losing a loved one - Page 2

Originally posted by: ak75

Losing a loved one is too painful and for me time has not reduced the pain at all.

Originally posted by: ChloeBoro

Lovely topic Tina. It may be a sad one, but definitely very useful. Losing a loved one is the most painful emotion one has to go through and I remember when I experienced it, I immediately had to grow up and got inspiration to achieve in life as soon as possible. But while trying to keep myself busy and sculpt my future, I didn't actually let my grief out properly and one day it just hit me and that wasn't nice at all. From experience I can say that you need proper closure and for that, you have to face it, let it all out.

Thank you for making this post hun. Hope you are doing alright. Much love

Originally posted by: _AngryBird_

Losing a loved one is not less than death to self, 🤢 according to my view..
That pain can never go away forever.. 😭
Yes one can forget pain with time, but the memories, often bring tears to eyes, irrespective of time...
Keeping urself busy in work is one way of trying to forget pain, but u cant wipe off pain totally..
Loss of loved one will always remain a loss.. An Irreplaceable loss...😔

Originally posted by: tinatartari

Bennie bro i knw hw painful it is nd its the best defence mechanism 2 go numb nd possibly the 1st one too in a grief reaction bt i thnk this shudnt stop here..one has 2 start accepting it nd cry their heart out in front of their loved one..this helps feeling better nd coping up becomes easy...

obvio u cn get bck ur loved one that u lost bt still thr r other ppl too whom u love nd who love u a lot..

so max after 2 days,one shud cry out loud nd lots while keeping ur head on a loved ones shoulder nd then move on...this way it ll nt affect u psychologically...

r u getting my point bro??

Originally posted by: tinatartari

thnks bhabhi 4 appreciating...bt the one for whom i made the post is still nt very vocal abt it nd he refused my pleading request too...😭

bt i hope nd m sure he ll open up soon..nw lets see when...

Originally posted by: moderator1961

Losing a love one... hmmm.. hmmm. it all depends on when you lose them, who you lose and how you lose. Yes, any loss can get really traumatic. Based on the three questions, i can tell you, losing someone to death is understandably traumatic. Time heals this loss as it is natural. Losing someone for other reasons can be depressing, such as jilted love. TIme stands still.. This kind of loss seems unnatural and seeks justice!

From my years, i can share one thing with you - if you love someone, no matter who or what, the more attached you are, the more deeper the loss or the hurt. The more you release, the lesser the pain and the hurt. This is one test of true love. It does not get attached to anyone or anything...The deeper the love the more loose will we clutch on to it. Here is irony.. if we clutch on to things or people we lose them.. if we let loose, they hold on to us... ironically funny, but very true.

Here is what i do... when i lose something, i just fast forward myself to the end of (my) time.. and then all of a sudden, all my feelings, emotions, loss, just vanish and i am filled with a sense of understanding that "this too shall come to pass" and i am at peace.

Originally posted by: BenPhillips

Beautifully written😊 and I got your point behna, don't worry tera bhai teekh hain yaar, itna stress kyun le rahe ho tum?

❤️

Originally posted by: BenPhillips

Please relax both of you... behna thank you for making this post but really I am fine😊

Originally posted by: tinatartari

mjko patha hai bhaiyya mera bhai teekh nahi hain...per usko nae patha..m trying 2 make him understand this..now if i dnt take stress for my bro,who shud i take stress for??

my love?hose love i never ws??nd who is still making fun of my feelings??😡