Ria ka Adda: Excellent Episode! - Page 15

Originally posted by: sonia_s11

Though I didn't like the eppy so much i loved reading Ria's analysis... it definitely gives me a new perspective and around weekend I'll go back and watch the whole eppy again for sure...

haha , yes she does write very well 👏 actually yestarday's epi was too good actually i watched the retelecast at 10.30 night too

I wanted to see Arjun's state after he humiliated and hurt Arohi and it was shown...
yeah , i too need answer for his behaviour 😆

The scene did show Arjun's confusion, hurt and pain... Coz once he says that he has hurt her and made her cry so much that her tears didn't stop at all... and the very second shot he says that though he knows thats it won't hurt her as much!!!

and he too was crying , he just could not control , hmm heart does its own way 😳

I was right yesterday when I said he wanted her to react... to speak... he was hurting her and she was numb and silent... and it was her silence that was killing him... If she would have accused him, shouted at him, slapped him, demanded an explaination he would have won the battle... but she didn't do either... she walked away simply with dignity that made him loose... Hurt and pain written all over her face she didn't once question him... that made his wounds burn with even more...

hmm arjun does know that something is wrong but when will he realize

Draculla Daddy... should learn one thing... No relationship can be built on the heap of lies... What a looser! He expects his son to be dependent on him for the rest of his life... He's definitely not going to have the last laugh!!! What a liar... sabke saamne safed jhooth "maine sirf do baar jhooth bola hai" The foundation of his and Arjun's relation is based on lies and thus that makes it hollow... it just needs one blow and everything would start tumbling down... you have it coming your way Draculla! If at all he really loved his son he would have seen today the extent of damage done... it was all in Arjun's eyes! He still tries to manipulate him further and he claims to love him! All his life he has been crying in front of Arjun... hiding his flaws... looking for condolence from Arjun.... What has he been calling for Arjun's support or pity?? I hate such self-pitied people.. they neither stay happy nor allow anyone around them to be happy.... When he needed Arjun... Arjun fought for him... He stood up for him and today when Arjun needs true guidance and his support all he does his cry at his own fate and manipulate Arjun too.... Is this what a father is suppose to do?? His relationship broke coz of his some unpronounced lie... It was his doings... when parents make some mistake they become extra careful that their kids don't repeat it but yahan toh kahani hi ulti hai... I despise such people with all my being!

no comments on DK but will he be the one who will correct arjun's mistake cause he cannot see hurt arjun 😒 I hope he does redeeming his mistakes

Arohi... I have nothing left to say about her... She is alone... all by herself no one to share her pain and grief and I doubt if she'll ever share it with someone... Its a sign of still holding on to it... Still holding on to shattered dreams and lost hopes... A girl who taught a guy to be happy took away all her happiness away when she thought everything would be alright... The worst part is she knows exactly where the things are falling apart... she knows its neither her nor Arjun's fault... she knows the intensity of Arjun's love and also how much she loves him too... But she can't do a thing about it... she can't mend it... the harder she tries the deeper the rift would become... this is helplessness!

yeah she is just shuttered😭. i love the synonym to lift and arjun's shocked expression 👏

Where is BM now?? she know Arohi would need her and yet again she's gayab... urghhhh when will this Mother India stop using Mr. India gadget?

yeah even i thought same thing, i really hate BT for these missing links

Where is HP?? Knowing well that Poorvi is to go into the household where she wuld not be respected he didn't object... Arohi has brokendown and he has no knowledge what so ever is happening in his daughter's life... He rather be dead now... Horrible Pita!

i really hate BT for these missing links
Poorvi wat a rangbadlu ehsaan faramosh sister you are... if only she would have discussed things with Salil there could have been a hope but no decided to pack her bags and move to honeymooning!

no dear as somebody said , good that salil and poorvi are notthere!

Paddy/Maddy... what about them do they ever do anything by their own? Paddy good atleast you are thinking of your daughter's future unlike your patidev who is just another sound borad of DD!

haha what a comparison to mohan 😆 but goodone 👏
yeah paddy is the one who really has brain unless all otheres 😆

Sorry guys i am frustrated at all the the people around Arjun and Arohi....

hehe no issues dear IF is always my forum for venting out my happieness or frustrations (mostly this thought) of serials

Sonia

Originally posted by: morningdew

Hey Ria..

Yet again, another amazing episode, followed by another deeply profound write up by you.

It was just awesome...not only redeemed Arjun but also the creatives! and Thankyou😊

Arjun, comes back into actual Arjun mode, the interaction with Arohi was excellent, to say the least.. she made a very visible dent with her silence.. only her eyes spoke for her, which for the most part, she kept averted.

Arjun, could not leave her alone still.. he kept throwing daggers her way, all of which boomeranged on him.

And finally, the scene I wanted to see.. him burning in his own fires. Which he did and how.. initially it was a balm to me, but then his gullibility got to me again.

loved the way you said it all...and I agree to it all!

That I can never hate this man, whatever he does, is a fact now. I just love him. More and more with each passing day.

ooo that is soo true....he keeps getting better day by day not only in terms of his acting but as we see through the different layers of his character...as I said its a beautifully penned character...

His dad was amazing too. I saw the stirrings of guilt on his face so many times yday. He has led his son to the path of destruction, and he knows it. Its not easy to push your only child into a hellfire and see him burn there.

