I am not liking this track of Sona bashing Dev...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am really sad..Initially i was thinking Sona shouldn't have agreed for alliance and move on so quickly...but as you are all were saying this jhatkha was really needed for Dev to realize the value of Sona..so i kind of thought OK...
But now, after promising so many things and having so much close understanding what is she doing...
- Why she needs to bash Dev every single time..
- Why is she kind humiliating him?
She knows perfectly that for Dev, his mom is his world...just because of him mom he decided to break up with her...otherwise he genuinely loves her and can't live without her..then instead of helping him/supporting him she is making his life more hell...? She doesn't even trust him that Dev can't harm her in any way as he loves her deeply...

Sorry guys, not able to sync in this track...i would have loved the gracefulness in the behavior like mature adults...Sona understanding Dev and helping him and at the same time Dev realizing the value of Sona in his life, but growing strong together, which will give some sense to Ishwari, no matter what kind of nonsense conditions she will put at the end the love is stronger...but in this way, they are getting so many cracks on the relationship...it would be awkward after all these when they patch up...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Edited by ashwin8890 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: indformani

i am really sad..Initially i was thinking Sona shouldn't have agreed for alliance and move on so quickly...but as you are all were saying this jhatkha was really needed for Dev to realize the value of Sona..so i kind of thought OK...

But now, after promising so many things and having so much close understanding what is she doing...
- Why she needs to bash Dev every single time..
- Why is she kind humiliating him?
She knows perfectly that for Dev, his mom is his world...just because of him mom he decided to break up with her...otherwise he genuinely loves her and can't live without her..then instead of helping him/supporting him she is making his life more hell...? She doesn't even trust him that Dev can't harm her in any way as he loves her deeply...

Sorry guys, not able to sync in this track...i would have loved the gracefulness in the behavior like mature adults...Sona understanding Dev and helping him and at the same time Dev realizing the value of Sona in his life, but growing strong together, which will give some sense to Ishwari, no matter what kind of nonsense conditions she will put at the end the love is stronger...but in this way, they are getting so many cracks on the relationship...it would be awkward after all these when they patch up...



I hear this all the time but I still don't get it. May be I am a bit slow but what does it even mean when Dev says he loves sona.

It's not that different from an individual who evades his taxes but yells from the rooftops that he loves his country.

Actions speak louder than words. And his actions so far have been screaming that he is still clinging to his mother's apron strings and has no plans to ever leave them.

Edited by spacenoxx - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is a saying in English, either sh*t or get off the pot. This perfectly applies to Dev. He broke up with Sona because of his mother. Sone didn't get a choice and didn't have a say. One moment she had her love, next day she was kicked out.
How's it any different if a husband kicks out his wife because mummy said so or a son kicks out his mother because wife said so?

Now she is trying to move on and Dev is constantly scratching her raw wounds. That's sadistic. You talk about bashing? Any other person would have slapped a restraining order on him based on his stalker behaviour.

Of course Dev has a mother, doesn't Sona have a family? Did Dev think about them even once? How this break up is impacting them? Why should Sona care about his family issues that he himself created by catering to his mother's whim when he does not give a damn about them?

If he truly wanted Sona's happiness, he would have either stood up as a single unit with Sona and taken his mom to a psychiatrist or let her be happy with whatever she decides to do with her life.

No woman deserves to be treated like Sona has been treated and Dev deserves her pity, not understanding. He made his bed himself, now he has to lie on it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

There is a saying in English, either sh*t or get off the pot. This perfectly applies to Dev. He broke up with Sona because of his mother. Sone didn't get a choice and didn't have a say. One moment she had her love, next day she was kicked out.

How's it any different if a husband kicks out his wife because mummy said so or a son kicks out his mother because wife said so?

Now she is trying to move on and Dev is constantly scratching her raw wounds. That's sadistic. You talk about bashing? Any other person would have slapped a restraining order on him based on his stalker behaviour.

