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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved your sentiment. I feel the same. No one is perfect and cool and put together well all the time.
The Dixits are a tight knit family, one with Dev at the center. Ishwari may realize or not, that Dev has moved from a child to being the provider for the house. He is in charge now. Ishwari likes to think that she is doing things together with him, beside him, unfortunately it is not so. Dev is in charge and is doing everything for everyone there. He puts up a front: I am strong, I'll handle everything. He tries to absorb everybody's troubles and suffer it alone until Sona turned out to be a trustworthy confidante.

Ishwari is a little like Smeagol right now...😆 preciousss. ..

If and when Dev sits her down and says, "Ma , I love Sona, and I want to marry her. It would make me so happy if you would accept her too." Finished. Ishwari would HAVE to accept Sona , regardless of what she felt.

Ishwari is like lots of mothers, protective of their homes from outsiders. Sonakshi means changes. If he marries her, she can't just march into his room and rearrange his cupboards and things. His room door might be locked sometimes and she will have to wait ... there are things he would do for Sona and she must accept that.

Okay she feels mildly jealous of the attention. But saying that she replaced her husband with Dev is just awful. Eugh. Not fair.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In Natasha track.When Dev was confused whether to say yes or no to the marriage proposal.He asked Ishwari.Ishwari said it's your life now you have to make decision.So basically Dev did what his mom advice.He took decision of his life.Also Ishwari promise.She will always stand by his decision.Then why suddenly she is feeling threatened by Sona's presence in Dev life.Offended Dev took decision by his own.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved reading your thoughts... 😊

Initially I thought Ishwari was just an insecure mother & yes I did try to justify her character as well. This was way before she started getting the vibes about Sona.. But I can't sympathize with her anymore... when she realized that Dev was inclining towards everything that Sona was saying which was perfectly right..she started getting all jittery & extremely emotional for reasons known to her only..

She was always insecure when it came to Dev & now she has given that insecurity a name 'Sona'

And the instances that you've listed out maybe right only from Sona's perspective.. But we as the third person(s) get to see the cunning side of Ishwari. So I can't disregard the fact that she's been ridiculously unfair in snapping at Sona for everything Dev does...

But about yesterday's precap I can agree to your thoughts. Posted this yesterday abt the precap:
Ishwari is being an absolute pain. But she did tell Sona very clearly not to interfere when it comes to her children.. So I feel Sona shouldn't have made anything for Dev...It was her job to only look after Ishwari's diet...nothing more... If she wanted to make anything for him she should have asked Ishwari first.. I know it's sad for us to see Sona going through this but she was warned before by Ishwari.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Does any love is conquered without any struggle...the fight comes from society or ur own people ..here ishwari Devi ...all r seeing from der own perspective nd experiences nd the way we all feel always about the word "the mother" .immortal nd most selfless creature created by God .
..nd ages we consider mother as epitome of strength nd love ...but sometimes the pain they endure from the society in der low phase make them weak bd helpless..

Here I found ishwari had struggled for der survival in ruthless society where widow has considered as object available for everyone...nd sumwhere she had found strength in Dev ...as I always feel husband gives that inner strength to his wife ...
Wife in his cocoon always has sense of security...and that has been snatched from her at young age...
Down the lane ,ishwari knows dev has to b shared (we have seen many instances during Natasha phase Ki ,ishwari self talks ki dev has to go ahead in life...at that tym also she was not happy ) basically her problem is not sona or Natasha or for that matter any other girl..
She will b insecure at any given point of tym..even though she knows dev life will b jeopardized with the name of responsibility...its just that she cant share.
That is her weakest point nd I think given point of tym she will slowly accept that dev cant b her own ..she will leave the world nd then what abt dev life...if that thought comes in.ishwari mind she will slowly move ahead nd accept the situation.
Our imperfection comes from our past experiences nd struggles we faces in our life ..we create our own web of fear nd stringent thoughts..don't want to come out as we don't want to face failure..best example is ishwari nd even dev ...

And finally life will never b smooth ,u have face so many hurdles to conquer ur love ...

"woh phool hi kya jisme kaante na Ho ,
woh raaste hi kya jisme phattar na Ho,
mohabbat Ki manzil itni aasan nahi , har rang ko apnana hai.,tabhi hum apni duniya bass payenge"


its just my pov nd no offence




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