Satyajeet portrayed those emotions so well....I loved his dialogue where he says somethings like "love, romance, emotions".....what beautiful variation of the pitch of his voice and the command he has on each dialogue that he speaks....For DK....As I wrote somewhere that his problem is that although he loves his son..but fails to understand him....He is apparently trying to save Arjun from falling in the same pit where he had fallen somem years ago....but he does not realize that depriving Arjun of his love will leave him wounded anyways!

@Ria: Wow, it touched me deep inside Superb analysis.. so we are at same wavelength emotionally today... wat i like most about ur analysis is simplicity.. u explain all their emotions, their feelings, their actions in such a simple words n yet u cover them all beautifully.. especially when it comes to Arjun.. i know u r always biased towards Arjun n tend to overlook his flaws!! i know its hard 2 find faults with such n ideal character..but u know wat i like Arjun from ur perspective more than what actually he is..

Ok so coming back 2 u analysis, i was engrossed completely reading it first time and had to read it twice b4 replying..

In his opinion Arohi was acting all the way...and if one is in the acting mode you overact in situations like this where you are humiliated...just to make a bigger fuss out of it...she could have screamed at him, slapped him, run away, cried, sobbed....questioned holding on to his collar...called him names...Did she do anything like that...No...Why? Cuz her emotions had died...so there was no more room for her to say anything..and it was this SILENCE that haunted Arjun...that gave him the same odd feeling yet once again of something being very wrong!

--Well well, he is slowly realizing that something is wrong.. oh i wud luv this track.. Arohi's continued silence prompts him to realize that something is wrong somewhere.. that his heart is right.. n seeing his pitiful plight DK finally admits his mistake n tells him the truth... ah wat n interesting plot isnt it..

I asked this question yesterday as to whether he pushed her to the limits or he just could not stop her from saying all that...I get the answer today...He did not push her to limits yesterday...infact he did not expect her to confess her love at that point in time AND in this way (yet again there is a difference in confessing when you are acting)...

--yesterday he didnt push her but he definitely encouraged her wrong assumption that he believes her.. his constant reassurance that he believes her n will fight with his Dad 4 her prompted her confession..n obviously he did not expect her confession n i m definitely not mad at him at what he did bcoz he had 2 do it..it takes story forward..but i m STILL mad at the way he tried 2 kiss Aro..that definitely is a big no-no from Arjun's part 4 me..

BUT today he pushed her...he said everything that will make her break the silence...the silence which was deafening for him...But what she does in response only deepens his wounds...her "aur kuch sir" was enough of a scream so loud that it was enough to tore him apart...her tears were as real as the fact that he was alive at that point in time...

--Yeah..ruthless words.. pricking taunts.. ah.. damage done to perfection!!

Arjun with Dad:

--as i said in my analysis i did find it that effective.. now that i have read ur analysis i will now definitely find it interesting.. but Satyajit is definitely good actor.. i cud only c DK on screen n not satyajit n he really make me hate DK 4 wat he is doing Creatives better have a gud explanation 4 his acts..

Arjun is in shock and denial (Thanks Anjana for making us understand and analyze this)..."I am perfectly fine Dad"...I just could not hold back my emotions when he says "main nai kia tora hai Dad"...yet again symbolic but so apparent...his internal guilt reflected so beautifully in these 4-5 words...He is guilty and the natural reaction is that one becomes defensive...and in doing so cannot listen to anything negative about him...his defense reflex was fully active during this initial part of the their talk....So for me it was Denial and Defense that he was going through....

--"main kya toda hai dad" yeah that dialogue touched me most.. just one dialogue expresses all his luv, pain, n guilt..

But than he knows himself deep down that he has done it all wrong...he has broken that single thread that held the relationship with Arohi...The colors of the elevator would never be the same again! he knows that....and the eyes that were rock solid in front of the redness in Arohi's eyes a few minutes ago...were now filled with a pain more than hers....cuz they not only reflected Arohi's pain but also his own! Where Arohi will only have to cry on her fate.....her humiliation...Arjun has to cry for the pain he gave and the pain he feels! he deserves that....but than is it his fault?

--Yeah though he has that doubled his grief n no one is to blame 4 it.. yet i m all with Aro.. Arjun has 2 bear his guilt where as Aro has 2 bear his mistrust on her luv.. inspite of knowing that he is not wrong n he is not 2 blame she has 2 bear all the his hatredness n pain that he inflicts on her.. Arjun can at least hate her.. do those ugly things n bring out his frustration..Aro cannot even do that.. she can never hate him.. it is not her Arjun who is doing all this..n yet she cannot change him.. she cannot bring him back in to her life.. there is helplessness, there is frustration n yet she cant vent it out on him like he does..is there any greater pain than wat she feels..

and the irony of the situation is as I always say both of them know the depth of their feelings but fail to realise the depth of feelings the other has for them! The "Haalaath".....

--well said.. well will it be that "ek pal" when they finally realize this?

He does not hate her......He hates himself! and that is because they are not any more two different entities at the emotional level...

--well said..

Originally posted by: ria_h85

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There is one more thing that I always wanted to point out! On the Home Page of IF .... you can see the list of popular TV celebs...Karan in a very short span of time has reached the 5th spot....Kritika is also not too far behind....catching up at about the 10-15th spot....It depends on the number of ratings these celebs get...If you click on the celeb and rate him/her you can participate in promoting him/her .....Since I love their acts....I think they deserve to be promoted and thus just shared this here so that those of you who have never rated them should go and do so! Multiple ratings also dont hurt anybodyare allowed😳

Ok so that is it for me...I am logging off....Had a very nice day today with a good episode and loads of fun at the Adda...courtesy Karishma's photoshop and Anu's Background score observation! Not to forget Anjana's lists!