ishwari stuck to dev's childhood

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Posted: 9 years ago
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till date we hv seen numerous flashbacks of ishwari mainly concerning dev as a boy...it seems ishwari does not want to look beyond that and for her dev is still that small boy who used to be dependent on her for everything...
she refuses to accept the fact that so many years have passed since then and dev is now a young man who has his own dreams...ishwari still thinks that like that small boy even now dev's dreams are still centered around her...i really wish ishwari at least trusts her own parvarish...

dev has set up a big business...he has taken care of his family...so she shud hv the minimum trust that dev will never neglect his responsibilities toward his mother and sisters even if he gets married...

however i feel its more than that...it is not about responsibilities only...ishwari wants dev to love and care only for her and anyone else who will make place in his heart and demand his time will be rejected by her...

since i hv seen such MILs in real life i know the kind of selfish and narrow minded they can be...i only hope dev and sona will learn to deal with ishwari in a positive way...the purpose shud not be to hurt her or make her feel deprived but they shud take care to help her to fight her insecurities and convince her that she is not losing a son but gaining a DIL who will not take her place in dev's life but will be addition to dixit family...ishwari needs to learn that it will be sona who will remain with dev in the years wen she will not be there for his son...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari is really stuck in time as far as Dev is concerned. I am getting sick of her tantrums now. Seriously, Dev is an adult. Let him be one. He is a top businessman but still treating him as if he is a child who needs mom each time. Sick behaviour!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So so very true!! (Posted this earlier) Ishwari is so very badly holding on to the past, she's holding on to Dev. He was a support then when they going through a bad phase & she wants the same support & attention now as well... She needs to realize that Dev has grown into an adult now & she also needs to grow up as well... She's still stuck in the old time zone. She needs to zap out of that... Hoping that, with Dev mumbling Sona's name she would have zapped out...She needs to realize that there have been so much more changes in her life other than Dev...

Now that she knows that both Dev & Sona have feelings for each other...her brain cells are going to be working over time to dissect each & every action of Dev's to the highest degree. This is just going to torment her further & which will indirectly result in Dev & Sona parting ways...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very well said dear...
Unfortunately bt it's bitter truth.. that this type of MIL exit in real life too...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ferdous_69

Very well said dear...
Unfortunately bt it's bitter truth.. that this type of MIL exit in real life too...


that is wat i am saying in almost all my posts since this current track has started that ishwari is a very real character and there r many MILs even worse than her...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

So so very true!! (Posted this earlier) Ishwari is so very badly holding on to the past, she's holding on to Dev. He was a support then when they going through a bad phase & she wants the same support & attention now as well... She needs to realize that Dev has grown into an adult now & she also needs to grow up as well... She's still stuck in the old time zone. She needs to zap out of that... Hoping that, with Dev mumbling Sona's name she would have zapped out...She needs to realize that there have been so much more changes in her life other than Dev...

Now that she knows that both Dev & Sona have feelings for each other...her brain cells are going to be working over time to dissect each & every action of Dev's to the highest degree. This is just going to torment her further & which will indirectly result in Dev & Sona parting ways...


i dont think ishwari will zap out even after hearing dev mumbling sona's name...i believe she will be even more desperate to separate them...

how sick she can be...her daughter can do love marriage but if her son falls in love then he is going against indian culture...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You got that absolutely right!!
dosequisgifstotheworld agree pointing you rule i see what you did there

Ishwari really needs to look into future instead of past!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Im confuse about one thing im not regular follower of this show . can anyone tell me where is ishwari husband is he dead? or alive?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fairy_tales

Im confuse about one thing im not regular follower of this show . can anyone tell me where is ishwari husband is he dead? or alive?


ishwari's husband died wen dev was a small boy...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ishwari needs to come out from her past to understand present and future...she still thinks that dev is a small boy whose world revolves around her only...she needs to understand that dev is a man now...grown up adult...he has his own dreams and desires in his personal life...she needs to understand that in future when she is not alive...all her daughters are married off...dev will live alone...he will be lonely...he will be getting old...at this point of juncture in life...he needs a life companion...who takes care of him...who loves him...happiness or sorrow she will be with him..never be alone...she needs to understand that her life is only short span ultimately dev is going to go through a journey of life...in that journey he will be lonely...he needs a companion...whom is known as his wife

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