Originally posted by: raksha.l
Ermmmm...why are you apologizing for your personal opinions???
Anyways...you missed the point of my post..
READ it fully...I said, I hate Preet for the insensitivity he showed when he casually remarked ' bombblasts toh har jagah hote rehte hai'....
Bomb blasts are NOT some casual thing...and its very insensitive of someone to say that...
I hated the insensitivity the creativers exhibited through Preet's character by making him mouth such horrid dialogs...
And another thing, Heer is Preet's bhabhi....no devar drags his bhabhi the way he dragged Heer when she was on phone...That's not even NormaL!!!!
You are right, there is no sense in me apologizing for my personal opinion. I will stand by my point of view.
As for the insensitivity shown in Preet's character... that was true, that was completely unnecessary. But look at it this way, it was shown to see how some people are fun loving and funny and charasmatic but they are also not perfect. It is true that people don't understand half the hardships in the world until it has been done on them.
I think that is why they showed Preet say that dialogue, because after the attack he will realize that it is not just another bomb attack but rather something that totally changes a family's life...
And as for your last point, in my family, everyone is close knit and in our weddings, we do have devars dragging the bhabhi to the dance floor. It was not shown in a vulgar way or anything, it was rather just a friend dragging another friend to join in the happiness. Devar and bhabhi are supposed to be the closest friends in a family and so how is it wrong or abnormal for friends to force other friends to dance?
And anyway, if you see any movie, they usually don't let the "wife-to-be" talk to her "husband-to-be" before hand so it makes complete sense that they are trying to get Heer to enjoy her own wedding...
-Pari