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quite a food-for-thought episode...loved it as usual...watever mood they set with an episode...gv me one devaskshi scene and i travel to dreamland *blush*
ok first things first...the enemy has struck get ur weapons ready...oh no not a war yet since devbabu is in no mood to attack the enemy since natasha is involved...tina rightly said just like mr.gujral he is also mixing personal feelings with business...but too late ms.tina...that mr.dev exists no more for whom business solely means source of money for his family...today he has learnt that to stay happy one has to spend time with loved ones...how true wen tina said dev is one of a kind...
i always love their phn convos and today was not an exception...i hv seen ppl change in love and even get educated in love...but dev is actually getting masters degree after falling in love...and i dont mean he is learning the essence of love...i mean that is there but he is now learning every small things that make a relationship special...all his life he has worked hard for his family...focusing on business running after contracts, attending meetings, conferences etc etc...i am sure a person who at such a young age has set up such a huge business must hv forsaken hundreds of hours that he cud hv otherwise spent with his family...but the loss of those times is striking him now...with neha gone he is now realizing how much he is missing her and how he cud spend more time with her...the very fact that money is only a necessity of life and not a source of smiles and laughter and happiness is now being learnt by dev after he has fallen in love...today wen he luks at himself he can see he is always smiling...he knows now that he can feel the essence of colors...and he attributes that to falling in love and spending time with his lady love...it is only with this he has now realized happiness comes from being in the companionship with ppl whom one loves and cares for...he can gv them every comfort of life but once they will go away these riches wont form his memories but the times that he spends with them will enrich his memory...today he is upset since as he gropes in his memory he can hardly find any quality time spent with neha..."mein ye nahi keh raha hoon ke mujhe galat waqt par pyar hua hai" i almost wept at that line...the poor guy has fallen in love but his lifelong mission of caring only for his family comes to the fore all the time...today he feels guilty that he is gving priority to his own feelings...my heart went out as he blames himself for doing something which is a natural thing in our life...its absolutely rite to love and live for ur family but it is equally rite to indulge oneself and gv importance to own feelings...
again i feel how well sona understands dev since it is the second time dev almost blames his love life for missing neha...dev needs to learn that loving thyself is not a sin...
i absolutely loved it wen he said that he filters the rights and wrongs before speaking with anyone else but with sona he can be honest widout getting scared of showing the wrong sides of him...being in love does not only mean how deeply one loves that person since for dev love means merging two hearts in a way that wen one heart beats blood gets pumped into the other one's body...
this is how dev is accepting sona in his life...not everyone is comfortable with sharing own feelings and i dont feel that is wrong...being introvert is part of personality just like being extrovert is...however for dev it is not an effort to come out of his shell wen he is with sona but he is just naturally opening up...i mean sona is never pushing him to open up but sona's love and trust has that effect on him that he is going against his own nature in a natural and comfortable manner...
dev ishwari scene is only another extension of exhibiting the infallible bond they share...i believe not only ishwari but even dev likes noone to step in the private space between them...

oh and they actually remember that nikki is supposed to go on college trip...quite impressed i am since i hv seen in other shows makers forgetting many such things which they had mentioned in earlier episodes but never followed up...but then this is a one of a kind show, rite...

wen dev told sona to take care of his mom she said that she will take care of her mom...it was quite a nice thing to say and hear...well they r in love so its obvious that sona will now want to feel his family as her own...all these i can understand but isnt it now time to declare this in front of their family...i mean both families...

now the penultimate scene...quite a scary one thanx to brilliant perf by supriya ji...i really dont know whom to blame for the mess...ishwari knows her son...he never welcomes anyone intruding in her personal space except ishwari...today sona is saying dev asked her to find the key kept in a hidden place to open his wardrobe to take out a business file...so out of character for dev and how is ishwari supposed to understand that...she still thinks sona is only an employee...
dev is gving her permission to freely roam around in his house because she is his gf...letz be honest...wud dev requested sona to bring the file if she were still only an employee...i am sure no and he wud hv called ishwari even knowing that she has pain in her knees or else he wud hv come back to take the file...so how come ishwari is to know that their relationship status has chnged and so sona can so easily move into his private space...in this way dev is only making things worse...ishwari's growing suspicions regarding sona will not do any gud wen their relationship will be exposed to her...

and sona...at least someone shud be practical...she cud say that she cudnt enter his room in his absence just like that...she was already once caught by ishwari in dev's room during neha's wedding and she has seen ishwari's reaction...dev and sona need to know that being in love although gvs them the right to trust each other they cant expect the same from a third person since they hv so far kept their relationship a secret...
and ishwari...she saying that noone except her can touch his personal things sounded so eerie to me...there is a limit to be possessive and saying out loud that only me (and not even his sisters) hv the right to his personal space...ishwari's character is taking her true shape now and it remains to be seen how dev and sona handle this...
they may be wrong in not saying the truth to her but at the same time they especially dev has a very innocent heart but unfortunately he is now in a precarious position going with ishwari's strong (and unjust) obsession with her son...

