Testing Uncharted Waters....... - Page 2

Originally posted by: fanktlk

I remembered I first discovered the forum.I loved reading articles, loved sharing my thought and yet for the longest time I didn't mention it to my husband. It was too embarrassing to share.. How do I share that I discuss a fictional story a serial and actually try and find logic. People discuss world affairs who does characters or episodes. But I needed to get on the forum. In Dev's words I need it for myself.

It took me a while to share, it invoked reactions worse than I expected, I got teased and the finally the acceptance. Sona is such for Dev. An emotional release and yet he doesn't know if this is normal. If it will be accepted and eventually even if, then how does he deal with it. Hence the secrecy.

I liked this comparison the best. I remember coming to meet you that evening. My husband was like - what? what forum friend? Are you sure such a person exists? And your family had been like - are you sure it's a girl?

Dev's feelings and fears, when seen from this angle are very relatable.

He was ready. He was clearly ready to tell had GKB not broken his chain of thoughts and when she did he was again lost for words.

When Ishwari started cooking on the floor, I thought it was her way of recreating the past. Trying to tell Dev that nothing has changed. She is still the same the situation is still the same. All he needs to do is come running to her and share without fear like he did when he was a kid. I think she was trying to remind him of that conversation... so he can open up. But when our tubelight didn't take the hint, she didn't realize that he is confused, she interpreted it as he doesn't want to share.. that caused the entire over-reaction according to me.

Yaar... She really thought recreating the past kind of subtle hints would light any bulb in him?? He is a guy. The only hint he would get is a smack on the head aka a straight talk. 😆

Dev-Sona

Both are in the same boat. Both are questioning the very foundation of their relationship. He with his mother. She with him. The only difference is she is vocal about it. Dev doesn't know what he will do if Ishwari doesn't agree, Similarly Sona doesn't know what she will do if Dev doesn't.

Opening up about ones love is not easy. Remember how many failed attempts Sona made to tell Dev about her feelings. She didn't want to lose the friendship atleast.

Dev will go through that with Ishwari. Just because he was able to confess to Sona at one go... we expect that he will confess to Ishwari at one go. With Sona he didn't have anything to lose. Now that he knows the emotion, the love the dependency, now that Sona has grown to become his life itself... he has everything to lose.

We can't really judge on one episode. Give him time. The transition showcased is beautiful. and we know he will by the end of the week... so Tab tak... Lambi Saans lo... Relax.

@ red - thats the bottom line of this whole mess. The reason for his hesitation and her fear. His delay and her impatience.

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Amazing amazing analysis... Loved it to the core... Thank you so much for such positivity...🤗

Originally posted by: Agrata23

excellent post and much needed post too👏

Originally posted by: Nikita_Smith

Ah, you make perfect sense! Great post this!

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

Lovely lovely... Just loved it.
I have lots to say but I am little pressed for time. IL cm back later for sure... Just can't stop myself from saying that it has been so much of expectations, expectations and only expectations from Dev all through his life from his mom's end that it now scares him. Of failing in her eyes. This unending expectation from a parent to a child causes such deep rooted issues that one is not able to say what they really want..it just does not come up... It's sad but it's V real... .. Dev is just going through this phase. I'm not justifying his action or anything... Just that this thought came to my mind.. Everyone has expectations from. Him... Mom and sisters ... Now sona too... She aint wrong... It's not easy to take it all ... .
I'll cm back for more dear. Got to take my kid to doc.

Originally posted by: Suvika.