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Posted: 9 years ago
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You are right. The episode was painful to watch. But even more painful for me because all these heartaches could have been prevented.
If Sona refused Dev's request to come to her engagement - he would have been spared from falling even more low in her parents and relatives' eyes.

If Sona had broken up with Ritwik realizing that she is cheating him by letting him think that she is ready for marriage when she obviously is not. You can make a relationship work and be married to someone when you don't love them. Lots of arranged marriages work that way. But not when you are still madly in love with someone else.

If Dev had the sense to stay away from alcohol or just leave before making a fool of himself.

If Sona had made Dev leave with help of Saurabh or Elena or both...

Like I said, what happened yesterday was could have been prevented in so many ways, but it was like watching a train wreck when you know that if only the driver did his job, it could have been stopped and people would have got off with only a scratch or two instead of so many casualties it caused.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

loved ur post
i also m not able to hate ritwik ..he is a good man n deserves happiness ...although he is good but sona does nt want him ..she wants dev and dus is not his fault ...he has been understanding thru out

dev and sona have a long way to go ..dey need to know dere shud nt b any scope for third person b/w dem be it ishwari ritwik or any one else

n dere journey ll startnow


So sorry my reply is so late ! it's been a mad day and I keep getting distracted by these crazy new spoilers flying about 😕...

I wanted a nice long redemption period darn it! and a week long marriage rasms one by one! we deserve that after all this suffering !!!😭

i wanted a journey back for Dev darn it !!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

🤗 Liked your post... Very neutral amidst all the extremes of gaaga 👍🏼 or booboo 👎🏼 over the episode... 😃

Quoting you "3. Stop running from problems and taking hasty decisions."

Exactly... The Writers need this too... They just can't run away from the problems that the viewers are posting and bashing/praising them on and take the story hastily wherever they feel like... 😆

But yeah... For any normal human being in love things could have worked this way... Dev-Sona are too much messed up too understand their deep emotional state for each other... They are like Modern Gen Born Confused Desis... 😆

Glad at least they projected how much emotional these two are invested in each other that it's very very difficult to take any normal route... 😉😆


thank you!

I have always considered this forum a pleasant place... until Ritwik came. So much misplaced mean-ness. And yet now they are saying goodbye to him as he leaves the story. 😕... I dislike hecklers. anything , even disagreement can be expressed wihout calling people names no?

but thankfully forum is calming down , because DevAkshi are on the verge of getting back together!

after a token protest by Sonakshi, she is set to be besieged by emotional blackmailing of Ishwari begging for her son's happiness...

...

😭 I wanted a winning her back track. a week long wedding track, complete with rasm, bidai etc. Dev adjusting to her actually living with him ☺️ (sanskaari lovey dovey stuff)..

i waaannnttt !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigirl987

Torment rightly said ... But the worst part is the actors are too gud in "make belief" , we also go though the same torment ... I am also glad they showed sisters discussion regarding Dev easpecially Neha , it would have been so unnatural otherwise ... So now Ishwari overheard the talk , yet she is waiting for her son to SPELL IT OUT to believe so ... Glad she doesnt have to wait longer 😉 ... Ishwari's characterization is so intriguing , when she is ready to show her authority on her other kids and force upon her decisions , she is hesitant to do it with Dev , not ready to let down her mask , she expressed her "STRONG OPINION" yet she added "I told you my opinion , REST IS UPTO YOU " ... When she clearly wanted to say "I DONT WANT YOU TO GO THERE, PERIOD " and when Dev said "Sona herself send this card , may be she wanted me to be there " , he clearly meant " I SOOO WANTED TO SEE HER ONE LAST TIME MAA, BEFORE SHE BECOMES SOMEONE ELSE'S..."

When will the day come these two can be honest with each other ???



looks like Ishwaris about to get a healthy dose of drunken blunt honesty and sharp scolding from Mamaji (what is his name btw?)

anyway, it's high time the two families met and mend the fences together.

Some days spoilers are so helpful, and some days give you frustrations ! if they can give week's of breakup drama, can't they have few days of making up drama? grrr
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You are right. The episode was painful to watch. But even more painful for me because all these heartaches could have been prevented.

If Sona refused Dev's request to come to her engagement - he would have been spared from falling even more low in her parents and relatives' eyes.

If Sona had broken up with Ritwik realizing that she is cheating him by letting him think that she is ready for marriage when she obviously is not. You can make a relationship work and be married to someone when you don't love them. Lots of arranged marriages work that way. But not when you are still madly in love with someone else.

If Dev had the sense to stay away from alcohol or just leave before making a fool of himself.

If Sona had made Dev leave with help of Saurabh or Elena or both...

Like I said, what happened yesterday was could have been prevented in so many ways, but it was like watching a train wreck when you know that if only the driver did his job, it could have been stopped and people would have got off with only a scratch or two instead of so many casualties it caused.



I'm totally with you in the "could have handled better" list ...

it bugged me how these two disregarded the family honour. Dev is suddenly ok to drink to stupor and create scenes, and humiliate his saintly mother. And Sona not knowing how upset Bijoy would be, when he trusted her on her word that she wanted this engagement.

They both wanted to be known as good kids, who chose their family first. But ended up hurting their families so much.

I dont know how even Elena gets hate. I really dont understand that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't know where Elena did wrong. She had been a veey supportive cousin. But since she was not pushing Sona to Dev, fangirls hate her.

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


I'm totally with you in the "could have handled better" list ...

it bugged me how these two disregarded the family honour. Dev is suddenly ok to drink to stupor and create scenes, and humiliate his saintly mother. And Sona not knowing how upset Bijoy would be, when he trusted her on her word that she wanted this engagement.

They both wanted to be known as good kids, who chose their family first. But ended up hurting their families so much.

I dont know how even Elena gets hate. I really dont understand that.

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