in the final scene i did not expect sona to tell dev about wat hapend with her and ishwari but at least she cud hv told dev not to make her do such things that will make ishwari suspicious at least not till the day he decides to confess about his love to his mom...but nywys i loved their scene as usual...although dev has earlier almost blamed the timing of his love life for not spending enuf time with neha he cudnt still let sona blame herself for his business loss...he does not want to believe that sona influenced him to fall in love as he said that falling his love was just not a decision but he is lucky to fall in love with her...yes...these two r lucky to hv each other...
for dev love hapned not for the reason that sona is someone special but for dev love hapnd because sona makes him feel special...

p.s. i guess i missed something...sona saying she wants to tell him everything about herself and dev asking why and sona saying because i am urs...that was actually so beautiful...they make it sound so natural and i loved that smile of dev...the way dev has started sharing every little emotion with her it is natural that sona will reciprocate in the same way...i always feel love shud be widout barriers and dev actually has taken this concept a notch higher...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice analysis ...I am liking the fact that CVs are showing the reason for Ishwari''s possessiveness instead of just turning her into a grey character all of a sudden ...

Coming to the file situation, everyone was right in their own way ...It was related to his work and from what we could see it was a important file and it was kind of urgent hence Sona or Dev did not think much of getting caught by family members ...Ishwari''s reaction was normal too ..I don't think Dev asked Sona to get the file because she was his gf ...he did not want to trouble his mom and unknowingly he has started trusting and accepting Sona as a family member ...

In such situations it's normal to seek help from people they trust ...I belive even if they were not in a relationship Dev would have asked Sona to get the file as he trust her completely and for him she was always a honest employee
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Originally posted by: yyy

Nice analysis ...I am liking the fact that CVs are showing the reason for Ishwari''s possessiveness instead of just turning her into a grey character all of a sudden ...


Coming to the file situation, everyone was right in their own way ...It was related to his work and from what we could see it was a important file and it was kind of urgent hence Sona or Dev did not think much of getting caught by family members ...Ishwari''s reaction was normal too ..I don't think Dev asked Sona to get the file because she was his gf ...he did not want to trouble his mom and unknowingly he has started trusting and accepting Sona as a family member ...

In such situations it's normal to seek help from people they trust ...I belive even if they were not in a relationship Dev would have asked Sona to get the file as he trust her completely and for him she was always a honest employee


i thot no dev wudnt hv asked sona if she were still only an employee because of the comment that ishwari made that only she has access to dev's personal things...i am sure dev wud hv called nikki if not ishwari since nikki's college is off now...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beaitiful analysis,..
Agreed if Sona was nit his GF,Dev wudnt have allowed her to hus personal space...
Till now i was only thinking that Ishwari was way too rude...
Now i feel thiugh her possessiveness is unbearable at times,but her rudesness ks coming from the fact that she's not aware of her son's feelings...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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what is stopping Ishawri from asking Dev on his closeness to Shona? Maybe she is still not sure. She could however prod him and ask if he likes anybody and is he hiding something? Parents ask their kids in subtle ways as well.
I think the reason she is not confronting is if he acknowledges it, she will have no answer and will have to accept it, which she does not want to do.It is like she does not want to discuss the topic of Dev with another girl and by ignoring it will go away.

She is an 'Odd' mum, almost behaving like a jealous GF,very 'unlike' a mum. I read somewhere, it is as if she has replaced the 'Man' in her lifer with Dev. Most single mums do that I guess but have to let go. They have a fear of getting abandoned which is making to them hold on to them
Ishawri was against Dev getting married at all so this is not personal to Shona. In Natasha's case, she was helpless but I am surprised how quickly she accustomed herself to it, but I think the explanation is that she knew Dev was not very interested. However, with Sona, she can sense and see the change in Dev.

It today's precap, teh converstaions seems like an accusation. She did not try to find out what was in Dev's heart or his reasons for doing so ( an assumption as we have yet to see the full scene)

Cannot understand Dev or Ishawri's behavior in this case. Dev's hiding and Ishawri's not asking. I think Dev deep in his heart knows his mum will not like it.
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Originally posted by: rnegi

what is stopping Ishawri from asking Dev on his closeness to Shona? Maybe she is still not sure. She could however prod him and ask if he likes anybody and is he hiding something? Parents ask their kids in subtle ways as well.

I think the reason she is not confronting is if he acknowledges it, she will have no answer and will have to accept it, which she does not want to do.It is like she does not want to discuss the topic of Dev with another girl and by ignoring it will go away.

