Dev needs to Lose Sona to realize her worth

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Silambu

@Silambu

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well after watching yesterday's episode with Sona's fiery attittude " I have had enough" with Dev, I recalled something Sona said to Elena that perhaps Dev does not love her enough...

I think there is no doubt about his love for Sona. Its there but its needs to be tested to its maximum tolerant endurance level for Sona to be convinced. 😆

I have always said a number of times in several posts he will reveal his relation ship when he is ready to his family . Until that time, just to be patient.

However, with his fever and Sona's helplessness in not being able to see him despite being in the same house and Dev assuring her that he will talk about them to his mother first, meant the things have reached a point where it needs to be addressed immediately

Till now , Dev has not plucked up the courage to tell his mother as she is making things difficult for him and the man is clueless abt his mother's new found strange behaviour unaware that the problem is actually abt him not coming clean with his relationship with mummy.

We all know Dev loves Sona deeply. . He is a good man with a good heart. I mean the man called off his engagement on that day when he realized he loved Ms Bose, without even checking with her if she feels the same for him.! That alone says how much he loves her. So, I have no doubt on his love for Sona. He just needs to express which Sona needs to hear it very badly now as she is going through the taunts of the two senior citizens in the house...which has become a breaking point for her and realize that she hasnt been fair to her family as well.

On the other hand, Dev is waiting for the right moment to tell his mum as he is just preoccupied with the thoughts of his mother and he cannot think beyond that now and in the process has unintentionally hurt Sona too. Of course Sona is feeling the frustration as well and has doubts on Dev about their relationship status quo. Who wouldnt be ? Its normal.

Well with Sona sort of giving him a piece of mind and also with Mamaji Pep talk in the precap , Dev will finally reveal to mum. We all know that. We will have some sad, happy and sad moment again.

But strangely I feel this is not done for me. I want to feel his passion raw and intense for Sona...and vice versa from Sona too. But more from Dev as she was readily available in his house...now she needs to leave inorder for him to realize her full potential... what she really means to him?

I believe he will choose his mother ...and let her go. Good! I want that.

Remember the saying : We need to let go sometimes, to realize its true sense of worth.

This is it.!

Yes, the separation track will be the one to make Dev to realize what Sona means to him and how he will bring her back to him...and Sona too...has to realize what this man will do for her... how far he will go for her, fight for her with his family, and what a wonderful man she has got for a life partner and for Dev what a gem of a woman Sona has been , always has been in all ways to him.

The two of them have to face the challenges and struggles with the separation track in order to embrace a lifetime of happiness.

Edited by Silambu - 9 years ago

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 9 years ago

Totally agree with you

I've been complaining for days that Sona has just accepted everything that was dished out to her yet she was the bold and confident girl that once entered the Dixit house has become so fragile within a short span of time .

so yesterday I was happy when Sonakshi showed her feisty self , she spoke everything that I've been complaining about and making Dev realize the same . Dev is a man yes he loves Sonakshi but he is unaware of many things that goes into a relationship and most men are this way its only when the women makes a man realize she cannot be taken for granted that's when he gets alert . In a man's life he has a mother whom he loves and adores maybe sisters like Dev has but when when he gets a GF that is just his so its up to her to let him know she is important too .

Dev never had to fight for Sona's love she fell in love first went through the pain of not having him but when he realized he confessed and his love was accepted , Sona is everyday at his home , whenever he needs her she is there whether its at his home or outside her home he never had to feel her absence for a long time .

but if Sonakshi is not around him that's when he will realize her importance in his life

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

As we all know without any effort if you get anything you dint know the value or worth of it .

You have o work hard and earn it then the prizayou get for that effort will hold a great place in ur life..

Similarly it happened for sona. But for Dev it was just a left hand play. He got her soo easily. So makers wanted to show the realisation for Dev that sona is not a separate soul but an integral soul of his.

I believe that track as not a separation track but a realisation track.

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Rope_of_Hope

@Rope_of_Hope

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

amazing post..👏100% agree with u😊

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

Awesome post. Agree Dev need to loose Sona to realize her worth.He need to feel the pain.

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Ferdous_69

@Ferdous_69

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

Amazing post ... Agree with u..

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monika

@M.soni

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

agree with you..he need to lose her to realize her importance

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srujitha

@Sruji1

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

Very well said. Agree with you. Yes dev loves her but he should not take her granted. I know his mother is important him but he should consider sona feelings too. But I think sona also needs to understand him.

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Erian

@Erian

Explorer

Posted: 9 years ago

Very well written.

I also have the same feeling that Dev really needs to lose Sona for a while, not mentally but physically; i,e, not seeing her around in house, to realise the worth of this relationship.

Dev also needs to realise to give importance to others emotions. Of course his Mother is his top most priority & no one is asking him to compromise there. In fact Sona always support him in his every move to make his Mother happy. It's high time that he also give some importance to his girlfriend & her family, think a little about their emotions too.

Dev is so preoccupied with his Mother being troubled for some reason that he's unknowingly ignoring the fact that Sona is hurt by his actions only. It's him who's Unreasonable demands is making their relationship complicated. He's failing to see At times he's even saying/asking things at the cost of Sona's self respect. He must realise that himself & rectify his acts.

I'd want him to say/do a gesture to make Sona realise that her self respect is important to him as well & will fight for them. If Dev fails to understand that then our feisty Sona should give him another piece of realisation talk like she did yesterday when she made it very clear that Dev can't take her for granted.

Hopefully post separation track, we can see a little more of mature Dev part when he'll not see her around & value her importance in his life.