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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



They first need to find Dev was behind cancelling Riwtick loan n also bought the building.He suffered most in genuinely helping Sona to move on.

@Bold - I also want the same.

In this mess Ritwick,Ritwick Dad N Bijoy N Asha without no mistake.They will also suffer humiliation.I feel bad for them


I remember our most recent conversations, so I thought of sharing this article w/ you. looks like man stuck between wife and mother is a common problem in India

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

Forgot to add. Now Sona is going to reject Dev's proposal? On what basis? Didn't she tell him that if his mom agrees,she'll marry him right there? She was the one who left her engagement to take care of him? Which bride drops her ex home on her engagement day? What's the point of all this attitude now? 😆 It's like 'Hey! I'll be your doormat but you'll have to wash me twice a week to keep me in your life'

Err..does that even make sense? I've lost my ability to think after watching the mahaepisde -,-



@ pink This is completely illogical .Why could not Sourabh and Bojiy stop Sona ...and offer to call up Dixit house to ask them to pick up their drunken son themselves ?! It would be fun to see Ishwari doing the honours !!
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

Forgot to add. Now Sona is going to reject Dev's proposal? On what basis? Didn't she tell him that if his mom agrees,she'll marry him right there? She was the one who left her engagement to take care of him? Which bride drops her ex home on her engagement day? What's the point of all this attitude now? 😆 It's like 'Hey! I'll be your doormat but you'll have to wash me twice a week to keep me in your life'

Err..does that even make sense? I've lost my ability to think after watching the mahaepisde -,-



Sona is being justified by many due to the fact that she loves Dev sooo much. Does this so called love give her the license to make a joke of R and his family. I don't say R is hurt emotionally as so far its not shown that R has any deep love for sona. Sona can do whatever to her family as she's part of that.

Whatever be the case the two ML are disgusting in their social behaviour😡😡
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: pomegranate


I remember our most recent conversations, so I thought of sharing this article w/ you. looks like man stuck between wife and mother is a common problem in India



Reading this I think so it's a common problem.But not in many houses.In my side I have not seen mom like Ishwari.I have seen possessive mom.Who feel insecure.But as time pass by.The insecurity reduced.It's duty of Son to eradicate insecurity from mom's mind.Also make sure mom n his GF or Wife bond well.

Also guys torn between Mom N Lover,Mom N Wife seem to be the hot theme in Daily soaps.SP had few show.In one show Mom was like Vamp.Planning N Plotting.Their new show Naamkaran is about Ashish a director who is in relation with Asha for 11 years.They have a daughter.Yet he did not publicly acknowledge her n also not got married to her legally.Because his mom is not ok with the relation.Asha has no issue.Only the kid is suffering.


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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: pomegranate


I remember our most recent conversations, so I thought of sharing this article w/ you. looks like man stuck between wife and mother is a common problem in India


Possessiveness of Son is the main reason of a saas bahu tension. 😆😆😆

Whatever behaviour a son has for his mother before marriage is accepted by most of moms as bachhha hai and they love it. But even a small non agreement with mom post marriage is considered - bahu ne bigad diya - apne vash main kar liya . ab beta meri nahi sunta- badal gaya hai.

The fact is beta is the same - behaviou is the same but for mom - dekhne ka chashma bahu ka anaa ban gaya. 😆😆😆

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: NBT-BV


Possessiveness of Son is the main reason of a saas bahu tension. 😆😆😆

Whatever behaviour a son has for his mother before marriage is accepted by most of moms as bachhha hai and they love it. But even a small non agreement with mom post marriage is considered - bahu ne bigad diya - apne vash main kar liya . ab beta meri nahi sunta- badal gaya hai.

The fact is beta is the same - behaviou is the same but for mom - dekhne ka chashma bahu ka anaa ban gaya. 😆😆😆



Bang On.👏

@Bold - Well Said 👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



Reading this I think so it's a common problem.But not in many houses.In my side I have not seen mom like Ishwari.I have seen possessive mom.Who feel insecure.But as time pass by.The insecurity reduced.It's duty of Son to eradicate insecurity from mom's mind.Also make sure mom n his GF or Wife bond well.

Also guys torn between Mom N Lover,Mom N Wife seem to be the hot theme in Daily soaps.SP had few show.In one show Mom was like Vamp.Planning N Plotting.Their new show Naamkaran is about Ashish a director who is in relation with Asha for 11 years.They have a daughter.Yet he did not publicly acknowledge her n also not got married to her legally.Because his mom is not ok with the relation.Asha has no issue.Only the kid is suffering.



even I don't think characters as extreme as dev and ishwari exist either but yes there are posessive moms, and well meaning sons who don't know how to balance. it mostly stems from the mother's inability to let go of the hold she has on her son.
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Posted: 9 years ago
I am watching it and cursing the duo.

What dev thought going into a function of his ex? Koi tamasha nahi karunga but I will drink and make a scene. Sona was looking at him throughout, I felt so bad for Ritvik. Poor guy don't deserve to be chakki pissed between these two. I so want Ritviks dad to break it off. I don't know who to be mad at, idiot Dev, impulsive Sona who had chance to stop this drama but didn't, or Bijoy who clearly can't see his daughter is not happy. But I keep telling myself he asked her repeatedly! I am all for heart wants what it wants but humiliation of family in front of society is something I can't digest. And to see this is a Bengali society, ugh.

I am fifty shades of frustrated ATM.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



Reading this I think so it's a common problem.But not in many houses.In my side I have not seen mom like Ishwari.I have seen possessive mom.Who feel insecure.But as time pass by.The insecurity reduced.It's duty of Son to eradicate insecurity from mom's mind.Also make sure mom n his GF or Wife bond well.

Also guys torn between Mom N Lover,Mom N Wife seem to be the hot theme in Daily soaps.SP had few show.In one show Mom was like Vamp.Planning N Plotting.Their new show Naamkaran is about Ashish a director who is in relation with Asha for 11 years.They have a daughter.Yet he did not publicly acknowledge her n also not got married to her legally.Because his mom is not ok with the relation.Asha has no issue.Only the kid is suffering.



Actually you guys are not realizing the gravity of this situation. I know someone who has confessed to me a few days back that she has been facing lots of issues in her marital life due to her Mother in law.
You will not be able to believe she tries to keep them separate feigning some problem or the other ...she wants her son to sleep on the floor in her room and even manipulates him into doing everything for her by remembering her dead husband. One mistake by this lady and the MIL says ... she will make her life hell by not letting her son communicate with his wife unless she comes back and says sorry to her !!!

This is a slice of life they are serving on TV and people like them do exist ! I would really not comment on what we can do or what the guy should do or the girl should do coz we r not in their shoes !!!
Cant even imagine ! leave aside offering advice.

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Posted: 9 years ago
bumping this topic.. what did dev today?? (i am still invested to see how much worse CV's can make dev)

does anyone else think that if the roles were reversed and it was dev getting engaged to natasha... sona was stalking him...sona was drinking... breaks the glass in her hand and falls backwards.. sona would have been seen as "hopeless" as opposed to dev dixti seen as "romantic" "so in love with her"... i am kinda wondering what people would think if the roles were reversed...

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