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This post is inclusive of the information from the future spoilers,showing Neena's behavior.my sweet friend Ben asked me what I thought of Neena's behavior,why she changed and Saachi was like a daughter to her so why no sympathy for her ? Here is my answer:
A mother is a mother is a mother ! An epitome of unconditional love...a mother will go beyond and above for her child
There are mother live relations which have same qualities, but are very delicate..at first sign of priorities ,preferences and conflict,they can break,cause dilemma or heart break! ( I am generalizing this of course exceptions are always there )
A mother in law is always a mother in law she cannot be a mother...it's a myth...( again I am generalizing, exceptions are always there ) she has dual personality : her son's mother and mother like to her daughter in law.as long as the daughter in law is good for her son,family,she obeys,everything is good.she is a mother and indulges her daughter in law,but any conflict or matter of priorities ,she becomes mother in law !
That exactly happened between Neena and Saachi ...we all know Saachi's qualities...so Neena indulges her...but now the child bearing issue has started and she turned mother in law...DV's mom,thinking only about her son,his future,his loss and her family...suddenly Saachi has become ex family member, a stranger whose feelings are her least priority now...she even regrets getting them married...see how delicate that was ! In a second from mother she turned into mother in law ! Her support love and respect for Saachi took a back seat,got buried in her concern for her son.she even stepped up and told her to leave her son and the house ! I am not blaming her...of course it's human nature..I am just talking about a mother and mother like relations.of course there are bad mothers also but very very low percentage of them.
Recall DV Saachi marriage scene...DV was suffering so she begged Saachi to marry him...after marriage she asked Saachi to look after her family and her son...in return Saachi asked her to be her mother and not mother in law...Saachi kept her promise...helped DV progress in life,was keeping him happy,and finally even agreed to get out of his life if need be! ...
Tell me who is keeping her promise ? Neena or Saachi ? That's why I call it a myth...a mother in law is a mother in law...not a mother! If Saachi had a mother how would she react? And how would Neena react if this happened to Isha ? Two sides to a coin !
I hope this answers your question Ben...
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