Dev Ki Maa v/s Neha ki Maa

Hi guys :) M sort of a silent reader here and an ardent fan of KRPKAB / DevaKshi n Sharica ...

I couldnt help but make this comparison . Just few days back we saw a sort of similar situation and a total different Ishwari ! Ishwari knew Ranveer before as she knew Sona before n both her children fell in love but her reactions were totally different . Neha's case - she blabbered that she loved ranveer whereas in Dev's case Ishwari found it out her self but after that Dev told her everything . But her reactions were poles apart.

Neha's Maa , who according to Neha doesnt love her , reacted like any other mother . she could see her daughter's happiness , read her eyes and was so happy for her . Thats how a mother is like , right ? I feel Ishwari loves Neha as any other mother would love her child in the world . She even convinced Dev to let Neha n Ranveer marry when he wasnt too sure of their union . That was all what a mother would do .

But in Dev's case . I dont know . She has completely lost it . She feels she is the only one who has right on him . Thats fine , a mother is supposed to feel that but to this extent ? the way she's behaving these days , I cant even see her love for Dev anymore . I can only see that she feels she owns Dev . I dont know if its her Ego or insecurities , but her behaviour is nowhere justified . Specially when in Neha's case her reaction was so different . Its just so baseless ! she can prefer Dev more but really , she cant have such diverse reactions/feelings for her own children!

I feel so terrible for DevAkshi ! Dev is believing her blindly . That his mom loves him to death n his happy for him . He thinks first time ever he has loved somebody and his mom will be there for him n be happy in his happiness . he just gonna be so broken :( his most important person itself will be the cause of his misery n heartbreak :( I already feel so bad for him... whether he says or not - his trust will be broken into pieces too...💔
N Sona , my heart goes for you girl 😭 u r trying so much to make ur Dev's beliefs true .. You are one great person my dear ! She is getting snapped back left , right n centre but still she is not giving up. What does she even want ? ONLY to become Ishwari's daughter !
Hold on Sona ! n stay strong . One day this Maa of urs will come back to u girl...🤗

Ishwari ji ... I dunno what to say further .. I used to adore you but now u have crossed all the limits n it will continue as u r going find a groom for Sona ... Thats utter cheap ... makes me cringe!!
Anyway m waiting for u to come out of ur "Dev -sirf-mera-hai" delusional world , get some sense back , realise ur mistakes n Make up for them . You owe Sona so many many apologies .
I have no sympathies for you , only dislike these days . Hope in future Neha ki maa is able to become Dev ki maa . M waiting for you to realise what n all u have been doing n RECTFY it . I cant handle u anymore cos I cant understand u anymore !

If I offend anyone , m sorry in advance , but I HAD to vent it out .
Opinions are welcomed :)
Didnt proof read , so if any typos ... pls ignore :)

Take care everone :)🤗

You spoke my mind dear I was like Ishwari has completely lost it I guess she forgot that Neha ne bhi unke naak ke neeche affair chalaya tha with ranveer she is behaving like a misogynist in Devakshis case blaming the girl only and forgetting that It was her son who proposed sona not the other way around

I want to agree with your points, but below is what I feel about this -

Loved your thoughts..What I am hating is the taunting Ishwari and the true personality..the silent war that has started..Its an eye opener for Sona as well to see the other side of Ishwari..

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

You spoke my mind dear I was like Ishwari has completely lost it I guess she forgot that Neha ne bhi unke naak ke neeche affair chalaya tha with ranveer she is behaving like a misogynist in Devakshis case blaming the girl only and forgetting that It was her son who proposed sona not the other way around

Yes ! as Elena said, her son had hid thongs from her not Sona...n the way she was talking abt love marriages ! hello ?? ur daughter also had a love marriage few days ago...n how can she misbehave with a girl when she herself has 3 girls...🥱

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I want to agree with your points, but below is what I feel about this -

She was never Neha ki maa.. she was never there for her, Neha had shitloads of complains about snatching her childhood, and all are justifiable and valid - credit goes to Ishwari.. The reaction which she gave during Neha was also not motherly I feel.. She doesn't even CARE about where Neha will go, if she would be happy or not.. She is TRULY from the cheap mentality where girl childs are burden for her, and marrying them off is a responsibility of her.. If you remember, she was fine with the first proposal which went till engagement .. But when it was about Dev, she didn't want Dev to marry in that house.. NO LOGIC can explain me this that WHY a MOTHER would agree to tie a relationship with a house for her daughter, but not for her son.. If such awkward proposal is on the way for the bride's mother, the mother in all honesty takes ample time to think about it before rejecting, because she has the fear of how her daughter would be treated in the in-laws house once she rejects such proposal.. Counter-marriages happen in India all the time.. But did Ishwari think even for TEN minutes ? NO.. She right-away rejected it, STILL she wanted to marry Neha off to that house ! Without thinking or worrying about what repercussions would her rejection do to Neha ..

