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Posted: 16 years ago
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I know a lot of people are angry at Prem for believing that doctor. But I don't blame him. I mean, I tend to believe what my doctor tells me, because I do not believe they can play with a person's life like that. I'm sorry, but these sort of conniving, fake doctors seem to exist only serials, where they blatantly LIE about a patients condition!

I DO agree that Prem was an idiot for not rechecking with another doctor about his condition. However, I think that was his biggest mistake. I do not doubt his intentions, even a bit. I mean, this is Prem we're talking about. Prem, who keeps all the pain to himself. Prem, who cannot see tears in his family's eyes. Prem, who would rather have his family hate him (even while he's dying!), than see them go through the pain of losing him again. I'm sorry, but I cannot find it in me to blame him. He probably died a thousand deaths each moment, just seeing everyone like that. The only difference is, we have not been shown his pain. If we had seen 5 months of his pain, rather than Heer's and he Juneja's, wouldn't we sympathise with him more? I mean, he cried for 2 minutes, and the whole forum was in tears... 😆
Some people are asking why he came back, if he did not want to see his family in pain. Well the answer is simple - Heer. Even though he loved his family, do you guys honestly think that he would let Heer just sacrifice herself like that. Then, of course, Heer practically forced him to come back, by deciding to marry RR in one day. I don't think he had any other choice. Even then, he tried his best to get her to hate him, so him dying would not be so painful for her.
You know what this track reminds me of? When Heer believed DJ about Lallu hating her father, to such an extent that she kept her identity hidden. I often wondered why she never questioned DJ, even though she could faced such cruelty from her. Why did she never question why the very DJ who was badmouthing Lallu and his family was getting Ash married to Prem? So, I honestly think the biggest flaw in Prem-Heer are probably that they're too trusting. They really are made for each other. 😆😆
But, think about it. If Heer had not believed DJ, we would have had Prem-Heer's passionate love, and we would never have seen the strength of Prem's character. If Prem had not believed this doctor, we would never have seen Prem-Heer's eternal love, and we would never have seen the strength of Heer's character. Although both Prem-Heer went through so much pain, this track has brought out the strength in characters like Heer and Preet. I do think they are stronger for what they have been through.
So, all these trials and tribulations have made Premeer what they are today. Would we honestly have been this obsessed by an ordinary, run-of-the-mill couple?!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thankyou. Very nicely put. :) and I want to agree. but...
I too questioned Heer's IQ a lot during the track where she believed DJ's lie about Lalu uncle. After all Prem is her soulmate.😆 Still had expected different from him..the guy who is such a detective.. found out about Manmeet and the whole planning etc.. I felt Heer was a bit slow before but learned her lessons and is better at her detective-giri now and won't be so trustful of people now because of the things she has seen and witnessed. But Prem.. voh toh inteligent business man tha..shuru se. I expected him to be less trusting.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Bee uptil now whatever Prem did was totally justified. Even his believing the doctor is justified. I just dont understand that how can he leave her NOW? He knows that heer knows him, even his supposed death, so now how can he leave her? Would she be able to live without Prem when she thinks his life is short? On top of that she has to make every one bleive it was Gaurav Sharma.Wont every one question her that how cum u lived with Gaurav Sharma and why didnt u tell us before? How can he leave her and go to GS mom?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thanks for agreeing with me...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Heer believe DJ was justified coz at that time DJ was the only family she had left...she was alone otherwise....
and no matter what PPL tend to believe their family more than anyone else and esp at that time Junejas were strangers to her...

On top of that,,, dont forget she waited 20 years for J fam to come and have her and prem marry...but they never said anything about it or called her fam. So she lost hope of Prem coming or wanting to marry her...

So her trust level was obviously inclining towards her chachi, her only fam who (in her POV) gave her place to live, food to eat...no matter how it was.
Atleast she wasnt living on streets with her sis...so she was indebted to trust chachi more!!!!

I dont think she was wrong in doing that...its diff thing that all this was creating was chachi and her dirty brain!
Edited by prem-sam-mayu - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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For me Prem remains ThePrem and heer remains TheHeer and i don't care what anyone else thinks They are one thats all!!!
Edited by Soaps1 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JC-

Thankyou. Very nicely put. :) and I want to agree. but...
I too questioned Heer's IQ a lot during the track where she believed DJ's lie about Lalu uncle. After all Prem is her soulmate.😆 Still had expected different from him..the guy who is such a detective.. found out about Manmeet and the whole planning etc.. I felt Heer was a bit slow before but learned her lessons and is better at her detective-giri now and won't be so trustful of people now because of the things she has seen and witnessed. But Prem.. voh toh inteligent business man tha..shuru se. I expected him to be less trusting.

I too think he's too trusting, but I think that's a character trait of him. About Heer, I don't think she's changed that much. Her detective-giri is still faulty. I wanted to hit her on the head for thinking of RR as the first person to go to for help! Was she really expecting him to have a change of heart, and tell her the truth and nothing but the truth?
About Prem, I think we have to remember that he went through a bomb blast. He was probably confused, and shaken, and this just broke him. Then, after that trauma, his basic trusting nature was compounded by the fact that gaurav had died to save him. So, he probably couldn't believe that a woman who had just lost her fiance would lie like that. Btw, that doctor does not deserve to be called a human, let alone a doctor...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nadia are u upset with me ???? Yaar weare not bashing Prem... I mean he has suffered the most... I agree.. But just one question? Why is he leaving her NOW?
Farah
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Posted: 16 years ago
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totally agree Bee...i dont blame Prem at all!...never blamed him...

as Nadia said...to me..Prem will always remain THEPrem and Heer THEHeer...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: farahs_6

Nadia are u upset with me ???? Yaar weare not bashing Prem... I mean he has suffered the most... I agree.. But just one question? Why is he leaving her NOW?

Farah



abey nahi why would i be upset with you? 😆😆😆 you have every right to express your opinion and i respect that...i am only talking from my POV 😳

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