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As much as I would love to see Dev suffer for whatever reason, and would love to see Sona moving on and being happy with someone else (contrary to the popular demand), but I am really confused here.. Confused because, does jealousy REALLY work in real world ?
I personally believe that love is an equation between 2 people, whatever they feel for each other should be equal, mutual and exclusive to each other.. The power to trigger all the emotions related to love should be triggered by each other and ONLY each other.. But I heard there is a hell lot of not-so-positive package which comes with this emotion - insecurity, jealousy, possessiveness - the darker side of emotions.. And all of these are triggered by involvement of at least 1 person outside the 2 people involved in love.. When any third party gets the authority to influence your love-life, or to make changes to your emotions, I really wonder if that's really love .. If we need 3rd party to open our eyes, to make us feel the worth of our partners, then what's the point ? Shouldn't 2 people in love introspect their own actions, understand each other's pov, and then provide a solution to their problem THEMSELVES.. ? Isn't it why marriage is considered to be the greatest bond of all, a bond which is not impacted by external force or factors, that behind the closed doors, lies a whole different world for a couple where no one else gets an entry, that when a relationship(marriage) is in trouble and seek for legal separation, they are advised to spend a significant time alone with each other where no one ELSE comes in between them !
Anyways, my point is, as much as happy I am from Sona's perspective, I can't help but feel disappointed with the third wheel approach the CV has taken here.. I would be so much happier if Dev had understood the importance of Sona without feeling jealous, insecure etc... Shouldn't the unbearable pain of separation be ENOUGH for a person to realize the worth of his partner ? Shouldn't just missing the lover/girlfriend/wife be enough for a person to realize someone's importance in life ? Is it always mandatory to make someone feel jealous to make them realize the worth of their partner ?
From a personal front, my husband and me are living in 2 different countries right now And I can talk from my experience that the pain which I feel at times for staying apart from him, has NOTHING to do with him hanging out with the people who might have a crush on him 🥱 I don't care who he is with, the pain that I am NOT with him is overpowering all my emotions ALL the time 😕 Many many times a day I tend to rethink over my priorities and change my decisions just so that I can be with him.. So honestly I don't get this Jealousy track at all.. I thought it would be a bit more mature and show some emotions never seen in tv before.. But alas! Disappointed..
My 2 cents.. 😊
Anupamaa
