" Find a place where there's joy and it will eat away all your pain" - Anonymous
Joy.It is the expression of one of the purest emotions a human being can feel. It is the contented smile you see on a father's face when he holds his child for the first time , it is the expression of victory in a child when he wins the first place in inter school athletic meet, it is the feeling of euphoria when lovers meet and confess, it is the feeling that arises within a mother when she hears the word ' ma' for the first time.
According to me , joy cannot be defined in words. It is neither physical nor abstract.There is no definite way of expressing joy and there is no well defined reasonf for joy - For it can be born from the smallest of things yet die for the major ones.
Why is it that we cry during the death of a loved one ? Why is that a mother's eyes well up with tears she see hers child hurt
Only then do I realise,
" We Weep only for joy ,for those are the sweetest tears"
We cry with joy to god to have taken our beloved's soul to a safer, more peaceful pace devoid of sufferings. A mother cries with joy that the almighty has given a chance not for her child to fall but a chance for him to learn and get up. Joy is the truest of emotions.
You know my mother often recounts these tiny incidents from my childhood which I try no matter how hard never seem to recall. So I ask her to repeat it often .
She tells me when I was small, my dad's posting was ina place different to that of our actual house. So usually he would come to visit us on out weekends; and when he did I would be usually lying on a cot facing the television and way from the entry door whereas my mother would be besid me watching TV.
Apparently as soon as I hear the sound of the auto-rickshaw signalling the arrival of my father; i woulf beging hoppig around, twisitng and turn about my cot until i finally seated myself in a postiton facing the door and would laugh with glee whem my father picked me up in his arms. i know know that is joy. Joy in realising that someone is coming who cares for you. Joy in being assured so.Joy to know that he is reached safely.Joy to know that he goes way from me and comes back only for me.
And this joy is what Sonakshi has gifted to Dev. An eternity of unconditional joy.
This includes everything - the joy to be cared for , to care, to worry , to be protective, to be jealous and most importantly love.(As mentioned in my previous post).Thus I am going to say in my viewpoint, this is why he fell in love with Sona - because she encased him with joy to experience emotions, unknown to him ; and in the journey fell in love with the being who shone like a star , guiding his path. For me, Dev's innocence and purity is what attracts me the most - which is why when he becomes mischievous , it is swoon worthy ... let's agree if this character was a typical rich, mischievous playboy we wouldn't enjoy it as much as we do now đ
They say that moment without joy is an eternity of sadness. Joy doesnt mean no suffering. It means the presence of god in the form of a partner, n this case, being Sonakshi, in every pain, to suffer it along with you.One has to strive to feel joyousness in anything he does or will do, otherwise what matter to him when he reaches the endpoint. You cannot find joy in other things, its ... its within us ; And that is what Sonakshi is slowly teaching . No one can find the happiness meant for you. Dev himself needs to assert , if he desires his happiness..
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