For her, it's ALWAYS been Dev.. Neha and the remaining kids are unwanted I feel.. She is the kind of woman who are standing in the way of women-liberation in India and creating problems for us women.. She is ONLY Dev ki maa, and let me tell you, she is a HORRIBLE Maa.. 😊 For a bunch of kids, she is oblivious to their lives.. And for Dev, she is oblivious to his feelings.. She has some primitive age concept in her mind and she believes she is more than right in that.. Whereas in reality, she is a sexist, controlling and pathetic mother who lives in denial..

Wish Bose Dadi gives her some BIG time lesson on how to adapt with the new changes of each generation..

Lovely points ! Really... u gave a whole new prespective to things...
I dunno though ...She time n again is shown to love her kids but yes I cant disagree with your points too...she just so confusing! and not at all as simple as she seems...sometimes i think GKB is much better than her ...atleast whatever GKB is , she is out in open...🥱 but whatever , Ishwari is a mother of one a kind...n she irritates the hell out of me these days...everything she does n thinks seems sooo baseless...
They really really need to reform ishwari's character step by step...or else it wont make any sense...

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Loved your thoughts..What I am hating is the taunting Ishwari and the true personality..the silent war that has started..Its an eye opener for Sona as well to see the other side of Ishwari..

but if you recall, there are several instances where Ishwari never cared about anyone's feelings or thoughts...Like for instance -

1. when Sona called him dumb, she was super upset..made such huge drama..
2. same when she got to know that she made him wait 5 hours to come back..
3. when they were trying the ring for Natasha - her expression was 1 one big need to be made..no concern that Sona got hurt...
4. When Sona couldnt make it to the engagement and asked to pass on wishes to Dev - she didn't
5. Also, when there was some conversation and she mentioned to Dev that she was talking to Sona and Dev asked about what Sona's opinion was - her answer- kuch bhi..

Amazing mom-son combination - blind belief..

With Neha, she was upset for a day or less that she is gone..don't even think about her..

I personally want to see how the mom needs to go back and impress Sona.

Yes ! Sona needs to realise but more than that Dev needs to too. He is gonna sacrifice his life for his Maa , who I am not sure deserves his devotion , anymore ... She must have gone thru alot but that only makes u positive ... n actions these days can NEVER be justified...here this girl who is so sweetly n genuinely trying to make a bond with u n u can only misbehave with her ?? really ??
n yes Ishwari guilty track n her rectifying her each n every mistake is something I really wanna see..specially APOLOGIZING to Sona...

I have said this before. This "mother" is a worthy topic for a PhD analysis. I only wish some universities accepted analysis on Tele characters.

Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun

I have said this before. This "mother" is a worthy topic for a PhD analysis. I only wish some universities accepted analysis on Tele characters.

There has been a lot of discussion around whether Ishwari is just an insecure and possessive mother. That her suicide attempt is not to draw attention or cause any problems between Dev and Sonakshi, but to remove the hurdle in their way. So what is all this new nautanki of her finding a groom for Sonakshi now? How is this acceptable behavior? Or the way she is treating Sona these days? She is not even treating her like a human these days!

I agree that she was never a mother to any of the girls. The girls were a responsibility that she couldn't do off and had to fulfill. And she chose her only son to fulfill all those responsibilities. Her dependency on him is so high that she cannot deal with him having to care for someone else in his life.

She is Selfish, she is conniving, she is attention seeking, she is psychotic, she is anything but a true mother! What a shame

@bold...
that is so so so true!😆

Ishwari, even now, always burdens Dev down. She thinks he needs to put himself after his family is pretty natural in a patriarchal setup. But the fact that Sonakshi is an outsider is what makes her the worst.

I understand all the pain they had to go through but yet it doesn't give her the right to discount Sona.