It will heal!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Push-pull

🤗 I just can't hug you any more squeezier than this.. I rea lly really wanted them to explore Ishwari's character way diffently .. theycompletely messed her up.. The way she was struggling to be the perfect mom but as a genuine human being unable to understand her own inner jitters for fear of something.. That's where I wanted to empathize and root for her emotional outbreak.. But what she was made to do was any typical villainous mother-in-law behavior.. And completely out of relevance to her original characterization.. Now they might just switch her to the other mode annoying us more.. 😆

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

This is exactly what is making it difficult to understand. I do not have confidence too. I suspect they may have got carried away by this separation track. I am unable to connect the current state with the earlier promos.. In the initial promos, It never looked like they had or would have this kind of a separation. It appeared that they still continue to be good friends and on talking terms. But with this kind of a separation track, I am wondering how would they connect the dots. They are shown literally being strangers, rumors of new entrants, etc..

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Aww thank you 😳 Ishwari was the most complex and fascinating character on this show..She had so many facets and layers..Not everything is about the love story and not everything is about Dev and Sonakshi..I know most ppl watch it for them but it wouldn't hurt to maintain that complexity..During the Natasha track right before Dev's engagement, there is this scene where Dev assures her she'l always be the most important person in his life and she looks on and stares at him while he is preparing the list of invitees..I remember feeling really bad for her at that point..Cos here was a woman who was actually trying but she really cant help it cos she is crazily invested in the guy..Its beyond me why the writers ruined that subtlety and made her so vile..The fact that she din't even feel guilty after all the nasty jibes made it worse..Cos that is not Ishwari..Even today, the CVs got it wrong..The way i initially saw her, she is not that cold and unrepentant..Am probably in the minority cos i was genuinely fascinated with her character and its kinda sad how they have ruined it..Atleast IMO 😆

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Could I thank RR and Push-Pull and Gemini and PKBDas enough here ??

This is the total disappointment which I felt from this show.. Playing with Ishu's character.. And unlike most of the people, I started the show for Supriya Ji, and now I have no place to hide my face .. What they have done to her character 😆 ..

Please continue the discussions I'm thoroughly enjoying it.. 🤗

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Could I thank RR and Push-Pull and Gemini and PKBDas enough here ??

This is the total disappointment which I felt from this show.. Playing with Ishu's character.. And unlike most of the people, I started the show for Supriya Ji, and now I have no place to hide my face .. What they have done to her character 😆 ..

Please continue the discussions I'm thoroughly enjoying it.. 🤗

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Haha..I started watching for Supriya too..As much as i liked the promos, i kind of had a nagging feeling it'l be a typical sass-bahu show with too much melodrama and i din't really care for both the actors or the PH tbh..In fact i had a terrible opinion about the PH cos i used to follow Veera ( only for Vishal cos that guy was ridiculously cute 😆) and they ruined the show like no tomorrow so i was really skeptical about following this show..Then i read that Supriya P was playing the mom and that was the main reason why i gave it a try cos i was convinced she wouldn't really take up a typical/cliched role 😆 Which is why am most disappointed with the way they have written Ishwari..

Originally posted by: skye

Perhaps with Ishwari it's a case of psychological projection connected with her past? Here's the definition from Wikipedia:

Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others. For example, a person who is habitually rude may constantly accuse other people of being rude.

I'm not all caught up with the show so don't know if this was touched upon in detail but what was Ishwari like with her own in-laws? She says that she was welcomed with open arms but what if there was a power struggle and she thinks the woman who comes into her son's life will behave as she behaved with her mother-in-law and husband? Did she orchestrate an ouster of her husband's parents or something? Is that what Khatri holds over her?

@rogerrocks: which is the Tamil movie you talk about?