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@Push-pull

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7

I hope it works out well like you say. If ishwari's plans backfire and Dev forces Sonakshi upon her as a wife, it's Sona I'm worrying about. 😕

And there are also mothers who are capable of being Ishwari, but her sons are not Devs and so they accept the fact that it's not gonna work on them anymore... So to some extent it's Dev by being Dev has kept Ishwari not ready to let go... And bad that the changes to Dev didn't come in any other way but only via Sona...

If it goes by Ishwari's way she would take a boon from her Lord Ishwar to keep Dev ever 8 in his heart.. She too should be cursing the nature of growth of human being 😆 But yeah she needed him to grow up age-wise or physically fast enough to feed her ambition! Alas she didn't have the time to think about how the growth went by and now wanting to press the pause button and stop the time... 😆

Idea!!! Got an idea for a spoof... Thanks girlies... Triggering this discussion point... 👏

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#12

@anzflower and push-pull

I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

Edited by _Payalj_ - 9 years ago

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Push-pull

@Push-pull

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
@anzflower and push-pull
I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

🤗have no words just a salute to your strength👏.. loads of power and love to you dear..🤗

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Ammuty

@Ammuty

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
@anzflower and push-pull
I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

Thank u for sharing ur story with us... god bless u with all the happiness u deserve dear... life is hard but not impossible... be a fighter..

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Push-pull

🤗have no words just a salute to your strength👏.. loads of power and love to you dear..🤗

Thanks a lot. My only grouse in life is that I should have walked out sooner and saved my son a lot of trauma. But than Indian culture makes it very tough to take such decisions

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fanktlk

@fanktlk

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
@anzflower and push-pull
I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

I am speechless... I salute you and your strength.. It is never easy to distance yourself from a marriage specially when you have a child. But seeing the influences that are around.. It was probably the best decision you took.

Kudos and I genuinely wish you all the happiness in the world.

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
@anzflower and push-pull
I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

All I can say is bravo!! to you for your courage and hope you have a better life, for yourself and child. 🤗

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Push-pull

@Push-pull

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Thanks a lot. My only grouse in life is that I should have walked out sooner and saved my son a lot of trauma. But than Indian culture makes it very tough to take such decisions

🤗I can understand... If anything at all then it must have only given you the solace that you tried and tested with time... 🤗

And it sure must have made you the woman who in no right mind want to become her👏... And everytime Ishwari is shown on the screen, one should just know it - how a mother should not be...

How much I want Sona to move on now in her life, I really want Ishwari too to move on with her holdings... She needs her lesson very badly... Earlier I wanted it to be gentle and empathizing with her... I've a different story for my original liking for Ish... But now she's tried everything a parent shouldn't, even if there are no rule book for a parenthood... Even now I can't hate her for my own reason...

Now that she has been used for how one should not be let the CVs take her forward to depict how one should be... Are they up for it?! Or will close it only after sending her to grave?! 🥱

Edited by Push-pull - 9 years ago

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: _Payalj_
@anzflower and push-pull
I can actually relate with what anzflower is saying because I actually had such a mother in law. Notice the word had.

She got her son married due to family pressure but just couldn't share him. It was always stories of how much she had sacrificed for him.

My ex-husband himself told me that when he was a child she used to sit next to him and cry every night over the hardships she is facing as his father did not earn enough. It had been drummed into him that once he starts earning he has to make his mother happy.

That lady didn't even allow to sit together for 5 minutes. Hell at times she used to come and sleep in our room. If I cooked something her son liked, next time she put a bunch of hair in it.

When I got pregnant she threw a fit. She said that she is too young to have a grandchild and the baby should be aborted. uShe just couldn't tolerate that her son could love anyone except her and didn't allow him to get close to the child. Ultimately I had enough. So just took my child with me and left them for good.

So yes the toughest part does come after marriage. It is not at all easy to stay with such a mother and a son who is a puppet in her hands

My God, what a situation you have been through ! My heart goes out to you my comrade. I'm so glad you're strong enough to walk out of that toxic situation. I hope your ex and you are cordial at least, such a pity that a MIL can do such things.

I hope you are in a happier space now, with your baby. Hugs to you girl.

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Anisa

@AnnzSageflower7

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Thanks a lot. My only grouse in life is that I should have walked out sooner and saved my son a lot of trauma. But than Indian culture makes it very tough to take such decisions

SO proud of you my friend. It takes so much strength to do what you did. You are such an inspiration.

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