Of course Dev has a mother, doesn't Sona have a family? Did Dev think about them even once? How this break up is impacting them? Why should Sona care about his family issues that he himself created by catering to his mother's whim when he does not give a damn about them?

If he truly wanted Sona's happiness, he would have either stood up as a single unit with Sona and taken his mom to a psychiatrist or let her be happy with whatever she decides to do with her life.

No woman deserves to be treated like Sona has been treated and Dev deserves her pity, not understanding. He made his bed himself, now he has to lie on it.

@bold: WORD👏
Dev is asking to be humiliated. In fact he is making her life hell by neither choosing to be with her nor letting her move on .He wants her happy only if she is with him? Look at sona, she wants him to be happy even if its without her, despite the pain he caused her. That is love.If he genuinely loves her, he needs to stand up for her, fight for their love, even if its against his mother. Sona would have undoubtedly supported him had he not taken the decision to break up all by himself and actually tried to communicate with his mother openly and understand the situation.
Edited by rose4ever - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

There is a saying in English, either sh*t or get off the pot. This perfectly applies to Dev. He broke up with Sona because of his mother. Sone didn't get a choice and didn't have a say. One moment she had her love, next day she was kicked out.

How's it any different if a husband kicks out his wife because mummy said so or a son kicks out his mother because wife said so?

Now she is trying to move on and Dev is constantly scratching her raw wounds. That's sadistic. You talk about bashing? Any other person would have slapped a restraining order on him based on his stalker behaviour.

Of course Dev has a mother, doesn't Sona have a family? Did Dev think about them even once? How this break up is impacting them? Why should Sona care about his family issues that he himself created by catering to his mother's whim when he does not give a damn about them?

If he truly wanted Sona's happiness, he would have either stood up as a single unit with Sona and taken his mom to a psychiatrist or let her be happy with whatever she decides to do with her life.

No woman deserves to be treated like Sona has been treated and Dev deserves her pity, not understanding. He made his bed himself, now he has to lie on it.


Well said dear 👏 totally agree wid u 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

There is a saying in English, either sh*t or get off the pot. This perfectly applies to Dev. He broke up with Sona because of his mother. Sone didn't get a choice and didn't have a say. One moment she had her love, next day she was kicked out.

How's it any different if a husband kicks out his wife because mummy said so or a son kicks out his mother because wife said so?

Now she is trying to move on and Dev is constantly scratching her raw wounds. That's sadistic. You talk about bashing? Any other person would have slapped a restraining order on him based on his stalker behaviour.

Of course Dev has a mother, doesn't Sona have a family? Did Dev think about them even once? How this break up is impacting them? Why should Sona care about his family issues that he himself created by catering to his mother's whim when he does not give a damn about them?

If he truly wanted Sona's happiness, he would have either stood up as a single unit with Sona and taken his mom to a psychiatrist or let her be happy with whatever she decides to do with her life.

No woman deserves to be treated like Sona has been treated and Dev deserves her pity, not understanding. He made his bed himself, now he has to lie on it.

I did not expect that an educated,modern working woman like sona is so desperate to hook herself to a man and to get married asap.Cvs spoiled her character completely and their relation won't look real and beautiful once after their patch if cvs plan any of that sort.I feel it is better for Dev to leave sona and let her deal with her would be husband cum new boyfriend by herself
Edited by bala_manh2006 - 8 years ago
Posted: 8 years ago
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Calm Calm Cal
Let the Episode to Air..!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

Not really. Who is preventing her from complaining to the police??
She likes to hurt him every possible time.
Just because he initiated the break up
. She got a fool Rithvik by her side to dance to her tunes.
She has not understood Dev at all.
As somebody mentioned this was only an infatuation for her.
Not true love. In that no ego will come in between.
Here she is bent upon proving that she is likable.
She had never dressed up like this for Dev ??
Why ??
He admired her so called inner beauty...
Sorry my pov

Very true.Sona had not understood Dev well.Hence she is hurting him
whenever possible.

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