Iswari's discrimination over Sona and Natasha

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Friends.. Here I have a big confusion. Dev was kind of officially engaged with Natasha. although it wasnt practical. But they used to go for lunch dinner or coffee date. they used to work late together. Dev used to drop her home. 😕
During this time also Iswari was insecure . but not in this extent. she kind of made her mind for the change. she did not hate her. She never thought ki Natasha meri bete ke piche padhi hai. 😡

She didnt even know Natasha well. then why she is so intolerable with Sona. She knows her. she knows her family. Moreover she knows about her character , culture , job everything. Then why she is hating her so much and feeling so insecure now? 🤢

Is it because of the economical status? Natasha belongs to a rich family. Her father is a big business owner. She was working in her dad,s company whereas sona belongs to a middle class bengali family.

i am totally confused. what can be the reason of this discrimination?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari is selfish woman. she knew that natasha ki saadi dev ke sath hogi to dev ko business me profit hota. Aur sona ke sath esa kuch nahi. She is just thinking about dev's success not about his feeling. Isliye natasha ke sath saadi ki koi problem nahi thi. 😡😡😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You know this had crossed my mind for a moment too, but then I realised that there is one fundamental difference between Natasha and Sonakshi from Ishwari's point of view - Natasha was a potential threat to her relationship with her son that never actually materialised. In the sense that her insecurities were premised on something that might happen in the future - things that mami said, Neha's opinion about Dev's room needing to change...these were all things to come, somewhere in the distant future. And I'm pretty sure she could see that Dev was never in love with Natasha to begin with. He liked her, sure, and spending time with her was also a part of the business aspect of what was happening at the time. But she never even for a moment had the kind of impact on him that Sonakshi does right now. And that's just it. With Sonakshi, Ishwari's rational and irrational fears are materialising right now, before her very eyes. Dev is changing in ways far more fundamental than the decor of his room, and so the insecurity and possessiveness are at an all time high. That's what I've understood.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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During Natasha phase Ishwari didn't see any effect on Dev to increase her insecurities but now she saw how Sona effects Dev so hatred.. but ya but if its Natasha she would tired to hold her anger its sona (who works for her)she easily showing her hatred and that's really cheap of Ishwari to do..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes Ishwari was insecure even then but not to this extent and the reason is that Dev was going to marry Natasha but he had no special feelings towards her. He wasn't marrying her because he actually wanted to, Natasha had no importance as such in Dev's life.
Whereas here , in Sonakshi's case, Dev has given Sona a very important place in his life. Sona has become so important to him that she can influence his decisions. And that is the reason why Ishwari is feeling threatened. Here is where the insecurity lies, she can not tolerate a woman in Dev's life who can influence him.
And Natasha never influenced him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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With Sonakshi also she never minded when they were talking and fighting all the time...
One very imp thing in Natasha's case,Dev was constantly asking her if he's doing a right thing or not...and he never hid anything from her..
But Sona's case,is totally different...Dev didn't ask her a thing and he kept it a secret...she always thought her dear beta will share everything with her but he didn't...
Partly it was Dev bcoz of whom his mother started getting insecure...like taking Sona for his mom's saree selection...
he never did these kind of things with Natasha...She cud see Dev is changing a lot...and that's bcoz of Sona's effect in his life...soo this hatred...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It's not about money..it's only her over possessiveness for dev that how can her son love some gal and that too without telling her...that is what pinching her...
She made a boundary covering her and dev and she didn't want any body to cross it not even get daughters.

But I find her mental...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Riddikulus

You know this had crossed my mind for a moment too, but then I realised that there is one fundamental difference between Natasha and Sonakshi from Ishwari's point of view - Natasha was a potential threat to her relationship with her son that never actually materialised. In the sense that her insecurities were premised on something that might happen in the future - things that mami said, Neha's opinion about Dev's room needing to change...these were all things to come, somewhere in the distant future. And I'm pretty sure she could see that Dev was never in love with Natasha to begin with. He liked her, sure, and spending time with her was also a part of the business aspect of what was happening at the time. But she never even for a moment had the kind of impact on him that Sonakshi does right now. And that's just it. With Sonakshi, Ishwari's rational and irrational fears are materialising right now, before her very eyes. Dev is changing in ways far more fundamental than the decor of his room, and so the insecurity and possessiveness are at an all time high. That's what I've understood.



Yes your explanation makes sense. Good logic. i think it can be a valid reason. thank u😊👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sounya23

With Sonakshi also she never minded when they were talking and fighting all the time...

One very imp thing in Natasha's case,Dev was constantly asking her if he's doing a right thing or not...and he never hid anything from her..
But Sona's case,is totally different...Dev didn't ask her a thing and he kept it a secret...she always thought her dear beta will share everything with her but he didn't...
Partly it was Dev bcoz of whom his mother started getting insecure...like taking Sona for his mom's saree selection...
he never did these kind of things with Natasha...She cud see Dev is changing a lot...and that's bcoz of Sona's effect in his life...soo this hatred...



yes.. right. very logical point
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tulika1

It's not about money..it's only her over possessiveness for dev that how can her son love some gal and that too without telling her...that is what pinching her...

She made a boundary covering her and dev and she didn't want any body to cross it not even get daughters.

But I find her mental...


obviously.. she is a pshycho 😡

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