I find this whole Mother son relationship weird!

I'm sorry I find this whole mother son relationship very very weird.

Originally posted by: anishetty01

I'm sorry I find this whole mother son relationship very very weird.

There is nothing normal about it.

She gets upset if he doesnt pick her up from the temple ... hello - it's okay - whats so earth shattering about it? All she says when she sees him ' tu muh haath dhole mein khana lagathi hoon"! Her only aim in life is to feed him. She refuses to see what she doesnt want to see.

If he comes late from she wonders what is keeping him up so late. Isnt that what all sucessfull business men do ? have late working hours?

And the son (Dev) is even more weird. He keeps stalking the girl he just dropped like a hot potatoe and then tells his mom that the guy Rithvik is not the right guy for her !! thats why he's calling her - he doesnt have the spine to tell her that he loves her.

He is behaving like the kids in my building. If he doesnt get the batting chance he takes the bat home - so that not only will he not play but not let anyone else play either.😆

Lol, all it does is show that from childhood, Ishwari has *smothered* him to death with drilling in him responsibility of the entire universe. He is not allowed to have one selfish desire throughout his childhood since "she has given him opportunities denied to her other offspring."

To give a simple example of chocolate, Ishwari buys a bar of chocolate & gives it to Dev but with a caveat: he's to be mature & give first to his siblings & not be "greedy" himself. Now since childhood Dev has been handing over the chocolate bar to others & keeping none for himself.
Over time he had grown resentful unconsciously.

Now an adult, Sona is the final chocolate bar & no surprises, Ishwari has again refused him. No wonder now, Dev has become so possessive of her.

What that says of Ishwari & her suffocating parenting tactics, I don't know

mother-son needs a psychiatrist treatment...

Each of their actions prove that Dev is raised by Ishwari and no one else...😆

He behaves exactly like his mom. If his mom is selfishly possessive of her son. Then her son is selfishly possessive of Sonakshi !!

Originally posted by: anishetty01

I'm sorry I find this whole mother son relationship very very weird.

There is nothing normal about it.

She gets upset if he doesnt pick her up from the temple ... hello - it's okay - whats so earth shattering about it? All she says when she sees him ' tu muh haath dhole mein khana lagathi hoon"! Her only aim in life is to feed him. She refuses to see what she doesnt want to see.

If he comes late from she wonders what is keeping him up so late. Isnt that what all sucessfull business men do ? have late working hours?

And the son (Dev) is even more weird. He keeps stalking the girl he just dropped like a hot potatoe and then tells his mom that the guy Rithvik is not the right guy for her !! thats why he's calling her - he doesnt have the spine to tell her that he loves her.

He is behaving like the kids in my building. If he doesnt get the batting chance he takes the bat home - so that not only will he not play but not let anyone else play either.😆

Watever u hv written abt Ishwari is wat I hv witnessed in many mothers around..n yes sometimes I also feel its not normal bt thats how mothers r in many things when it comes their children..unke liye wo normal hai..n dats y we hear it commonly..jab khud maa banogi tab pata chalega...though I agree Ishwari is beyond the normal ones..she needs medical help acc to me.

The thing dat concerns dem d most is mere bache ne khana khaya ya nahi, mere bache ne mujhe fone q nahi kiya..business office mein karo...boss giri ofc mein karo..jitta b bada ho jaye mere liye chhota hi rahega..and many such things..dey go by emotions plainly...no logic attached...its inbuilt.. Trust me 😆

Wat amazes me d most is ...tu abhi bacha hai in some situations and in other tu ab bada ho gaya hai... 😆 ..weird hai I agree

As for Dev ur example really suits him in the current track 😆
Bt dats how it is...we all knw things wil change And he will become bada someday and act his age...waiting fr the day ..n its gonna come very soon..he needs to go into introspection which I hope he starts frm tmrw aftr Ritu questions him (precap)