Wht to do in a case like dis???????

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I really want to knw wht u guys think ki Issi situation mein wht shld a girl do

I guess wait to forget d guy bt it's difficult when u loved some1 frm ur heart n soul n kitna wait as u knw u lived each moment with him kuch na kuch toh reminds u of him at some pt u hv to move on n in here Dev is also nt leet in her go as in like wht can u possibly do

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can't even imagine such a complex, mind-disturbing, heart-wrenching and life-changing situation!!🤪
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can't even imagine the situation. But rushing into a marriage is not the solution. She should give some time to herself. Yes it is easy to say and the one who's in the situation can only understand the pain.

But what Sona is doing is for her family and also out of anger. She'll definitely realise, this is not the solution to the issue. It can spoil her, Dev's and Ritik's lives too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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its very much disturbing...never been in such situation

but wat i think is If a gf n bf r in physical relationship, it becomes easy for them to forget each other after break up but if their love is pure or can say jis pyar ne aapki soul ko touch kar liya ho then it becomes difficult to forget that love.
Like ppl say wounds on body can be healed but dil pe lage zakh ko bhara nahi ja sakta.
Sona is running away not from Dev but she is running away from herself...kitna bhagegi
watever Dev is doing is absolutely wrong, but kam se kam wo bhaag nahi raha hai khud se.He is facing his misdoings.haan tarika uska galat hai.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Your reactions totally depends on ur personality. Someone strong like Sona who has such an immense family support is right in doing what she is doing. Try to move on. It sooo difficult... But its incredible the was this girl has hold on to herself. She actually has no hope from Dev bcoz the person in question is his mother and she knows it well when its his mother his eyes, ears and brain all are shut. But yes, i don understand y she is not trying to have a druitful and inspiring conversation with Dev once she knows he is stalking her? May b she's too hurt by him kicking her out of his the way he did.

Weak person and someone who has no family support behaves the way Dev is behaving, would cried, sulked, stalked, live in denial. Everyday u think that today that person will come back to u.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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A very good question but I think nobody has a correct answer because for which one has to assume many things which now I can't but I would not go back to Dev until and unless he gains my trust back and takes me in confidence but I would never run into another relationship so fast it took me one and a half year to move on from my ex .I can't move on easily so I take a lot of time before getting into relationship.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.K.Aggarwal

I really want to knw wht u guys think ki Issi situation mein wht shld a girl do

I guess wait to forget d guy bt it's difficult when u loved some1 frm ur heart n soul n kitna wait as u knw u lived each moment with him kuch na kuch toh reminds u of him at some pt u hv to move on n in here Dev is also nt leet in her go as in like wht can u possibly do

Ur views?????


Love is a chemical locha and will die in 6 months to 3 yrs max. The marriage is respect, trust between the two individuals and the two families.This is the main reason why many love marriages end up in divorce.

In Devakshi case - the love can't survive beyond 3 yrs - many of you may not agree but thats a fact in majority of cases. Secretion of love chemicals - dopamine, serotonin, etc start diminishing with time. Ish and sonas family have no lost which also affects the marriage.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#336633">Can't even imagine the situation. But rushing into a marriage is not the solution. She should give some time to herself. Yes it is easy to say and the one who's in the situation can only understand the pain.</font>

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<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#336633">But what Sona is doing is for her family and also out of anger. She'll definitely realise, this is not the solution to the issue. It can spoil her, Dev's and Ritik's lives too.</font>



Yaaa... Agree with u jo...Sona should give some time to herself... She shouldn't rushing to marriage Nd it's not only wrong for her it also wrong with Ritwik...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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the love that devaskhi had together its impossible for sonakshi to forget, the love was beautiful and with her heart being broken, i cant imagine how upset and depressed she will be
but a rushed marriage is not the solution, sona wont be able to love ritwick so quickly...

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