DOTW - Marriage or Career ??? - Page 3

Well.. i think kittu is a little stubborn i mean if rohan can convince his mom for the marriage and have all the sacrifices cant kittu do something for rohan i mean rohan is so adorable i would have definitely left the job cuz not her whole is messed up just cuz of that stupid reporting job u cud always find a better job but not a better ROHAN!

Originally posted by: mitts

Well today both r equally important
Today u have to balance both marriage as well as career

i think definetly carrer!!! on the other hand rohan need to understand kittu.. and her dreams ..i think now a days everyone have equal oppourtinity to work..and make their dreams come true... and if he loves her he'll definetly understand her sooner or later:)

yeah but now with amit, he is making her change jobs anyway...and now kittu is oliging if she had been more clever befoer im sure rohan wouldnt have forced her...but somtimes she becomes too tied up in emotions and too vocal!

I think the career for the woman is more important then getting married, even if you do find the right guy. I really don't believe there is such a thing as the right guy or the wrong guy. You receive what you are destined to obtain. Some people get the wrong mates in life but it was just fate and some people are fortunate to get such wonderul men (or women for the guys out there reading this) as soulmates.

However, here are my reasons why I believe the career should be on top before marriage.

1. Having a career is important in our society today and is almost a must for a household that is huge. Sometimes one person cannot provide entirely for the household, so for a woman to have a career before marriage is a good thing because she can easily get good jobs with the knowledge she has and make money that she can use to help support the family with alongside of her husband.
2. Men are definitely not reliable. Neither are some women. It's better to have a career because if one spouse is the breadwinner, it is likely that he or she will not want to give the other spouse money for his or her extravagances. In this case, the extravagances would be to take the children out somewhere or to go out with his or her friends.....having your own career means making your own money and being able to do your own thing.
3. Sometimes in life, we go through hard times, where one person, who may the sole breadwinner in the family loses a job and cannot provide at all for the family. Having a career, the wife can be able to provide for the family so they won't have to suffer any hardships.
4. If one spouse dies, the other one already has a job and a career in which she can support herself or her family and is standing on her own two feet. She won't need anyone's support as she makes her money to take care of the children and whatever else may needed to be taken care of if her husband dies. This also goes for men if their wives die, however men usually have careers anyway.
5. Having a career creates a sense of independance and to stop from being dependable on other people. It gives the stamina for women who have careers to stand up on their own feet, and guide themselves to a better future.

Marriage can happen at anytime and it is up to our destinies to allow that to happen. If Rohan and Kittuu where meant to be together perhaps Rohan would've understood where Kittu was coming from and wouldn't have been a mama's boy. This is my stand.....career should always always come first before marriage. If marriage happens to come early because you were meant for it, then congratulations but keep making the career happen because eventually, you're going to need it.

Well said Huma and Reetsk.I'am 100% agree with yours opinion.They both need 2 work it out.

jis ko jo achha lage.
shadi karna chahte ho..shadi karo..
career banana hai - banao..

ur wish.

I always wanted 2 do some thing after my masters in Organic chemistry. But I was enguaged from 3 yrs, so our parents did our marriage. Now I have a son. My husband permits me 2 do anything anywork I want 2 do, but I think my husband and my son need me. As we all are Ami trivedi's fan, did u read her article with her mother? She says her mother is backbone of her famiy. Because she is a housewife,she cares 4 everything,that I want 2 do and my husband also says that I m the backbone of his family.