In defence of Prem... - Page 2

Originally posted by: farahs_6

Bee uptil now whatever Prem did was totally justified. Even his believing the doctor is justified. I just dont understand that how can he leave her NOW? He knows that heer knows him, even his supposed death, so now how can he leave her? Would she be able to live without Prem when she thinks his life is short? On top of that she has to make every one bleive it was Gaurav Sharma.Wont every one question her that how cum u lived with Gaurav Sharma and why didnt u tell us before? How can he leave her and go to GS mom?

Originally posted by: iqbalrox14

I know a lot of people are angry at Prem for believing that doctor. But I don't blame him. I mean, I tend to believe what my doctor tells me, because I do not believe they can play with a person's life like that. I'm sorry, but these sort of conniving, fake doctors seem to exist only serials, where they blatantly LIE about a patients condition!

I DO agree that Prem was an idiot for not rechecking with another doctor about his condition. However, I think that was his biggest mistake. I do not doubt his intentions, even a bit. I mean, this is Prem we're talking about. Prem, who keeps all the pain to himself. Prem, who cannot see tears in his family's eyes. Prem, who would rather have his family hate him (even while he's dying!), than see them go through the pain of losing him again. I'm sorry, but I cannot find it in me to blame him. He probably died a thousand deaths each moment, just seeing everyone like that. The only difference is, we have not been shown his pain. If we had seen 5 months of his pain, rather than Heer's and he Juneja's, wouldn't we sympathise with him more? I mean, he cried for 2 minutes, and the whole forum was in tears... 😆

Some people are asking why he came back, if he did not want to see his family in pain. Well the answer is simple - Heer. Even though he loved his family, do you guys honestly think that he would let Heer just sacrifice herself like that. Then, of course, Heer practically forced him to come back, by deciding to marry RR in one day. I don't think he had any other choice. Even then, he tried his best to get her to hate him, so him dying would not be so painful for her.

You know what this track reminds me of? When Heer believed DJ about Lallu hating her father, to such an extent that she kept her identity hidden. I often wondered why she never questioned DJ, even though she could faced such cruelty from her. Why did she never question why the very DJ who was badmouthing Lallu and his family was getting Ash married to Prem? So, I honestly think the biggest flaw in Prem-Heer are probably that they're too trusting. They really are made for each other. 😆😆

But, think about it. If Heer had not believed DJ, we would have had Prem-Heer's passionate love, and we would never have seen the strength of Prem's character. If Prem had not believed this doctor, we would never have seen Prem-Heer's eternal love, and we would never have seen the strength of Heer's character. Although both Prem-Heer went through so much pain, this track has brought out the strength in characters like Heer and Preet. I do think they are stronger for what they have been through.

So, all these trials and tribulations have made Premeer what they are today. Would we honestly have been this obsessed by an ordinary, run-of-the-mill couple?!

Originally posted by: Farru...

Agreed

Originally posted by: prem-sam-mayu

Heer believe DJ was justified coz at that time DJ was the only family she had left...she was alone otherwise....
and no matter what PPL tend to believe their family more than anyone else and esp at that time Junejas were strangers to her...

On top of that,,, dont forget she waited 20 years for J fam to come and have her and prem marry...but they never said anything about it or called her fam. So she lost hope of Prem coming or wanting to marry her...

So her trust level was obviously inclining towards her chachi, her only fam who (in her POV) gave her place to live, food to eat...no matter how it was.
Atleast she wasnt living on streets with her sis...so she was indebted to trust chachi more!!!!

I dont think she was wrong in doing that...its diff thing that all this was creating was chachi and her dirty brain!

Originally posted by: Soaps1

For me Prem remains ThePrem and heer remains TheHeer and i don't care what anyone else thinks They are one thats all!!!

You put my thoughts into your words. This is exactly what i was thinking.

Originally posted by: iqbalrox14

I'm not blaming Heer, either. I think she was justified for believing DJ. I just thought that she might start questioning DJ after her obvious cruelty to the sisters. Nevertheless, I do think she was justified. I was just comparing Prem's trust to Heer's trust at that time. I think Prem is similarly not to be blamed for his trust, because he has just been through a bomb blast. I think he needed to believe that there is good in the world after everything he saw. I don't think his mind would have jumped to doubting the doctor, especially after she told him she's G's fiance. I mean, how many people (esp. doctors) would you expect to lie like that after the death of her fiance?

I totally agree with you!!!