I am not liking this track of Sona bashing Dev... - Page 4

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

Hi.. I'm curious as to your thought process.

Dev's pain is upsetting you, and you feel angry that Sonakshi is always scolding him and asking him to go away.

What did you think she should do? Hug him? Tell him she loves him (that he knows) and plead with him to please stop following her around and accept his own decision for dumping her? Promise that she'd love him forever, and live the rest of her life pining for him?

I agree, this Ritwik angle and speed of events is unfair to Dev but that's the story they chose to tell. I'm not sure which is worse: this scenario or if Ishwari had consented to choose another bride for Dev as GKB suggested...

If Ishwari told him to marry a girl she chose, you think he'd refuse, after his mother's sleeping pills accident ?

Dev is both lucky and unlucky that his mom wants him to stay single all his life 😆 Otherwise he would be married to that random girl in the first week and probably had kids by now cos he was ready to marry back then to save Neha's life 😆 He is a masochist with a misguided sense of loyalty..He was never batshit crazy though but the writers have made him that too..But then again, Ishwari wasn't a psycho either but that is exactly what she has been reduced to right now 😆

I think sona doing s correct..If Dev could not stand for his love nd fight for it..y shud sona wait for him..He didnt giv her any valid reason to wait for him..She also has a family who supported nd love uncoditionally unlike Dev. .I think at least Dev ll open his heart to his mom..and stop easwari s illusions. ..

He decided that they're relationship wasn't worth pursuing as his mother didn't like it. So he ended it. It was his non-negotiable decision.

sona bashing Dev?

@vibg - that's the problem here. He is comfortable being a mama's boy doing only what is expected of him by his family. This is the first time he wants something for himself which his family didn't plan for him. He fell in love. No one on his side knows how to nurture and support his relationship

@ spacenox - My bad 😆 Indeed the earth revolves around Ishwari 😈

One more thing - Trying to understand Dev and calmly talking to him .. Sona has already done both in few previous instances ->

1. The infamous Halwa incident 😆 - Sona told him the reality, Dev called it her ego 👏 Again, he din't take more than 5 secs to say so, err sorry, he indeed took 10 secs 👏 to call her egoist..

2. Sona told him what Ishwari told her father, Dev insulted her family by saying 'tum log' and dismissed the whole discussion saying they are the ones who misunderstood 😆

3. Time and again Sona told him Ishwari doesn't like her, what did he do ? Trust me, as a beta I am telling you my mommy is the best, and she loves everything what/whom I love 😆

For a guy like Dev who snubs off all the discussion of the other party whenever it's about his mom, what can a girl do ? Sona's fierce mood is so apt in the given situation, he needs a big bpl to wake up 😆 He doesn't want to understand, hence it's better for Sona to snub him off the same way he does to her ..

Originally posted by: AlooMatar

@vibg - that's the problem here. He is comfortable being a mama's boy doing only what is expected of him by his family. This is the first time he wants something for himself which his family didn't plan for him. He fell in love. No one on his side knows how to nurture and support his relationship

@vibg - agree with you. This is why I feel Dev isn't ready for a grown up relationship

Originally posted by: indformani

i am really sad..Initially i was thinking Sona shouldn't have agreed for alliance and move on so quickly...but as you are all were saying this jhatkha was really needed for Dev to realize the value of Sona..so i kind of thought OK...

But now, after promising so many things and having so much close understanding what is she doing...

- Why she needs to bash Dev every single time..

- Why is she kind humiliating him?

She knows perfectly that for Dev, his mom is his world...just because of him mom he decided to break up with her...otherwise he genuinely loves her and can't live without her..then instead of helping him/supporting him she is making his life more hell...? She doesn't even trust him that Dev can't harm her in any way as he loves her deeply...

Sorry guys, not able to sync in this track...i would have loved the gracefulness in the behavior like mature adults...Sona understanding Dev and helping him and at the same time Dev realizing the value of Sona in his life, but growing strong together, which will give some sense to Ishwari, no matter what kind of nonsense conditions she will put at the end the love is stronger...but in this way, they are getting so many cracks on the relationship...it would be awkward after all these when they patch up...

I completely agree with u...I may not even watch till they patchup..
Lost interest in watching the show or watching segments...