DOTW - Marriage or Career ??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sangeeta

I agree with sonynyu. It should be career at this point of time. Kittu has just started her career at NNN and she can grow fater in her profession if she does not have the additional responsibilities of a marriage. If Rohan cannot understand her problems right now, he would be worse after marriage. But I would say that she should give up being extra idealistic. After Kiitu gets married, she will definitely have to balance her career and marriage.I have seen that no matter how much we talk about sharing the responsibilities of the household equally, it is the wife who has to sacrifice her career to some extent and shoulder much more responsibilities than the husband. So I would say that Kittu should concentrate on her career right now. Marriage can wait.

Well, i dunno much bout this show...just heard a verbal recount of wats happnd from a frend...so, not in much position to say wat i think....but from wat i noe...i think i agree with Sangeeta and Sonya....

true, both of them realli rnt ready for marriage, they dun seem that matured....so, marriage can wait. And it's true, no matter wat every1 says...after marriage it's the wife hu has to make more of a sacrifice...

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Originally posted by: Huma2

i think kittus mother is also partially to blame in all this as all she can think about is getting kittu married...she is more on that then her career, and i gues if kittu want to stay in her house shes gonna be listing to her mtoehr as well then...however as kittus dad thinks perhaps rohan and his family are not well suited for her...

yeh, quite true...lol, nargis, u always seem to come up with such wise words...first with WRWMK and now KSJH...😆

If you have to choose b/w love n career it should always be love considering its true and i always believed rohan wasn't all that true it seems like he doesn't know what he wants the moment his ears get filled that's what he believes he can't think for himself so to me its not really true love so i think she should choose her career as of now in this case....and as for kittu's mom she has problems....but what happened to her? i missed the episode after they were knocking on her door n they enter and it ended i don't know after that....

oh n its part kittu's fault to that their love isn't working out she's not giving him the time of day obviously showing her career is more important than rohan

No I think that Kittu is right.She should be independent and for that career is most important.Rohan knows Kittu very well and also knows that what is her aim in life.If he loves her then he must support her in her every right decision and have to accept her as she is without trying to change her.But his ego and social status doesn't let him to do that.Moreover he is very much influenced by his MOM.He must try to get out of that and must try to think independently.

well i think tht both career and marriage r important but for kittu career is wat is important for her and i agree wit diya tht kittu is right i luv this show cuz i can easily relate 2 it i mean being independent is really important and its important tht females hve a career 2 fall back on if and i stress onli if unfortunately their marriage falls apart (e.g. like kajal kittus babs sis) bt i also agree tht kittu n rohan were taking things way 2 fast with shaadi n all bt its kittus mum who strongly played a part on the fast moving events of their relationship cuz b4 marriage both kittu n rohan needed 2 grow up and not be influenced by their mothers (especially rohans) b4 thinking abt marriage and their futures

i guess im 2 young 2 cum up on tis topic lollllz... im only 13
but ten i feel tat a man, if he asks sum1 2 choose bet himself nd sumthing else wich is equally imp to her, he might l8er ask her 2 choose bet. her mother nd him, her father nd hime etc etc...is it really safe 2 get in2 tat kinda relationship....
duno.
like i sed i am only 13 so cant really comment

i think dat a career is more imp 2 a certain level but u shudnt get tied up in all this..relations are also imp cuz wid out dem wat r u gonna do wid all dat money

Well today both r equally important
Today u have to balance both marriage as well as career

in a way i think rohan doesn't understand her and this is kind of the biggest problem and all the time he always says to her to choose between her job or him. this thing makes me mad 😡 because she always wanted to be something in life and as far as marriage is concern i think kittu can find someone better than him because he always thinks of him and his mother and i am not saying thats wrong but he should also understand kittu too because she is going to be his life patner and she only does her job and its not wrong to stand by your principles.