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tina tartari

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi everybody..ibm at the forum again with another topic..please tell me that how does it feels when u just lost a loved one?have u ever lost somebody?how 2 cope with that?
this isnt just a topic nd nt meant 4 myself..so plx share ur experience nd memories of ur loved one...

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Ben Phillips

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Posted: 11 years ago

When you experience loss, you feel numb.

I have experienced it and the way I cope with it is keep myself so busy, that I don't have time to face the pain

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nancy

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Posted: 11 years ago

I have lost my naana 7years bk. & I think tht pain can't be expressed in words.

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lakshmi aparna

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Posted: 11 years ago

Tina, pls engage urself and become busy, forget the past and just get along with the life!!

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Anuppama

@ak75

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Posted: 11 years ago

Losing a loved one is too painful and for me time has not reduced the pain at all.

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Chloe Boro

@ChloeBoro

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Posted: 11 years ago

Lovely topic Tina. It may be a sad one, but definitely very useful. Losing a loved one is the most painful emotion one has to go through and I remember when I experienced it, I immediately had to grow up and got inspiration to achieve in life as soon as possible. But while trying to keep myself busy and sculpt my future, I didn't actually let my grief out properly and one day it just hit me and that wasn't nice at all. From experience I can say that you need proper closure and for that, you have to face it, let it all out.

Thank you for making this post hun. Hope you are doing alright. Much love

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_AngryBird_

@_AngryBird_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Losing a loved one is not less than death to self, 🤢 according to my view..
That pain can never go away forever.. 😭
Yes one can forget pain with time, but the memories, often bring tears to eyes, irrespective of time...
Keeping urself busy in work is one way of trying to forget pain, but u cant wipe off pain totally..
Loss of loved one will always remain a loss.. An Irreplaceable loss...😔

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tina tartari

@tinatartari

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: BenPhillips
When you experience loss, you feel numb.
I have experienced it and the way I cope with it is keep myself so busy, that I don't have time to face the pain

Bennie bro i knw hw painful it is nd its the best defence mechanism 2 go numb nd possibly the 1st one too in a grief reaction bt i thnk this shudnt stop here..one has 2 start accepting it nd cry their heart out in front of their loved one..this helps feeling better nd coping up becomes easy...

obvio u cn get bck ur loved one that u lost bt still thr r other ppl too whom u love nd who love u a lot..

so max after 2 days,one shud cry out loud nd lots while keeping ur head on a loved ones shoulder nd then move on...this way it ll nt affect u psychologically...

r u getting my point bro??

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tina tartari

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: naneta
I have lost my naana 7years bk. & I think tht pain can't be expressed in words.

whats naana nancy??

i lost my grandmother whom i ws deeply attached to 6 yrs bck nd i still feel the pain..

wenever m sad nd missing her,i cry alone a lot nd this makes me feel better..

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tina tartari

@tinatartari

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: aparna37
Tina, pls engage urself and become busy, forget the past and just get along with the life!!

aparna m over it nw..i ve learnt 2 live life nd even aftr seeing him every other day still nt gettng affected though smtimes it hurts within bt i dnt show it anymore,nd thats killing him,i cn bet😆

this topic is dedicated 2 sm1 else who i care about a lot...

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