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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov


I cannot relate to your POV at all and respectfully disagree.
@bold: When?! She is still worried about him and concerned for his happiness.
She has a friend by her side who is trying to support her and understand her.
If she has not understood Dev ,who has? She understands why he took the decision he did, but does not agree with it and very rightfully so.
I have not seen her ego come in between ever till now😕There is a difference between self respect and ego, and this Sona is speaking up for her self respect, not ego.
As for dressing up, Dev and Sona never really went out for a date. She always met him at his home which was her place of work. She is supposed to dress simply and professionally there.When a date has been especially arranged, why wouldn't she dress up?😕
She has shared her feelings with Ritwik, not hiding anything,gave him the option to walk away from the marriage if he wants to ,due to her past. She is likable,she does not need to make any efforts for that at all.
Her beauty is not in the saree she wears on this date with Ritwik but her strength of character, her honesty, her competence to stand up for herself, all of which she has already shown to Dev as well.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov


She has never dressed up is a matter of perception and not necessarily a fact cause I found her saree and gajra combination , the most beautiful Sona so far.

Coming to the point, is normal for a couple to fight and even say harsh words at times as long as there are apologies or atleast be mature enough to let bygones be bygones and address the problem at hand if it hasn't yet been resolved. What has Dev done to address the issue so far? Stalk, break and cry. Blaming Sona for being harsh is not right. Even if she is harsh is not anything different from what Dev did. She atleast did attempt to address the problem by confronting Ishwari.

What has Dev done so far??
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13
Aray chill yar...relaxxx,...lmbiii saans lo😆 dil pe hath rakh ke bolo...All ll izzz welll! !!😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AfiChanAC_CA

Aray chill yar...relaxxx,...lmbiii saans lo😆 dil pe hath rakh ke bolo...All ll izzz welll! !!😆


What's the point if we are not excited, irritated, animated about a show. I personally am only relaxed when I watch something like national geography where I am not emotionally invested.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Did not Dev hurt Sona when he broke up with her? Isn't he hurting her by spoiling her life when he will never be with her or marry her? What is there to understand and for what reason? Breaking up means they have no relationship anymore. She respected Dev's decision to break up. Is Dev respecting her decision to be away from her life? Stalking is NOT romantic. It's creepy regardless who does it.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Very true.Sona had not understood Dev well.Hence she is hurting him

whenever possible.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bingo... And anyways, when did Dev ever take Sona on a date that she can dress up? He has only sneaked around with Sona behind his mom... Would she dress up at her work and show up in saree and heavy jewellery to run around his family?

Originally posted by: spacenoxx


She has never dressed up is a matter of perception and not necessarily a fact cause I found her saree and gajra combination , the most beautiful Sona so far.

Coming to the point, is normal for a couple to fight and even say harsh words at times as long as there are apologies or atleast be mature enough to let bygones be bygones and address the problem at hand if it hasn't yet been resolved. What has Dev done to address the issue so far? Stalk, break and cry. Blaming Sona for being harsh is not right. Even if she is harsh is not anything different from what Dev did. She atleast did attempt to address the problem by confronting Ishwari.

What has Dev done so far??

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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov


agree wid u...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov


Not sure how it actually works, but lodging an official complaint to police regarding stalking and harassment may have drastic consequences. May be threat of a police complaint is better than actually lodging one.

On second thoughts not sure even an actual complaint would work. Dev is the all powerful businessman and can do anything under the sun except for discussing important issues with mom😉😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona already told him how to make the right decision during the lehenga incident...
He needs to stop thinking selfish... He thinks breaking up with sona will fix the issue with his mother and he broke up with out thibkibg it thru... Thibkibg his mom will be happy then he will be happy (that is selfish)...

Now he is doing the same thing...again and again... He wants sona to be happy but only with him(like mom like son). He doesnt want sona to move on as that will make him sad... He will be ok and happy if sona just stays around the corner and he could talk to her but noo noo she cant move on as that will not bring him happiness (selfish again)...

He is constantly trying to prove that sona loves him or rithik is not right for her... But he is not even making any attempts to let sona know that he made a haste decision and he wants her in his life and that he needs her help to convince the mommy even if it takes time. I am sure if he says all this and admits he made a mistake sona wil forgive him and might help. But here he still thibks he made the wisest descision the whole world... This is not acceptable to me or sona or anyone..

The moment he acts selfless and lets her go and ask her to be happy even if it is with some one else ... That will be the moment sona will come back in his life.. Brining to the second promo...

I feel that it will happen eventually but only after dev tries every single cheap trick to stop their wedding...


True love and sacrifice go hand in hand..
That is my pov
Edited by dlavanya - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Very true.Sona had not understood Dev well.Hence she is hurting him

whenever possible.


Please .. Sona is not going and huring dev . Dev is meddling with her life even after breakup... Sona has everyright to slap him or file a case for devs behavior.. But she being the mature and understanding woman is only treying to scream at him and trying tonput sense in his mind

Please do not encourage devs behaviour by saying sona is wrong.. She is not wrong even 1%

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