev acting like Devdas .It's Devakshi's not their parent's responsibility to make their relationship work .


It was nice of Ishwari to go to Bose house as Sona and her family needs assurance from her that she is happy with the alliance but begging someone to marry her son is no good .It's more of a emotional blackmail .She had done her bit ,she needs to wait for Devakshi to do their bit.Does she want Sona to marry her son out of sympathy ?





I dont think Sona was anyhow responsible for the mess. Breakup mess was created by Dev, and so as the after-equations.. Had Dev not interfered and stalked Sona and make Rithwik-Sona's life a living hell, by now Ritakshi would have been married and in near future Sona would be living happily with a man like Rithwik 👏

This mess is created by Dev only 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she should have said i am sorry, you got hurt because of me, sorry i was so rude to you, accept her mistakes and manipulations.

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