She is an 'Odd' mum, almost behaving like a jealous GF,very 'unlike' a mum. I read somewhere, it is as if she has replaced the 'Man' in her lifer with Dev. Most single mums do that I guess but have to let go. They have a fear of getting abandoned which is making to them hold on to them
Ishawri was against Dev getting married at all so this is not personal to Shona. In Natasha's case, she was helpless but I am surprised how quickly she accustomed herself to it, but I think the explanation is that she knew Dev was not very interested. However, with Sona, she can sense and see the change in Dev.

It today's precap, teh converstaions seems like an accusation. She did not try to find out what was in Dev's heart or his reasons for doing so ( an assumption as we have yet to see the full scene)

Cannot understand Dev or Ishawri's behavior in this case. Dev's hiding and Ishawri's not asking. I think Dev deep in his heart knows his mum will not like it.


u hv made very right explanation...every mom (at least most moms) do ask their grown up sons or daughters if they r interested in anyone of opposite sex...i means mothers do ask since they r more friends than fathers...

but ishwari will never do so especially now wen she is already suspicious because she fears dev will say yes...and i think at heart she knows it and she will never make it easy for dev to confess to her...rather she will make it more difficult...

i hate to presume but going by the precap ishwari will behave in such manner that even if dev thinks of confessing he will be scared to do so...like i already said ishwari will not make things easy for him...

her selfish side will come to the fore now and i guess dev himself has to realize this problem of his mom...sona will never say anything because if she does that will be the end of devakshi relationship since dev will never hear one word against his mom...so i repeat he has to realize it himself...

and yes i totally agree with u that in natasha's case she reluctantly but quickly accepted it since she knew dev is not in love with her...
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Awesome Analysis

I really thought that Ishwari would have been happy that at least there is someone that can help Dev when he needs it her behaviour towards Sona really didn't suit her normally Ishwari is a reasonable person and fair too so this sudden change is a bit strange for me
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Awesome Analysis

I really thought that Ishwari would have been happy that at least there is someone that can help Dev when he needs it her behaviour towards Sona really didn't suit her normally Ishwari is a reasonable person and fair too so this sudden change is a bit strange for me


not strange since this is wat the story is about...ishwari is possessive about her son and she wont let anyone come in between her and dev just like she did not even let her daughters come in between them...
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u hv made very right explanation...every mom (at least most moms) do ask their grown up sons or daughters if they r interested in anyone of opposite sex...i means mothers do ask since they r more friends than fathers...

but ishwari will never do so especially now wen she is already suspicious because she fears dev will say yes...and i think at heart she knows it and she will never make it easy for dev to confess to her...rather she will make it more difficult...

i hate to presume but going by the precap ishwari will behave in such manner that even if dev thinks of confessing he will be scared to do so...like i already said ishwari will not make things easy for him...

her selfish side will come to the fore now and i guess dev himself has to realize this problem of his mom...sona will never say anything because if she does that will be the end of devakshi relationship since dev will never hear one word against his mom...so i repeat he has to realize it himself...

and yes i totally agree with u that in natasha's case she reluctantly but quickly accepted it since she knew dev is not in love with her...


Word to everything what you both said above. Eshwari is such a complex & most flawed character. Please tell me atleast one instance where she asked dev about what he want in his life or his personal needs. The only instance what i remember was after his confession she told him to THINK about himself along with taking care of family and thats where he told her " What else i need when you are with me in all my decisions". I felt this may be his reason for taking his sweet time & not confessing about his love for sona to his mom because he thinks my mom wont say no to me. When Eshwari says only his happiness matters for her, she needs to accept first that she can't be the reason/part of his happiness always and he too has his own life to live & he is not any slave(i really dont want to use this word but). Here both need to come out from their bubbles and esp dev need to see her human side.

She actually made him equal to her and a father figure to the entire family. She need to understand that in life she is at the ending stage of her journey and he has just started his journey. As you said above, she is going to make it difficult for dev even if he want to confess about sona because she is not ready to accept any other woman in his life and here problem is not about whether he will tell her first or last(as many people are stressing). Let us see how & when she is going to realize that his happiness is much more important than her pride, position & priority in his life.
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Originally posted by: yyy

Nice analysis ...I am liking the fact that CVs are showing the reason for Ishwari''s possessiveness instead of just turning her into a grey character all of a sudden ...


Coming to the file situation, everyone was right in their own way ...It was related to his work and from what we could see it was a important file and it was kind of urgent hence Sona or Dev did not think much of getting caught by family members ...Ishwari''s reaction was normal too ..I don't think Dev asked Sona to get the file because she was his gf ...he did not want to trouble his mom and unknowingly he has started trusting and accepting Sona as a family member ...

In such situations it's normal to seek help from people they trust ...I belive even if they were not in a relationship Dev would have asked Sona to get the file as he trust her completely and for him she was always a honest employee



well said. It is not necessary for one to be in a relationship to ask someone for help or support. Trust transcends all that.

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