I think it is time for a test - Page 4

Originally posted by: bookworm123

I need to run Ish's behavior past the following people now and seek their views...

Option 1. My mom - she is somewhat possessive of my brother but he is quite open about his wants and convinces her

so I may need to move on to ...

Option 2. My MIL - quite possessive. Her son is very respectful but they do not necessarily have a very open relationship. She also has flashbacks of my husband prior to age 18 because after that he left home for higher studies so there is a match with Ish's flashbacks. :). She is however far superior to Ish because she like a true parent ultimately only wants our happiness so...

I may not have any suitable test subjects after all...

Ish's chula drama was quite OTT to say the least. Someone watching the show today will think that in the previous episode Dev proposed moving her to an old age home..

That was hilarious 🤣 !!!! But surprisingly I could empathize with her today , unlike previous episode till the cooking drama .

On a more serious note - Dev was unable to stop her from such an illogical action of cooking on the floor and looked shocked at one cross word from her. How can Sona ever marry such a guy? She is bound to have a difference of opinion with her MIL sometime and in this house she will receive zero support. I may be exaggerating but it is not far from the truth. Perhaps Kushal Roy was not so bad after all. He took a stand with his mom for an unknown girl and decided to give her the benefit of doubt and met her even though she stood up his family when they came home.

Lets not draw conclusion so fast , give it some time and find out how things turn out !!!

Originally posted by: Malvika07

THANK YOU for making this post!! This was exactly what came to my mind after yesterday's episode.. Ishwari didn't irritate me that much yesterday, I'm getting used to her behaviour now.. in fact, yesterday she was much more open to receiving the news, she didn't put up a cold front which she keeps doing freequently this days.. which is why, it was all the more frustrating to see Dev chickening out.

The central conflict of the show is out in the open, but I didn't expect to find myself so unsympathetic towards Dev and Ishwari both. The problem I've had with Dev right from the very first promo is his lack of ability to stand up for his love. His behaviour right now is a lot like guys we know, who promise you the stars and the moon but when it comes to acting on it, they chicken out. Raising the kushal roy point was bang on!! Kushal was supposed to be blatantly wrong for Sonakshi, it's a really bad sign that we find ourselves sympathising with that character

I really want Dev to realize Sonakshi's importance in his life, he needs to yearn for her,fight for her. And for that he needs to see beyond his mother for one minute without feeling so incredibly guilty. Like someone mentioned before, he can't see nirasha in his mother's eyes.. so every time there's a conflict in the house, he's gonna ask Sonakshi to shut up. Dev is the most lovable character when he's delivering romantic lines, it that's mostly Shaheer's charm. My lack of connect with Dev's character is ringing alarm bells in my head and making me wonder if I'll be rooting for this couple in the long run!

I wanted Sonakshi to be upfront with Dev and tell him that she needs to tell her parents too. Dev is anyways least bothered about her family, at least Sonakshi needs to think about them instead of joining dev in worshipping Ishwari. We all know what Dev will do if ishwari refuses for their alliance,but I wonder if Sonakshi tells him that her parents aren't ready for their union and therefore they need to break up what would dev's reaction be? Possibly ' You can't do this to me'.

Right now, I just have one advice for Sonakshi.. run, girl!!

Originally posted by: bookworm123

I think the CVs now have a pattern. Alternate day episodes are targeted at star plus crowd. Chula may have been borrowed from star plus set for this purpose.

This theory is further proved by the fact that Sona (who has picked up star plus bahu qualities even before marriage) says they should reveal for sake of "ma".

Originally posted by: randommusings

Excellent pov on the chulha drama ...Ishwari knows how to make Dev feel guilty. Seriously dnt understand who wud symphathise with Ish now, writers have taken it too far this time or wait more chulha drama n Sona's insult in tomm epi

Thank you. Ish's goal seems to be to make Dev feel guilty not to do what she can to help her ever obedient son open up. Looks like she cannot cut Dev any slack at all. The one time he was slightly out of line, she is making sure he knows it and is acting in a way that will make him feel very bad.

Yes, some may say that is the storyline but Ish's graph is not being dealt with the realistic touch the show has been known for

Felt bad for Sona. She desperately wants to tell her family coz she knows they will be extremely happy abt it. But she can't as Dev's family's reaction is unknown. I know Sona is not the complaining types but I feel she shud tell Dev about Ish's changed behavior towards her, Mami's taunts that Ish wud get bride for Dev, this is the push needed for Dev to talk to Ishwari.

Originally posted by: mena_k

😆 I loved everything you said. How so true. Dev doesn't have a backbone to stand and speak in front of his mother. How do we expect to take him to take a fair stand in future for Sona. And ya he won't even touch Sona even after marriage until he has the guts to take permission from his mother. Faltu ka mera haq hai, mujhe chahiye dialogues and If he really ends up doing it, he would be guilty like hell and won't be able to tell his mother about his wife being pregnant. Seriously what a crackpot family Dixit's are.

Originally posted by: piyu008

For i have a little story on my end..

My brother used to share everything with mom, but now as he entered his teenage he shares with us. Mom is completely ok with that fact.

So i don't see any such problem here, every mom understands that their children needs somthing called person space n time to understand the change.

Even in my case she keeps asking me time to time if i like someone, rather then doing something like ishwari.

I agree with that chula thingy, she is just seeking attention.. gosh please can someone tell her she above 50 for god's sake she is not unattended child who will keep doing some mischief to get attention.

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If i was Sona i would have definetely thought about Dev.. these things that only looks good in serials in real life it sucks... i have many sisters who are suffering bcoz of these so called possessive mother. This mentality in India completely sucks that married girl should understand all wrong in her sasural. N all MIL needs to understand that girl came in their house is their responsibility as well.

PS: I am not married nor m in relation just kept a light on society that does exist in India.

Originally posted by: dsr11

Agree. Sona shouldn't marry him until he learns to stand up for himself at least. No woman would want to willingly walk into a family where the MIL is so against her.

I think Sona will break up with Dev when she understands the underhanded insults by Eeshwari even after she approves their relationship. I don't feel that a modern, independent woman like Sona should stall her own life to fix all the damaged people in Dixit house.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Rogger 🤣 You cracked me up 🤣Good to see you in this forum too 😆

This whole post is the best post I have read today 😆 Seriously the chullah drama was such OTT I agree with the TM totally 🤣 The moment you feel pain for Ishwari, she does something SO OTT and Out of the box that the sympathy turns into laughter 😆 She doesnt think about how it would look to everyone whoever comes to visit the house, how her kids will be criticized for keeping their mom like this 🥱

I am glad that Radharani wont join hands with Ishwari and she might even confront her 😆 ATM she seems to have more brain than Ishwari 😡 I think this incident will trigger Mamaji to talk to Dev about Sona