Anyone else bored? - Page 16

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@Purva you must have missed my previous post Erica Needs to Work Harder.

You will see the same thing happened to me then. Honestly I wondered then Is this the way IF operate as I am relatively new to the forum.

I didn't urge any one to agree with my view. I just felt she needs to work harder on her dialogue delivery and a few more things. It is my opinion.I was blasted left and right for my post and finally I admitted I regret making the post. Regret in my view is to express myself in such a place and they took it as my apology and went to the extent of saying since you realised your fault and apologised.I wondered for what I should apologise? Every person has a right to like or dislike an actress or actor.

Then I understood this place is dominated by people who function as per their will and entertain views of others only if they match with their own.

Then I posted Dev Dikshit not spared and strictly said I don't want any positive or negative views on my post.Luckily I was spared. I felt after butchering the Charecter of Sonakshi now the CVs are bent upon spoiling Dev Dikshit's Charecter.

I really felt happy for this thread and appreciate TM for boldly countering every onslaught in her own way.

I agree with all the points you put forward.It is just too much to thank the TM for increasing the forum activity.

Finally all of us love the show. That is why we bother. I bother because Shaheer is there. I may not like the romance part and the change in Dev's charecterisation but I still wish the show to do well.Shaheer should reign. No one has a right to ask others to stop watching .I may skip the romance part but I will catch up with the progress of the show. My wish.

this is how the forum operates, if your opinion is different from the majority you get blasted for it. this place has very poor attitude towards handling diverse opinions. TM mentioned bored and people were giving unnecessary suggestions to not watch the show.
i will still urge to continue putting forth your views, as maybe 100 members do not have the maturity to accept your POV and decide to bash you for it, but you will find at least one member whose opinion resonates with yours and there will be those who have maturity to understand and respect your opinion without mocking or attacking you personally for it.

Hey Shruti!

Originally posted by: jaanetu

this is how the forum operates, if your opinion is different from the majority you get blasted for it. this place has very poor attitude towards handling diverse opinions. TM mentioned bored and people were giving unnecessary suggestions to not watch the show.
i will still urge to continue putting forth your views, as maybe 100 members do not have the maturity to accept your POV and decide to bash you for it, but you will find at least one member whose opinion resonates with yours and there will be those who have maturity to understand and respect your opinion without mocking or attacking you personally for it.

Originally posted by: GredandForge

Hey Shruti!

I am glad to see like minded people here. I thought only Ranji agreed with me.😆

Yeah.. I'm glad people started coming out of hybernation to put forth their POV 😆
To me, this is what makes stalking the forum fun 😆
I'm quite enjoying the discussions on this thread.

Thank you Purva,Thank you Jaane Tu.for clarification about how IF works.

Originally posted by: TheRowdiest

😆 But what I have observed it's TM who is blasting ppl for not agreeing with her 😉

Just bcz 99% members disagreed with TM and gave their opinion just the way TM gave her own , it does not mean they blasted her ... But it's TM who got desfensive , with her sarcasm replies she got personal and attacked members , may be she thought she can force her opinion on others and she is winning an argument 😆 , called her frnds Frm other forums to support her opinion , made fun of forum Activity posts in short made fun of members of this forum ...that's what is blasting😳

ummm my post was on any member being unable to express a different opinion on a TV show forum without being hounded for it by the fans.

your post is on TM.

to give an example on this same topic:

on page 1 TM acknowledge many can relate/dream for this kind of romance but she doesn't. TM is respectable in her original post.

on that same page this was the suggestion

Originally posted by: --Ruchi--

The show is going on according to its flavor which is subtle and smooth...😳I think Ek shows would be a btr watch for daily twist and turns😉

then more and more defensive about dev-sonakshi romance on show and suggesting to TM to watch naagin shows.

this forum is quite reactive, and people react based on the posts they get. when someone starts off respectfully why do people start with their suggestions and snide remarks?

finally u saying TM called her friends when members agree with her opinion, then by same logic anyone disagreeing with TM are her enemies or what? does everything have to have a personal relation to Tm?

i have seen enough tv show forums to know it is impossible to post a different opinion and create a topic without being hounded for it by the fans. this topic isn't as bad as forums used to be in the past.

btw i just saw ur responses in another topic and post you have liked mocking another member's taste who simply posted their opinion. i am not sure you get what i am saying so let us agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Thank you Purva,Thank you Jaane Tu.for clarification about how IF works.

And the post is still there to check.

I never called any other members to support me. I don't need to.

Yes I am sarcastic as my patience evaporated when I said I regret it was taken as an apology.

I said it is my fault to criticise such a great actress.

Ofcourse ninety nine percent disagreed. So what? It is not a poll.

no, i totally get it u r not expecting support but neither do u expect anyone to mock your taste, condescending responses nor snide remarks which u get in return, which makes one lose their patience and be sarcastic.

just saw ur topics. i am not going to reply to it, as you will be mocked more, but ur topic was constructive criticism. i am sure if you send link to erica on twitter she will handle it better and work on her acting more than some of the personal responses you got.

as an actress there is always room for improvement. u suggested her to work harder 👏 i am sure erica is capable of understanding, and has maturity to grasp that.

Originally posted by: mena_k

A week or two old relation can't be expected to give 50 or 60 yr old couple feel. Give some time n you would definitely see the mature relationship of Devakshi you want to see onscreen. Its too early to expect them to behave like that.

I am not asking for them to act like *dada and dadi* ---lol -- *😆*
But neither do they have to act like teens gushing for their infatuations --- !!!
As long they tone down the cheesy dialogues and body language, I am good to go --- *😛*

Originally posted by: Malvika07

Woah! This post has gained so much popularity!! Personally I'm not at all bored with the current track.. Shaheer and Erica have such a crackling chemistry that even the cheesiest lines don't seem OTT.. the fans were waiting so long for the confession and the romance to begin that honestly it's justified for them to show more romantic scenes.. the whole track of sona in la la land and then depression was so long that the honeymoon phase is now necessary.. in fact, I'm impressed with the pace with which they are moving towards the main track.. they did not stretch the shaadi functions and fall in the TRP trap as it is a proven formula to increase TRPs - just stretch the shaadi track as long as possible.. however, they are moving very swiftly..

What we as viewers need to understand is, the makers are trying to be as close to reality as possible.. Every relationship goes through the honeymoon phase where all you want to do is praise your significant other and be with them at all times.. we need to remember this is the first relationship ever for both Dev and Sonakshi.. they have never felt this kind of happiness before.. I think they are entitled to enjoy this phase

As we all saw in yesterday's episode Ishwari is already suspicious and now the sad times are approaching fast so let's just enjoy the remaining happy times as much as possible

Just my POV, no offence to anyone.

I agree about the *honeymoon phase* --- But the phase doesn't necessarily have to be wrapped in a bulk load of cheese --- I don't find it *real* personally ----- But I like I said many may and it's fine ---- For me personally, I find it boring with my eyeballs hitting the back of my head --- happens a lot more these days --- lol---
No offence taken at all ----- Just having a discussion ---- Opinions, experience and personalities aren't bound to match all anyways --- *😃*